[gmoneysauce]

(01-16-2017 12:38 PM)Brazilianguy Wrote:  

Gmoney,

Would you have any idea of how big is the slice of young girls who are into older men? Perhaps about 30%?

completely unknown and I am not sure that it is a very useful question. One thing that I have learned from this forum is that we have to create a sense of abundance, develop ourselves in our life journey, and understand that women will probably come and go into and out of our lives. My friend has a thing called the rule of three, always have three girls you are working, so you don't get too caught up in one, unless you really find one that you want to get into an LTR with.

I am going to be biased by my personal experience, obviously, but, I think that we do need to play the numbers and the numbers are better in a very large metropolitan area. I don't have that wide of experience, only a couple of really shitty US cities, and Mexico City (well, some in Playa Del Carmen and Tulum).

Other, more experienced forum members have alluded to age differences not being as much of an issue in Colombia also.

I think that US cities might have the worst ratios. But, that is the general Anglosphere issue and you have to accept your situation as it is. I live in one of the worst cities in the US but I have been plugging away, discarding what doesn't work and trying new things.

G

[gmoneysauce]

(01-16-2017 12:32 PM)KidA Wrote:  

And, most importantly - she became a bitch.

Sad!

This is exactly my experience. Rare is the woman that does not become a bitch by 30 or even 25, in the anglosphere.

[xmlenigma]

(01-16-2017 09:02 AM)Phil Jackson Wrote:  

What thread shows that Gio works on campus?..

He's mentioned it before.. His work was kinda related.. it/ his life gives him access to.. Atleast I remember reading that..

(01-16-2017 10:40 AM)Vaun Wrote:  

I do not disclose my dalliances with women any longer. Not with good friends, acquaintances or with anyone for that matter. I date 10-20 years younger. Occasionally I will date a woman my age or older. I've found that by taking about your woman; be it relationship advice, bragging, whatever, people just get tired of it. You always want to have an air of mystery about it, and let people ask you.

This! I've got to keep this in mind.
But, once in a while its nice to share/ discuss with a close bro, who GETS IT! Gets the Red Pill..

(01-16-2017 11:00 AM)gmoneysauce Wrote:  

(01-16-2017 07:57 AM)xmlenigma Wrote:  

(01-15-2017 01:12 PM)gmoneysauce Wrote:  

There seems to be a significant slice of 18-25 year olds that are attracted to older men.

more on this later....

Not everyone has the privilege to work and live on campuses like Gio .. So what's your angle of ACCESS, APPROACH & ATTACK?

The Access has been a shotgun approach. A little of everything, day game, night game, seeking arrangement, Tinder, organic grocery stores, etc. There is no magic bullet although Gio has had some of the best advice. In a city where there are college campuses........

I have gone to Mexico City and day gamed in the Condesa for hours. Coffee shop after coffee shop after cafe, and Tinder.

Approach has been using suit game, when appropriate, then just working the situation. I have found that sometimes I get a number and they get really spooked and you have to do some phone calls, texting, go slow over a couple of weeks or months before you get any opportunity to spend some time with them.

I don't bring up age and they don't usually either. I shave my facial hair because I have some gray hairs. I don't try to dress 'youthful' per se but I do wear a stylish suit and shirts.

Overall, there is no secret except for patience and perseverance.

G

This is where I'm wondering "how, when & How much" to let on or convey.. in terms of flirting, amped up flirting, sexual innuendo, i.e. Statement of Intent (Explicitly or Implied).. The keeping it flirty (stay out of friend/ platonic zone) and yet, not scare them off.. by being too forward/ or sometimes calling them on it (despite the fact that they know quite a bit of the millenial sexuality).

PS: I mention because I went from being flirty to texting (they live on text, despite me calling her) and I think it just killed the original vibe when we met (she mentioned she was into older guys that time itself) (Girl 24 had lived studied in an East coast Metro before moving back to Asia)..

Honestly, I dont have the time & patience to await their flaky yes/nos in terms of meeing up.

(01-16-2017 11:12 AM)gmoneysauce Wrote:  

(01-16-2017 10:30 AM)Brazilianguy Wrote:  

(01-15-2017 01:12 PM)gmoneysauce Wrote:  

There seems to be a significant slice of 18-25 year olds that are attracted to older men.

more on this later....

I´m very interested in that.
I am currently 35 years old, and I´m shooting for the 18-22 range girls for girlfriend material.

How do you identify and deal with these girls?

I answered most of this in another reply. But I would add that there seems to be a couple of inflection points in men's age where you go from young guy, to a guy in your late 20's early 30's, then to being 'older', then on to the silver fox range.

You have to build your own game based on your own assets and who you are looking for and what they are looking for. I think at your age you would have a different approach than I would. I am into the next age range.

Older man game (pre-silver fox) is about playing into their fantasies or ideas about older guys. Be active, in shape, dress well, be very mature and articulate, don't give advice all the time (lecture) but ask questions about them, don't be judgemental. Have interesting stories and don't bore them. Take the lead, plan dates, and, you will have to instigate physical contact as they will not usually do that. Except for latinas, I have them usually immediately grab my arm as we walk down the street.

Also, I tend to avoid the blonde american suburban chicks and date Latinas, and black girls.

Check to all of the above.. But sometimes despite your best game, they have a too much social activity coming their way that.. trying to make a PLAN to meet seems one sided.. (does respond flirtily on text.. but getting to fix a meet.. )
well.. Do you go radio silent & next and wait ? or choose to ping once in a week/ 2 weeks?

(01-16-2017 12:32 PM)KidA Wrote:  

(01-15-2017 12:38 PM)Travesty Wrote:  

^ In my experience girls change tremendously from 18 to 21-22 years old. Mentally that is when they go from girl to young women, and are usually much more pleasant to hang out with.

I don't doubt this statement's truth for the most part, but a contradictory anecdote:

I dated a girl during her first summer out of high school. She was fantastic.

• fun, bubbly
• mature - much more so than several college+ girls I've been with
• completely sexually inexperienced - something I personally prefer
  

I broke up with her upon summer's end as I couldn't see it going anywhere. She was going across the country to an Ivy League school.

You probably know where this is going.

Each successive year she embodied more SJW characteristics - like checking off a list. Ultra liberal ideals, celebrating degeneracy, "dating multiple people at once," etc.

And, most importantly - she became a bitch.

Sad!

Dare I say.. Seen it happen too much.. And so much "stress, anger, negativity" in them..

[southern120]

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