I was accused of rape back in February.
I had met a girl off a contact thread on 4chan (should have been a red flag right there).
She contacted me on skype and we hit it off fairly quick. Turned out we lived 20 minutes apart and decided to meet up that weekend.
I meet her at a park and we bullshit for a little bit, but I knew she was really there to hook up. So I made my move some 15 minutes after meeting her. After a few hours of hanging out in the woods and messing around (kissing and playing with her tits) we decide to go to her house. We watched some movies and ended the night with me eating her out and getting a blowjob.
We continue to talk on skype just about everyday (red flag number 2) and decide to hang out the next Friday. This time I cavemaned it and stuck it in raw. Turned out she was on her period, so we stopped because she was uncomfortable. I cleaned up and she finished me off in her mouth (she swallows). After that I hang out with her for 5 hours watching TV and movies until she goes out to meet up with a friend.
She contacts me later that night. I ask her if she had a good time and she said yes. We talk for maybe a half hour and she goes to bed. The next morning I contact her. She goes to take a shower and when she comes back she says "You know you raped me right?"
At first I play it off as a joke, I did meet her off of 4chan afterall, and during previous conversations she was asking me if I would choke her during sex. After she says "If I told my father, he would kill you" I knew she wasn't joking and I stop talking to her and save our entire internet correspondence. She told me not to worry because she wasn't going to tell anybody, but I knew better.
Two days later I get a phone call from her. I don't know why I picked up the phone, but I did. She says "Why did you rape me? You know I didn't want to have sex until after I got on birth control. You heard me say NO. I want you to apologize." I went into POW mode and said "If this is why you called me I'm hanging up". I didn't know if she was recording or not. She said "Fine, bye".
The next morning I have a detective from her town and a detective from the county knocking on my door. "We have a little matter we'd like to discuss with you. Mind coming down with us?"
I gave them some bullshit about having to run some errands for my family before coming down and agree to meet them in a few hours. I'm shitting bricks at this point. What the fuck am I going to do? I didn't rape her, but it's a he said/she said story and I could certainly be arrested.
I go down to meet the detectives at the County Prosecutor's office. The County detective meets me and she starts making small talk with me. She's trying to get me comfortable with talking to her so I'll be more likely to talk when they put the heat on. We get into the interrogation room and the town detective is there and he's got his arms crossed and a scowl on his face. As far as he's concerned, I'm guilty. The female detective is leading the questioning and it's mostly small talk. I notice that she has her shirt unbuttoned and her bra is hanging out. She was quite attractive and I wonder if it was a ploy to see if my sexual deviance would show.
After about 5 minutes of nothing, she puts my Miranda Rights in front of me.
Miranda Rights
After reading and hearing your rights do you understand them? Yes
After reading and hearing your rights do you wish to continue the conversation? No
"NO? Well, since you asked for a lawyer, we legally can't continue this conversation (trying to make me feel bad)"
"Please wait here a minute."
They leave the room and come back a moment later. I ask if I'm free to go, and I am. I never contacted a lawyer because I can't afford one. I haven't heard from them since. The funny part is, the cops never told me why they wanted to question me, and I never asked because I already knew.
My mistake was talking with her too much. I built a comfort level with her that was in contrast to who I actually am.
I had met a girl off a contact thread on 4chan (should have been a red flag right there).
She contacted me on skype and we hit it off fairly quick. Turned out we lived 20 minutes apart and decided to meet up that weekend.
I meet her at a park and we bullshit for a little bit, but I knew she was really there to hook up. So I made my move some 15 minutes after meeting her. After a few hours of hanging out in the woods and messing around (kissing and playing with her tits) we decide to go to her house. We watched some movies and ended the night with me eating her out and getting a blowjob.
We continue to talk on skype just about everyday (red flag number 2) and decide to hang out the next Friday. This time I cavemaned it and stuck it in raw. Turned out she was on her period, so we stopped because she was uncomfortable. I cleaned up and she finished me off in her mouth (she swallows). After that I hang out with her for 5 hours watching TV and movies until she goes out to meet up with a friend.
She contacts me later that night. I ask her if she had a good time and she said yes. We talk for maybe a half hour and she goes to bed. The next morning I contact her. She goes to take a shower and when she comes back she says "You know you raped me right?"
At first I play it off as a joke, I did meet her off of 4chan afterall, and during previous conversations she was asking me if I would choke her during sex. After she says "If I told my father, he would kill you" I knew she wasn't joking and I stop talking to her and save our entire internet correspondence. She told me not to worry because she wasn't going to tell anybody, but I knew better.
Two days later I get a phone call from her. I don't know why I picked up the phone, but I did. She says "Why did you rape me? You know I didn't want to have sex until after I got on birth control. You heard me say NO. I want you to apologize." I went into POW mode and said "If this is why you called me I'm hanging up". I didn't know if she was recording or not. She said "Fine, bye".
The next morning I have a detective from her town and a detective from the county knocking on my door. "We have a little matter we'd like to discuss with you. Mind coming down with us?"
I gave them some bullshit about having to run some errands for my family before coming down and agree to meet them in a few hours. I'm shitting bricks at this point. What the fuck am I going to do? I didn't rape her, but it's a he said/she said story and I could certainly be arrested.
I go down to meet the detectives at the County Prosecutor's office. The County detective meets me and she starts making small talk with me. She's trying to get me comfortable with talking to her so I'll be more likely to talk when they put the heat on. We get into the interrogation room and the town detective is there and he's got his arms crossed and a scowl on his face. As far as he's concerned, I'm guilty. The female detective is leading the questioning and it's mostly small talk. I notice that she has her shirt unbuttoned and her bra is hanging out. She was quite attractive and I wonder if it was a ploy to see if my sexual deviance would show.
After about 5 minutes of nothing, she puts my Miranda Rights in front of me.
Miranda Rights
After reading and hearing your rights do you understand them? Yes
After reading and hearing your rights do you wish to continue the conversation? No
"NO? Well, since you asked for a lawyer, we legally can't continue this conversation (trying to make me feel bad)"
"Please wait here a minute."
They leave the room and come back a moment later. I ask if I'm free to go, and I am. I never contacted a lawyer because I can't afford one. I haven't heard from them since. The funny part is, the cops never told me why they wanted to question me, and I never asked because I already knew.
My mistake was talking with her too much. I built a comfort level with her that was in contrast to who I actually am.
10/14/15: The day I learned that convicted terrorists are treated with more human dignity than veterans.