Quote: (03-27-2012 04:18 PM)Walnuts Wrote:
Enticing the girl with the potential of a jackpot, beta? I can't call it.
This is where you are mistaken. This is
not trying to
"entice the girl with a potential jackpot".
This is simply telling the girl -
"Lets gamble baby!"
Gambling is really a great date idea. We all should be taking girls to casinos more. I even went to an NBA game with a girl and we bet on the game. I put up 30 and she put up 20.
(I know, I'm beta)
Anyways, the fact that we gambled on the game together made the date awesome. We actually lost because John Wall is a loser but it went right down to the wire and made the night very exciting. I banged her a week or 2 later but if we would have won that bet, I think we would have banged that night. The only thing better sexier then gambling together is winning money together!
Quote: (03-27-2012 04:18 PM)Walnuts Wrote:
I just feel that the girl should already be attracted to you enough that she wants to come over regardless of this little trick. I think we should strive to improve our value as a man rather than rely on lines and tricks like this.
In theory, I agree with you, we should be a man of value so that the girl likes us just because out personality, etc. But, girls are idiots, you could cure cancer, aids, create world peace, take over Apple computer and guess what?
The girl still might say
"oh, he is too nice, he's boring".
Proper gaming requires an understanding of female psychology. What we "value" is not always the same as what they "value". They need a certain amount of unpredictability and tension to get turned on.
They also often need what we call -
plausible deniability -
which is an excuse or distraction for her brain. She doesn't have to face the reality of going to your room to possible bang you,
because that might make her feel like a whore. Saying that your going to the room to scratch tickets gives her that deniability.
And, it also provides that element of unpredictability. I bet when girls gamble they almost feel like they are doing something illegal. Which is perfect!
Walnuts, you would be surprised how illogical and crazy girls are..