Quote: (02-08-2012 02:45 PM)Samseau Wrote:
Quote: (02-08-2012 11:52 AM)Roosh Wrote:
I'd send her money every month, as much as I could afford. I want my spawn to survive.
Thank god I haven't had to deal with this shit, but if she got preggo I'd accept responsibility for my actions and help pay for the child. I like children too much to let them die by my own actions.
Quote: (02-08-2012 04:11 PM)UrbanNerd Wrote:
It would hard for me to bail. I grew up with a father in the home and to be honest, it was cool to know you had that foundation and support. I would do as much as I could financially and timewise (from a distance). I don't give chicks a lot of vital information anyway so I COULD BAIL if I really wanted to but I would help support my kid. The cool thing is that it would be on my terms.
These three responses basically sum up my thoughts.
I would never ask her to get an abortion, and I'd probably discourage her if she suggested going in that direction-I'd honestly prefer to support my child as best I can.
Hopefully, if I chose her wisely, she'd be cool enough that we can organize payments without the court getting involved (idealistic, I know, but possible). If she's a foreigner, even better (less punitive family laws), though I'd have to shell out a lot to fly out to her. We'll see-I haven't had to deal with this type of situation yet, obviously.
If she went ahead with the abortion and I found out, we would not speak again. I don't think I could forgive it. I'm not sure how I became so pro-life. I'm fairly secular/agnostic, though I was raised quite traditionally so maybe that's it. Regardless, I can't kill my kid.
For these reasons, of course, I have to be careful who I get with unprotected or otherwise (accidents happen). Abortion is never an option for me, so if an "oops" were to occur with a girl who I didn't particularly like or think would make a good mother, I'd probably be stuck with it.
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