Quote: (02-09-2012 02:15 AM)Indefatigable Wrote:
Sounds like NYC is not all that it is cracked up to be. But is it better than T.O.? I'm not even talking about quality, just how easy it is to meet women in general. For example, do women go out with the intention of meeting men? This may seem like an odd question to ask, but it seems that very few women in Toronto do. Women at the clubs not even looking at men is the norm here. It's like they want to feel dersired, but have no desires of their own in terms of men. Do they give off a negative vibe? Again, that's the norm here. Is it common to get numbers in bars and clubs? Again, Women in Toronto seem to have a rule against this. I suspect that many women here wouldn't know what to do if they came across the man of their dreams (physically speaking) at a club; they'd be paralyzed by their attraction on the one hand and their seemingly deep seated reluctance to meet men at clubs on the other. Do women avoid eye contact like their lives depended on it? Again, that is the norm here.
Truth be told, I don't doubt that NYC is better (it is so bad here almost anywhere else has to be). I'm just want to know know much better it is.
I think NY is the #1 city when it comes to potential and possibilities of living an incredible "City" life. From my post it might come off like NY isn't what its cracked up to be because how NY is portrayed in film/tv isn't how NY actually is on a "mainstream" level. Most people who come to visit NY will not have a true NY experience as if it was the "city that never sleeps", "always something to do", etc.
As for your questions its generally easy to meet women in general due to the hordes of women around. If the right guy comes along then the woman will be open to lots of possibilities. Most people in clubs are bored, most people in general have a shitty life. Despite many living in NY majority have no clue where to go or what's going on in the city.
Honestly, the stuff that happens women wise happens because of my vibe. I always get looked at and women are always wanting/hoping to meet me. I'm not like most guys though so it would be "off" for me to say NY women are easy to meet. At the end of the day it comes down to the guy and how women respond to his presence.
As for NY though, its an amazing city if you actually setup your life in the proper way. There are so many amazing restaurants, random events, types of people, etc. What do I mean...
- Many people spending 40-140$ tickets to see a big DJ, I see the same person for FREE in a smaller venue. Recently there was a skrillex "secret" party and I mean secret because it was only a secret if you didn't even know of the club.
- There is no middle ground in nightlife, either its "real good" or "shitty". This is why majority of people in NY have a hard time finding a decent place to go too during the weekday. Not realizing there are venues that are PACKED as if it were weekend.
- NY "High End" scene is an illusion that is so confusing to most that they never even bother. The benefits of having access is incredible. Were talking private 100person club where you can pull to the bathroom no problem. Victoria secret after party, model agency parties, etc. An if your into more of the rap scene every tues/wed/sun there is a place to find some of the hottest curvy chicks you'll ever see.
- The whole "vibe dining" aspect of NY, where as a 9-5er you could literally just dine out for dinner and meet some gorgeous women hanging at these trendy restaurants. One hotel has it down to a T, it was to the point where the lobby was more profitable than going to a random shitty venue.
It's surprising how many women who live in NY didn't know about this stuff. Good example is an aspiring model I once brought to dinner with me, her only comment was "Wow, I never seen so many beautiful people together". Basically a friend hosted a FREE dinner at a fine dine restaurant with about 15 of us. (Majority were models) I also once took a girl to "Le Bain" at standard hotel, many people still haven't heard of this place and not a single girl has been shocked by the venue. Its basically on like the 18th or 21st floor. There is a POOL in the center of the lounge and you can go on the roof where there is hot tubs, fake grass and lots of chill seats. The view is sick!! That isn't even "Boom Boom Room" which is also at the standard hotel which just oozes luxury.
To give an example of a day in NY when you know about the stuff going on...Sunday...
- Meet up with a female friend at a brunch party where I meet a group of guys/girls next to us who had a table. Free champagne and fun times as its 3 guys and 8 girls.
- Female friend reserves a table at a restaurant which gives us 30% off and we devour our meals and then chill out on the rooftop of "le bain" going back and forth
- Meet up with a connector friend who gets my female friend cousin into the club. It's not his scene so I take them to a 2nd club, still not his scene so I take them to a 3rd club which he loved. All 3 clubs we had free drinks and a table.
The chick texted me the next day saying how much I delivered because her cousin was so hyped about his NY experience. The 3rd venue was basically rappers/sports players poppin bottles.
Its rare to find an actually NYer who leverages there life in a way where they can fully enjoy NY for what it has to offer. Still remember a friend...
- Brought me to one of his dance classes that had 70-80 homely women
- Brought me to an after hours at a guys restaurant, he went in the kitchen cooked gourmet burgers and rack of lambs. He nonchalantly would open up bottles of wine, champagne. We were in there at 430-5 locked from the inside, didn't leave until 7-8