Your retrospection should be directed at yourself and not at her. Nobody should expect an easy transition in that situation from a girl half your age and halfway around the world. Secondly you don’t know what you want and are yoyoing lives of others because of that. I’m not attacking you, I’m just as guilty of that as you and that’s why I know it. modern man is just as much fucked as the modern woman. We can talk about Instagram whores and how they expect this and that but how are our expectations any more realistic or better? Back in the days of successful marriages do you think anyone would have divorced because they resented an outburst from 3 years ago and divorce a good caring wife who doesn’t even go after their money because of that? Nope, you just suck your feelings up.
My parents stayed together 50 years and they had hundred more reasons to separate but nobody cheated or hurt the other one and they had a good family so they stuck it out.
Are you clear in your head about what it is you’re expecting from a marriage at this point? And is it rationally realistic?
My parents stayed together 50 years and they had hundred more reasons to separate but nobody cheated or hurt the other one and they had a good family so they stuck it out.
Are you clear in your head about what it is you’re expecting from a marriage at this point? And is it rationally realistic?