Quote: (12-17-2014 04:02 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:
You guys are listing all sorts of stuff
- minor quibbles that you can see at a glance, which may or may not lead to some horrible conclusion.
- turn offs that really say nothing about what the girl's behavior will be like
- major issues that she'll probably conceal forever, but definitely after you've gotten entranced by the pussy.
I get that this board is 85% entertainment between TPS reports, but we got a chance to take a serious topic seriously.
WIA
Paradoxically, I think the stuff you can see at a glance, or quickly, are the most efficient indicators to "stay away."
The hypothesis behind this is that personality is holographic, meaning the fundamental personality is expressed even in little things. Even tiny indicators should alert you to look for confirming patterns later. "Let's meet a C mall." What about b mall tomorrow instead." or worse, "Not sure, will text you later about it."
In women, to summarize, the largest road block to a good relationships is NON-COOPERATIVENESS.
It could be because she's too stupid to read the needs of others, so dedicated to her parents that you are just a financial appliance, too stoned, too religious, too ANYTHING.
But the WHY-- DOESN'T MATTER!
Only the fact she is uncooperative for any reason.
I have to grant credit to Roosh in an early article he did saying "You don't need to understand women. " where he argued you just have to see what they do, which is ultimately all you care about. And Mystery for his advocacy of early "compliance tests." And Janka with his maxim "Difficult women remain difficult."
Shown by.
1) Lack of ability to bond
2) Lack of ability to be submissive once she has bonded.
That's why I think the thing I mentioned above, little resistance in small matters when you first meet her and are arranging meetings, for instance, are so useful.
That same uncooperativeness is expressed in a more covert way by her history of drug abuse ( didn't listen in school) , alpha cock addiction ( didn't listen to or didn't have a dad), tattoo binges ( Didn't listen to anyone.)
You can't easily find these things out DIRECTLY and QUICKLY, but the hints of it come early in small signs of uncooperativeness.
I've become more and more aware of this as I've been meeting dozens of Filipinas, and they often have agendas that I find out only after wasting HOURS talking to them.
For instance, they want to send money to their parents for a few years before they have kids.
That's just wonderful and admirable, but I don't want that.
Every time you eliminate a girl quickly for non-cooperativeness you can save days or weeks you'd be spending with a hopefully more agreeable chick.