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04-22-2016, 07:12 AM
One last time to make it clear.
Do
Not
Speak
To
Her
If she comes up and calls you out on it. Say you didn't hear her. That's all. Please don't make me repeat myself.
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04-23-2016, 12:52 PM
I approach girls all the time, but it's generally not that difficult, as most girls who are interested in me will sit near me, stand near me or throw a glance my way. If they don't, they are not interested.
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04-24-2016, 03:16 AM
What do you do when a girl gives you her number, you text her, and she either flakes on the date or never responds? This happens a lot because I got to a University and I'm not sure if I should cut them off when I see them or say hi and stay in a chippy attitude.
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05-03-2016, 12:10 AM
In getting to know girls, even those much older than me, I've often noted the same "you're a plebian" contempt, which they don't give to girls. It's not always about sexual unfitness, there is a genuine contempt for most men being beneath them. One such older girl tried to show off her "class" to me after I had given a speech, but upon finding my life mundane, she instantly switched to "who do you think you are talking to me" mode. Such cases are common now. I'm pointing this out to say that it doesn't seem to be just in the realm of romance. It's egotistical, so that's where an explanation could begin. They could be just overating themselves as individuals, but why the focus on men? Perhaps they feel that male ideals are what constitutes a normal man, and thus that average men are weird? These attitudes seem to have become common with cell phones and internet, so the cause is probably something hugely influenced by that. It's a big enough issue to be worth exploring.
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05-04-2016, 05:33 PM
You need the habit of *taking action* without caring about the results.
Does a writer beat himself up over not finishing a book in one day? No, they just focus on getting in a good 5000 words every day.
Does a golfer tear his hair out for not getting a hole in one? No, they just keep practicing to get better and better.
Does a player get pissed about not getting the exact response they want every time? No, they just put in the work, because they know at the end of the day this is just a numbers game and eventually all the effort you put in will bring you the sweet, juicy reward you have earned.
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06-25-2016, 09:13 AM
Hey guys, I had situation with a girl where I am thinking if I should even acknowledge her presence the next time I see her. As a fellow student she has tried talking with me before but I never really engaged her. I was playing some pool by myself in the common rm of my residence and there she was with her junior male friend. She seized the opportunity to ask me questions about my course, which city I am from etc. But I did tell her that I dont know a lot of ppl from my course such as her.
My fault for readily giving out answers, should have let her guess. But, I focused on my game and didnt give her all my attention ie. engaging her friend, replying to her qns while focussing on the game. The she mentioned she stayed with her husband before she moved in to residence as he went to work in another city (already indicates disinterest). I didnt make too much of it, then she switched off and from then on started talking to her friend in some other language. Was pretty rude, but soon after I finished my game, I left without saying/implying anything, she was on the phone at that time. And I dont think its good frame to start a convo with her the next time I see her even out of courtesy.
Thing is I was not interested in her so I was being naturally a bit aloof but I am wondering what turned her off suddenly. It was a light hearted convo with my attention barely being on her. I did tell her friend that I was new to table tennis when I was playing with him though I dont know if that made a difference.
And one more thing when a girl asks you what her friend told you abt her what is the 'correct' thing to say? I said 'nothing bad' in this instance.
Any thoughts? Thanks gents.