I always liked Latinas. In the U.S. I mean, not in Lat Am. I've dated US-based Latinas more than other women for two simple reasons: I'm very attracted to them, and they tend to be more feminine than other women.

Is that changing or is it just my little circle?? I've got several friends here in Phoenix who are married to or dating Latinas. Most have retained their looks/figures through their late 30s, in typical latina fashion (they just don't let themselves get fat, except the ones from a lower socio-economic rung, who tend to be chubby early on).

HOWEVER, their behavior is atrocious! Each of these girls (and their are 4 in particular who come to mind) don't cook, have turned their husbands/boyfriends into their personal chefs, go out drinking while the husbands stay home w/ the babies, flirt like mad, and sometimes do more than flirt!

I know latinas have always been fiery, and jealous. I can deal with the jealousy. But also I've known them to be good wives and girlfriends. It seems that's changing.

Quote: (03-21-2015 11:04 AM)The Father Wrote:  

But WTF happened to Latinas who cook, clean, and let their men take charge?

They came to the US or grew up here and adapted to our culture.

Quote: (03-21-2015 11:04 AM)The Father Wrote:  

Or is it because the particular men involved can't handle them? All of their husbands/BFs are skinny white-bread geeks. I think that's a big part of it.

You are correct here. All women will walk over you if you show no backbone but Latina women alongside Black women and from what I've been told, Arabic women, will bust your balls quicker than other ethnic groups of women if they see you not taking charge. This is what's happening with the guys you mentioned.

Latina women are still generally very feminine and do know domestic skills. There are a good amount of Mexican women here in the U.S> that qualifies but you have a higher chance of finding these women in Latin American countries.

Quote: (03-21-2015 11:12 AM)Gringuito Wrote:  

Quote: (03-21-2015 11:04 AM)The Father Wrote:  

But WTF happened to Latinas who cook, clean, and let their men take charge?

They came to the US or grew up here and adapted to our culture.

This. Water always takes the form of its container.

You gotta get a 1st generation Latin chick or go to their country and keep them there.

Quote: (03-21-2015 11:18 AM)Goldin Boy Wrote:  

You gotta get a 1st generation Latin chick or go to their country and keep them there.

Yes, if you can't go to their country then find a newly off the boat girl that only speaks Spanish. Don't encourage her to learn English. The US girls aren't stupid. I've overheard them giving a recently arrived girl the "here's how it works here" talk. Keep in mind that us guys get the same talk when we arrive down in South America from our friends there, lol.

Is it really common for married American women to leave their husband and kids at night and go out partying? You should be able to spot that type of shitty behavior long before you make her your wife. Sounds more like an indictment of the husbands than the wives.

After the ROK post on the reasons why you should date a latina in your lifetime came out, I decided that I'm going to dedicate a thread on the game board to dating latinas.

I'm Latin, I live in a city where the majority is Latin, and I pretty much date latinas exclusively.

It is my opinion that it's a wrap on latinas being some sort of fall back if your white girls, black girls, whatever it is that you are and that you're accustomed to, are no longer doing it for you.

It seems to me the "it girls" are now the Asians.

I had a bad Asian bitch a little while back and I see why dudes get caught up, but she was such a headcase, I had to let her go -- I'm a real laidback dude, that's the Caribbean in me, and drama just fucks up my whole vibe.

I enjoy having sex with latinas, and I will continue to have sex with latinas, but I have no interested in engaging them in any real relationships -- I only do mini-relationships with college-aged latinas and I keep one bottom bitch who's in her late 20s.

We're talking about U.S.-based latinas, so I think we should leave out experiences some of us have had with latinas while traveling through Latin America since that is an entirely different beast.

U.S.-based latinas have bought into feminism and it's disgusting, this is especially true amongst Puerto Rican and Dominican women. I was in NYC not too long ago, and I was on the train listening to some dominicanas talk about feminism, and I was sitting there thinking, "Bitch, go make some sancocho."

When the gringos started simping after them.

Always been a fan of the Latina crazy. The ball busting tends to force guys to take authority and put their foot down while white girl shit tests cause mainly annoyance.

Quote: (03-21-2015 11:38 AM)hwuzhere Wrote:  

Always been a fan of the Latina crazy. The ball busting tends to force guys to take authority and put their foot down while white girl shit tests cause mainly annoyance.

I brought this up in the ROK latina thread, why is it when latinas are "fiery" it's viewed as sexy, but when Black girls do it they just have bad attitudes?

Something about that distinction just doesn't work for me.

That fiery shit is why you end up having to put hands on them sometimes.

But that's what a lot of them want, a lot of them use that drama as fuel for sex, they get off on it.

I'm done for now, when I post my thread, I'm going to go balls deep on this topic.

The same thing happens to Filipinas. It is like once they step over the border, the entitlement vampire bites them. It seeps into their bloodstream and they can never return to normal without an exorcism.

Keep them in their host country wherever that may be lest ye also have the lifeblood sucked from your veins.

I've been in Texas for a year and haven't had a problem with the Latinas here. These girls yearn for a man that isn't a machismo tool or a thirsty simp. Life is good when you got game.

Absorbing black ratchet culture and/or white SWPL culture, depending where you are and what type of latina.

In the northeast, Dominicanas and Puertorriquenas lean hood rat, Colombianas, Argentines, and Cubans lean SWPL (e.g. I've banged a Cuban American girl who didn't Spanish, and didn't know any of the latin dances). This is not absolute, of course, just tendencies.

The problem here is stereotyping, not Latinas son locas. That and unrealistic expectations that any woman is going to stay a certain way without her man providing proper guidance.

Western culture enables (and encourages) poor behavior, but you can't throw your hands up cause there isn't a moral police to make her wear a hijab.


WIA

Hot topic. I have been busy so I went for the easy lay up and back into pathetic land called online dating.

A 29 old yoga instructor on Tinder looked like a hot Latina. But she was strangely pursuing me in the interaction(RED FLAG). I just figured she was weird.

Get there she is already into one glass of wine(RED FLAG). I tell her I have kids. She thought I had guessed that about her. Turns out she was 40(RED FLAG) with a, get this, 22 year old kid(RED FLAG).

Instead of walking out, I say screw it and proceed to drink a lot of wine and make out with her. She tells me her daughters father was a "bad man" and "never wanted him in her life"(RED FLAG). She got knocked up in her first semester of college, and probably hated the father and prevented her daughter from knowing her dad(RED FLAG). She's Mexican and grew up in the US. She looks good for a 40 yo. After several glasses and make outs in the corner she starts doing weird shit like staring at me(RED FLAG), and licking my nose and face(RED FLAG). She started really getting into it.

Then, at the end of the night, she bites my lower lip, really hard(RED FLAG). So hard I thought it broke the skin and would make my lip black and blue. I was so pissed, I held in my rage, got up and got the waiter to split the check, and walked out. She texted me "I date several wealthy men and your just not adequate"(RED FLAG). She doesn't deserve another text or second from me.

Would have to qualify as THE WORST date I have ever had.

It sprung the question in mind; is cuckholding that common? Are there lots of guys that actually get off on that stuff? I would consider any outright physical abuse on me cuckholding, a girl bites my lower lip as hard as she can, she tries to lick my face and nose in a semi public spot(wine bar), tries to be physically hurtful to me?

I am a man, and have a high pain threshold, but I dont enjoy a women in any way that tries to really injure me. I dont understand or get cuckholding, I've never wanted to visit a dominatrix or experience that, and frankly find it weird because I have zero sexual connection to that.

Is humiliation, cuckholding and male sexual abuse, where the man actually derives pleasure, the ultimate result from our liberal blue pill society? Like the strange sexual culture in Japan?

So the whole night was weird and just made me want to follow Roosh's advice and never online date again.

Quote: (03-21-2015 11:41 AM)jariel Wrote:  

Quote: (03-21-2015 11:38 AM)hwuzhere Wrote:  

Always been a fan of the Latina crazy. The ball busting tends to force guys to take authority and put their foot down while white girl shit tests cause mainly annoyance.

I brought this up in the ROK latina thread, why is it when latinas are "fiery" it's viewed as sexy, but when Black girls do it they just have bad attitudes?

Something about that distinction just doesn't work for me.

That fiery shit is why you end up having to put hands on them sometimes.

But that's what a lot of them want, a lot of them use that drama as fuel for sex, they get off on it.

I'm done for now, when I post my thread, I'm going to go balls deep on this topic.

I think the distinction is that a black girl won't even stop if you get physical at times. She'll egg you on and fight back twice as hard but a Latina will stop. The patriarchal male authority tends to be more enforced with Latinas. Then again I haven't dated a plethora of black girls, but the 4 I did I had to walk off and ignore them until they apologized. The second I asserted control with a Latina or passed a shit test with a white girl though all was right and they would back down.

Quote: (03-21-2015 11:50 AM)Aliblahba Wrote:  

I've been in Texas for a year and haven't had a problem with the Latinas here. These girls yearn for a man that isn't a machismo tool or a thirsty simp. Life is good when you got game.

I was in Austin over the last week and I was thinking of coming back and spending some real time. Never seen so many nice looking latinas in one place.

Keeping a latina requires strong frame and a firm hand. Although some Latin men advocate a strong show of violence at the very beginning to demonstrate to the woman that you are crazy enough to smack them around, you can go around that with very firm and consistent game. Using a phone book or smacking something out of their hands can be too risky I think. Just demand and exhibit strong frame.

If you put up a strong affront at the very beginning it stays with them for years. Asians and Latinas have this benefit. Black and white don't work well with this. They require a consistent even handed approach of just plain old solid game. Latinas and Asians just have a learning curve. Try violence or roughness with black women and it will backfire eventually.

Quote: (03-21-2015 01:45 PM)TravelerKai Wrote:  

Try violence or roughness with black women and it will backfire eventually.

Yeah, piss off a black girl and you'll wake up with your pecker super glued to your belly button.

^ Using a phonebook?

Do you mean phsyically swatting them with a phone book instead of an open back hand?

Quote: (03-21-2015 12:37 PM)Vaun Wrote:  

Then, at the end of the night, she bites my lower lip, really hard(RED FLAG). So hard I thought it broke the skin and would make my lip black and blue. I was so pissed, I held in my rage, got up and got the waiter to split the check, and walked out. She texted me "I date several wealthy men and your just not adequate"(RED FLAG). She doesn't deserve another text or second from me.

Would have to qualify as THE WORST date I have ever had.

It sprung the question in mind; is cuckholding that common? Are there lots of guys that actually get off on that stuff? I would consider any outright physical abuse on me cuckholding, a girl bites my lower lip as hard as she can, she tries to lick my face and nose in a semi public spot(wine bar), tries to be physically hurtful to me?

I am a man, and have a high pain threshold, but I dont enjoy a women in any way that tries to really injure me. I dont understand or get cuckholding, I've never wanted to visit a dominatrix or experience that, and frankly find it weird because I have zero sexual connection to that.

Is humiliation, cuckholding and male sexual abuse, where the man actually derives pleasure, the ultimate result from our liberal blue pill society? Like the strange sexual culture in Japan?

So the whole night was weird and just made me want to follow Roosh's advice and never online date again.

I've always looked at women biting/scratching me as a request for rough sex. I've only had one that seemed to really be into biting but, I've had plenty of others scratch the living shit out of my back/ass. It definitely sounds like she's crazy though.

Quote: (03-21-2015 02:05 PM)Medic42 Wrote:  

I've always looked at women biting/scratching me as a request for rough sex. I've only had one that seemed to really be into biting but, I've had plenty of others scratch the living shit out of my back/ass. It definitely sounds like she's crazy though.

I dont mind back scratching, but this was way over the line.

Some people are dealing with ratchet bitches man.

I've been with Asian, Latina, Black, White, I've never had these problems people are talking about.

Women hitting you? Throwing things at you? This is crazy you need to drop these girls immediately and only deal with people who are in control of themselves and not insane.

Quote: (03-21-2015 02:29 PM)Sonsowey Wrote:  

Some people are dealing with ratchet bitches man.

I've been with Asian, Latina, Black, White, I've never had these problems people are talking about.

Women hitting you? Throwing things at you? This is crazy you need to drop these girls immediately and only deal with people who are in control of themselves and not insane.

It's probably a subject best left for another thread but, I seriously have a terrible weakness for crazy bitches. My friends fuck with me about it nonstop but, I can literally pick them out of a crowd and used to catch feelings for them. I've at least learned to treat them like fuck and chucks but, I've got some serious introspection to do.