21 years old Asian 6'1" (about 185cm) average/athletic build avg/slightly above avg looks, proper hygiene/style, moderate game
No debt because scholarships and responsible spending
Graduating college in December w/ Business Admin degree from decent college
Around $100k Net Worth, mostly liquid. Not wealthy by any means, but doing well for my age and comfortable.
Current monthly expenses at about 4-5k/month plus whatever extra shit I do like go to RSD summit.
Been making about 75-100k/yr on average since age 18 without a degree (very unstable income though)
Current self employed internet marketing job allows me to live wherever I want, though moving right now could definitely complicate shit with my local business setup especially if I move countries
Potential income in multi six figures soon depending on how these IM projects work out
If I had to take a 9-5, would want to have a sales job, like selling cars at a Porsche dealership
Currently dating a couple of girls nearby who I really like. One is basically an escort but doesn't charge me anything. I really don't want to give this up because I've never had this before and don't want to start over again.
I also have a handful of close friends nearby and feel pretty secure in my social circle here. They are mostly pickup guys that are pretty dedicated and a couple of people from college. Don't want to start over with that or lose my connection to these guys.
Since I have been dating the same few girls regularly recently I feel much less leverage for game, don't see the point of working so hard to approach 250 sets to get one lay when I can get laid easily with girls I like more. It took away my drive to spam approach a lot of women but removed my neediness.
I have a "cheat code" for game where if I move to a new city I can easily get 5 new lays in a month's time. So staying here doesn't really seem as appealing as moving to a new city.
Texas is not the best state for game in general, especially for Asians/Minorities. This is just a fact.
Only attracted to white women.
Other areas of the world like Poland would be relatively easy as fuck to game in. (American in Poland = EZ lays) or if I moved to a college party town in California. Same thing, EZ lays.
If I move somewhere else entirely, I've gotta sell all of my furniture, ship or sell my car, relocate all my business equipment, pay for long distance shipping of all my shit, etc. And not to mention restart with my dating/social life completely.


Moving is a bitch :/ Where the fuck do I go?? Haha man I am confused.

Thanks

Eastern Europe all day. Fuck living in the US.

Quote: (09-14-2014 02:18 AM)aphelion Wrote:  

Eastern Europe all day. Fuck living in the US.

where in ee?

I've heard good things about Las Vegas, living outside the strip. Apparently expenses are lower there, and all the chicks are hot. There is a good article/podcast on it on 'dangerandplay.com'. Not sure what the tax differences are compared to your state but that is something to look at. Lower taxes = effective payrise just for moving, which sounds easier for you since you work online.

Out of interest, how did you get into your line of work?

Quote: (09-14-2014 01:37 AM)Advantage Wrote:  

extra shit I do like go to RSD summit.

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Currently dating a couple of girls nearby who I really like. One is basically an escort

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I have a "cheat code" for game where if I move to a new city I can easily get 5 new lays in a month's time.

You should go to some SE Asian country like the Phillipines. You would kill it there.

In the US? NYC, no doubt about it.

Cut the humble brag shit and PUA lingo, brah.

I'd say it's pretty important to work on your personality, and how you come off to other people. Perhaps I'm being a dick, but I'm also being real with you. Living in another country isn't an easy one, and any negative personality traits you carry back in the states will rear their head exponentially abroad.

I'm 30, give or take, and I don't think I could have jumped ship abroad any earlier. It's not a 'show up and take over' mentality that sometimes gets falsely portrayed around here. I've never been more successful in the short months I've moved away from home, but I've never been more challenged in doing it either.

Quote: (09-14-2014 01:37 AM)Advantage Wrote:  

Other areas of the world like Poland would be relatively easy as fuck to game in. (American in Poland = EZ lays) or if I moved to a college party town in California. Same thing, EZ lays.

Have you spent time in Poland? Can't say I remember seeing an Asian kill it there. Poles aren't as open minded as Americans.

I don't know where people get this idea that America is bad for minorities. There's no country where minorities have it better.

For your situation I would probably say NYC or LA. Plenty of hot girls in both places, and I think that a guy like you would do well in either city.

Regarding Poland, simply being American alone does not mean that you'll get laid easily. You'll need to have tight game and put in the effort. Eastern Europe isn't what it used to be.

Quote: (09-14-2014 08:50 AM)Biologist Wrote:  

For your situation I would probably say NYC or LA. Plenty of hot girls in both places, and I think that a guy like you would do well in either city.

Regarding Poland, simply being American alone does not mean that you'll get laid easily. You'll need to have tight game and put in the effort. Eastern Europe isn't what it used to be.

I'm saying that it's relatively easy. Same amount of game here produces less results than same level of game abroad...

If you knew Spanish, Cali Colombia would be a good place for an Asian american. Many girls who I talk to say they get warm and tender feelings when they see an Asian person. Like the want to hug them.
At 21, Cali is a gold mine for young girls especially since 90 percent of men your age here are dead broke Many girls stay home on Fridays and Saturdays because the cost of going out is prohibitive.


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If you are getting EZ lays and making money why the need to move?

I can tell you need to grow up, I have friends with Porsches and they make good money but pussy doesn't fall from trees for them. Funny enough I saw an Asian dude rocking a Ferrari convertible in Stockholm last week, as usual no bitch in the front seat.

Quote: (09-14-2014 01:37 AM)Advantage Wrote:  

Current self employed internet marketing job allows me to live wherever I want, though moving right now could definitely complicate shit with my local business setup especially if I move countries
Potential income in multi six figures soon depending on how these IM projects work out
If I had to take a 9-5, would want to have a sales job, like selling cars at a Porsche dealership
Currently dating a couple of girls nearby who I really like. One is basically an escort but doesn't charge me anything. I really don't want to give this up because I've never had this before and don't want to start over again.
I also have a handful of close friends nearby and feel pretty secure in my social circle here. They are mostly pickup guys that are pretty dedicated and a couple of people from college. Don't want to start over with that or lose my connection to these guys.
Since I have been dating the same few girls regularly recently I feel much less leverage for game, don't see the point of working so hard to approach 250 sets to get one lay when I can get laid easily with girls I like more. It took away my drive to spam approach a lot of women but removed my neediness.
I have a "cheat code" for game where if I move to a new city I can easily get 5 new lays in a month's time. So staying here doesn't really seem as appealing as moving to a new city.

Ok, let's see if I got this right. Basically you are tall, athletic, making a shit-ton of money for your age (with your own business) and fucking model quality girls.

On top of that you have the potential to start earning even more money if you stay AND you mention that you don't want to start all over again with the dating and social scene... but somehow you want to move.
All on this on a first post...

If you are so driven, why do you need strangers' advice to find out where you want to live? You're not even asking specific questions, like "what is the nightlife like in Colombia" or "How much does it cost for extremely reliable, fast internet service in Poland."

As far as I'm concerned anyone looking to make a real move would come to the table with a general idea of what he needs to learn about the situation to help him make a decision.

More importantly, nothing you said tells us shit about your desired lifestyle. Pretty much all you mentioned were numbers. I'm not sure how we can give you advice based on what you say you already have. It's more a question of what you want.

Don't plan a move just yet. Take some short trips and see how you feel.

The idea is not to burn your bridges. Wait until you have a burning desire to move somewhere before putting any plan in motion.

Read Slubu's Russia and Budapest reports to get an idea. Once you get hooked on a place like Slubu has, then it's time to move.

You might want to start accumulating airline miles using credit cards. Since you have a head for numbers and responsible spending, you would probably enjoy the process.

Your first trips can be anything that suits you.

Drift around Europe for a month, doing the hostel scene. The best months for this are May-September.

Travel with a buddy from home and get an apartment for a month. Put some structure around the trip (Monday to Thursday we work on our new website campaign, then Thursday 6pm to Monday morning we unwind and chase girls).

Take a language class for a couple of months in a new country.

We get that kind of question here at least once a week.
the travel Forum is a gold mine of info foR virtually anywhere in the world.

Here's the best tip anyone can gie you here:

Take an hour or two and use the search option in the forum. You'll get all your questions answered in no time.

Roosh, here's a suggestion:
to avoid newbies making repetitive and trolling threads, limit the option to start threads to guys with at least 100 posts. Would reduce the number of trolling threads by a good 99%!

Go somewhere you can really save money. Most girls around your age won't need a lot of money to be spent on them or need you to show much status to date them. Location independent income lets you move somewhere cheap with high quality girls.

You have a long time left to game well- potentially 20 years. Enjoy yourself but if you can make 6 figures early in life and save a substantial portion of it and invest wisely, you'll have plenty of money in your 30s to take years off to travel and pursue hobbies, start a bigger business venture or even retire early.

I didn't spend everything I earned in my 20s but I wish I was saving more and investing more then. I have a friend who did and granted he has a huge salary but he's likely to semi-retire before he hits 40.

Quote: (09-14-2014 01:37 AM)Advantage Wrote:  

21 years old Asian 6'1" (about 185cm) average/athletic build avg/slightly above avg looks, proper hygiene/style, moderate game
No debt because scholarships and responsible spending
Graduating college in December w/ Business Admin degree from decent college
Around $100k Net Worth, mostly liquid. Not wealthy by any means, but doing well for my age and comfortable.
Current monthly expenses at about 4-5k/month plus whatever extra shit I do like go to RSD summit.
Been making about 75-100k/yr on average since age 18 without a degree (very unstable income though)
Current self employed internet marketing job allows me to live wherever I want, though moving right now could definitely complicate shit with my local business setup especially if I move countries
Potential income in multi six figures soon depending on how these IM projects work out
If I had to take a 9-5, would want to have a sales job, like selling cars at a Porsche dealership
Currently dating a couple of girls nearby who I really like. One is basically an escort but doesn't charge me anything. I really don't want to give this up because I've never had this before and don't want to start over again.
I also have a handful of close friends nearby and feel pretty secure in my social circle here. They are mostly pickup guys that are pretty dedicated and a couple of people from college. Don't want to start over with that or lose my connection to these guys.
Since I have been dating the same few girls regularly recently I feel much less leverage for game, don't see the point of working so hard to approach 250 sets to get one lay when I can get laid easily with girls I like more. It took away my drive to spam approach a lot of women but removed my neediness.
I have a "cheat code" for game where if I move to a new city I can easily get 5 new lays in a month's time. So staying here doesn't really seem as appealing as moving to a new city.
Texas is not the best state for game in general, especially for Asians/Minorities. This is just a fact.
Only attracted to white women.
Other areas of the world like Poland would be relatively easy as fuck to game in. (American in Poland = EZ lays) or if I moved to a college party town in California. Same thing, EZ lays.
If I move somewhere else entirely, I've gotta sell all of my furniture, ship or sell my car, relocate all my business equipment, pay for long distance shipping of all my shit, etc. And not to mention restart with my dating/social life completely.


Moving is a bitch :/ Where the fuck do I go?? Haha man I am confused.

Thanks

@Advantage, stop the boastfullness and calm down a bit. Based on your post you seem to have it made where you're at, so why even consider leaving? Also, your comment about Poland just cracks me up! Have you even been there? I have, and just because you're a good-looking American and have cash flow does not mean "EZ lays". There are dozen's if not hundred's of guys on these forums who had to work their asses off in Poland to pull quality. Major game will be required there, especially if you happen to be based in a place like Warsaw which can be notoriously difficult and American "exotic" factor is almost null.

For your age and stats definitely move to a California college town like Isla Vista near UC Santa Barbara, or Garnet Avenue in Pacific Beach, or Chico State area. I've heard good things about Scottsdale and Tempe, Arizona as well.

The college party environment is a very American thing and you can enjoy it at your age.

Don't go abroad until you are a little older.

Quote: (09-14-2014 01:51 PM)Tigre Wrote:  

Don't plan a move just yet. Take some short trips and see how you feel.

The idea is not to burn your bridges. Wait until you have a burning desire to move somewhere before putting any plan in motion.

Read Slubu's Russia and Budapest reports to get an idea. Once you get hooked on a place like Slubu has, then it's time to move.

You might want to start accumulating airline miles using credit cards. Since you have a head for numbers and responsible spending, you would probably enjoy the process.

Your first trips can be anything that suits you.

Drift around Europe for a month, doing the hostel scene. The best months for this are May-September.

Travel with a buddy from home and get an apartment for a month. Put some structure around the trip (Monday to Thursday we work on our new website campaign, then Thursday 6pm to Monday morning we unwind and chase girls).

Take a language class for a couple of months in a new country.

I like Tigre's answer (above). Follow Roosh's own experience to EE, but center on Wroclaw.

There is a reason for Wroclaw, since you dig beautiful white women: Wroclaw is part of Silesia. Historically, Silesia has been part of Germany, but more importantly, Czechia.

The Czech's are famous for science, engineering, and producing model-quality beauty. Only, in Catholic Poland now, easier pickings.

And for an American from the deep heart of Texas, who's tall and relatively exotic looking...I can't see how you won't clean up like Roosh did - (heartbreaker)!

So, putting that out there - GENTLEMEN, tell us how I'm wrong? How our OPs comparative youth, for example, makes my expectations for him all WRONG! And my comparison to Roosh, silly!

First put your business in the cloud, second go to a company that specializes in virtual office space get an address in whatever town USA you dont want to lose your local presence. Third get a map close your eyes and throw a a dart, or read the threads as VP suggested.... Do that every time you get bored soon enough you'll find the perfect city for you, and/or you'll have a damn good time searching....

Any one with 100K to their name doesn't need help from a random forum. At that point, it is a question of what he desires and his personal preferences. It really isn't time to settle down with that money at 21. It is time to see the world and make his own decision where he wants to be.

When you can easily afford a hotel room for a few weeks anywhere in the world, it's time to hit the road.

Self made 75K - 100K a year income since you were 18? "Unstable income?" And now you're 21 and you ALSO went to college?

Sounds to me like you sell Oz's of weed at a time.