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06-19-2011, 06:32 PM
Concerning Canada. I'm hearing a lot about Winnipeg. Is that place more ideal for brothas than say Montreal? I would love to go to Montreal because of the Europeaness, the sights and all of that. I'm hoping it also comes with jungle fever! However, in the end the place that has that hight cases of jungle fever will win out for me. So, in that case, is Winnipeg better than Montreal. By the way, I'm hearing people say that the Caribana in Toronto is super ghetto and played out.
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06-19-2011, 07:19 PM
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Your question is a tough one to answer. Winnipeg is definitely a place that brothas should visit, then again so is Montreal. Montreal is more of a place where everyone can get down regardless of race. Brothas will kill it specifically in Winnipeg (Montreal as well but more so Winnipeg). Montreal has more and better women than Winnipeg. Then again, Winnipeg women may require slightly less game and but are also attractive. Montreal is a far more eventful city than Winnipeg by far. There is much more to do, and the city is much more esthetically pleasing than Winnipeg. If you stayed in Winnipeg for more than a week (probably less) you'd be bored (especially if you come from a large US city). Many people swear that they could live in Montreal or that it was a european city. I'd say Winnipeg is better for brothas but Montreal is better for every man. Does that make sense?
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06-21-2011, 07:25 AM
Quote: (06-21-2011 03:21 AM)woshichun Wrote:
Who in here is black..raise your hand. I need to know who to watch my stuff around.
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06-21-2011, 07:09 PM
Generally speaking in South America black ppl are seen as the poorer race lower on the totem poll per say. I was just recently in Colombia and I never once saw a hot non black chick walking with a blk dude. I think a blk guy will have a much more difficult time pulling a fine ass non black chick in South America compared to a white dude. I dont know about brothas getting denied entrance to clubs, never seen that. This isnt to say a brotha cant pull ass in South America, certainly he can. Just got to be aware of the social dynamics.
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06-21-2011, 09:25 PM
Some people cannot read, I think the fact is that a black guy from North America will always be viewed in a positive light.
In most countries the people can tell if the black person is local or foreign ( I suspect Colombia would be the same ). Heck when I go to the Caribbean I might as well be white b/c the locals pick me out a mile away.
I personally can tell the difference between a black guy from the UK as opposed to a black guy from USA or Canada.
Sadly, too many people here seem to think that a black guy is a black guy no matter where he is from.
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06-21-2011, 10:09 PM
Quote: (06-21-2011 09:25 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:
Some people cannot read, I think the fact is that a black guy from North America will always be viewed in a positive light.
In most countries the people can tell if the black person is local or foreign ( I suspect Colombia would be the same ). Heck when I go to the Caribbean I might as well be white b/c the locals pick me out a mile away.
I personally can tell the difference between a black guy from the UK as opposed to a black guy from USA or Canada.
Sadly, too many people here seem to think that a black guy is a black guy no matter where he is from.
I dont think the issue is picking out and distinguishing a local to non local brotha. The issue is in most of SA the fared skinned females will simply not be attracted to the brothas near as much as they will be to the white blonde haired blue eyed dudes. Just as a white guy will not get as much attention in Scandinavia compared to the black guys. It all comes to down to location preferences of the local women. Just like no one would advise a clean cut white dude to go game puerto rican bitches in NYC. Doesnt mean blk guys cant get laid in SA or that white dudes cant pull ass in Sweden. Its just ppl will advise against it and point you in the direction of "greener pastures"!
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06-21-2011, 10:42 PM
So you are telling me to avoid Colombia b/c the women will not like me.??? Other black dudes on this forum who have been there and are stating the opposite.
I tend not to listen to other people anyways, I like to make my own assumptions from my own experiences. In a large country like Brazil and Colombia there are boat loads of women, my goal would not be too sleep with everyone of them but to meet a cutie or two. Which being well built, bald-head, decent looking and confident should help to some degree, compared to a black person in those countries that knows there place.
Scandinavia was paradise for me but that is just me, no I am not special. But the fact is the black guys that were doing well there were American, one girl even told me that the African dudes pretended they were American and how pathetic they are.
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06-22-2011, 12:58 AM
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Deebow , Glad Bogota worked for you But i have been traveling to Colombia for some 10 plus years and Black men do not do well . Maybe along the coast but Bogota and Medellin no way . I also have seen Black guys turned away from places in Colombia . I have not seen many Black men in Medellin or Bogota I think I saw a few doing security in a bar in Medellin and the fact that I remember this tells you just how rare it was . I just don't see Colombia as a good fit but things can change .
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You didn't see hardly any black guys in Medellin? Really? How long ago was this? After all the hype about Medellin being the "whitest part" of colombia, I was pleasantly surprised to see black, white, mestizo and everything in between. This shouldn't be suprising considering blacks make up a higher percentage of the population of colombia than they do in the U.S.
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06-22-2011, 01:06 AM
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06-22-2011, 03:18 AM
Well i also dont think dark skin guys will do extremely well in spanish speaking countries, be it in south america or be it in the caribbean.
Some nightclubs wont even allow darkskin guys to come in..if the bouncers are thinking like that, imagine how the chicks will think.
However if you look good and you have game, i believe you can pull ass there,but you wont be highly successful as other dudes that are ligher than you and also game good.
I remember this dominican guy telling me before i went to DR, that the lighter you are there, the more successful you are likely to be with the girls. And that was so true.
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06-22-2011, 04:46 AM
yeah no doubt speakeasy.
Its also obvious that mulattos will have a different experience comparing to dark skin guys, im a mulatto and my experience in SA is totally different from darkskin guys. Man i got so many stories about this that i dont even want to get started.
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06-22-2011, 05:38 AM
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Quote: (06-22-2011 03:18 AM)pitt Wrote:
Well i also dont think dark skin guys will do extremely well in spanish speaking countries, be it in south america or be it in the caribbean.
Some nightclubs wont even allow darkskin guys to come in..if the bouncers are thinking like that, imagine how the chicks will think.
However if you look good and you have game, i believe you can pull ass there,but you wont be highly successful as other dudes that are ligher than you and also game good.
I remember this dominican guy telling me before i went to DR, that the lighter you are there, the more successful you are likely to be with the girls. And that was so true.
I think this is going to be reality for the majority of men. There are always going to be a few outliers with matrix level game that will do good anywhere. But I think denying the reality of deep colorism is Latin America is ridiculous. I mean hell, just turn on the TV. Every actor/actress is white as snow, even in countries with a brown color majority. They don't even want to see themselves on TV! I believe Int'l Swag when he says he does good there. But I also remember him saying he is somewhat racially ambiguous in looks. If he looked strait up African like Seu Jorge, short of being a famous musician or footballer, the experience could very well be different. I like the article IS posted about being race transcending, but I think that works best in parts of the world like the West that have a culture of anti-racism and some history of fighting against it. Your ability to transcend race is still constrained by the culture of your country. Ask any black that went through Jim Crow if he was able to transcend his race in Alabama. Much of Latin America is still in denial about this stuff. Look at the Sambo stamps the Mexican government issued a few years ago as proof.
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As far as I see it, any blk guy that thinks he is "preferred" or "sought after" with the non blk women of SA/CA is in denial imo. Given equal game a white dude with blue eyes blonde hair will pull 10X the ass of a black dude in a place like Colombia.
@ InterSwaggr & Rudeboy
No one is telling yall not to go anywhere. Like InterSwaggr said there will always be a few chicks that will dig ur style and being American no doubt,but in comparison to the country on a whole that number is small. In conclusion, what it comes down to is I would not recommend SA/CA for dark skinned brothas if you are tying to swoop non blk latinas. Now if you are doing p4p than the grls wont discriminate and ur skin color wont be an issue as all the girl see's is dollar signs anyway. With all that said If you like latinas than GO to SA/CA! If you work hard enough and got some style Im sure you can find alil something something.
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06-22-2011, 07:24 AM
Quote: (06-22-2011 06:13 AM)InternationalSwagger Wrote:
I do believe If you are a lighter skinned brotha It will get you in the door faster in these particular countries BUT just because you are dark skinned you won't be totally shut out and you will still have plenty of options. Once again you come with high level GQ Game, DHV, Dress, Dance, Fuck Good & looks and you will be good to go.
That's all good and well, but this whole issue seems to raise another question for guys like that: why really bother?
You're basically admitting here what everyone else has said: dark skinned guys have a much harder time in some parts of Latin America, though a darker guy wouldn't be "totally shut out", so long as he is at an elite level of game. He would require that high level of game/dancing/style/etc to compensate and get even with his lighter skinned black and white peers who do better just on the basis of appearance.
But why put in all of that effort just to hit the baseline that your lighter peers naturally reach? A dark skinned guy can go to many parts of Europe or Asia and do better for less.
This is an issue of value or "Return on Investment"(ROI). Based on what I'm hearing here, I'm not so sold on the idea that parts of Latin America offer a solid ROI for a lot of darker skinned men.
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But If you come like a sloppy backpacker prepare to be shut out...In the DR I can personally vouch for the hatred they show dark skinned people. I befriended a guy who was Haitian down there (DR) in 2004 and many of the girls I hooked up with were asking me not to bring him a long or wouldn't hook him up with their homegirls and he wasn't a bad looking guy at all.
Again, an issue of ROI: why work to overcome prejudices in a land where people actually hate darker skinned people when you can spend your time in a place where they're more open to you? Why bother trying to tame tigers when you don't need to?
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06-22-2011, 09:05 AM
Yeah i agree that white women like more dark skin guys than mullatos, the only "white girls" that prefer mulattos over dark skin guys, are latina white chicks. I am not that much into white girls so i dont care, but if they have a booty like alexis texas, then i want to fuck her.