Quote: (10-08-2013 04:07 PM)Giovonny Wrote:
I am reminded of the 80/20 concept..
20% of the guys are fucking 80% of the girls.
If you are in this 20% of guys, 100 notches is nothing. We have guys on this forum getting closer to 500-1000.
But, if you are in the 80% of guys who struggle to get laid -- 100 probably seems like a million. Impossible.
It not impossible. But, you must make MASSIVE, I mean, MASSIVE changes to your situation and strategy. You must rewire your brain and restructure your life! It's difficult but doable.
For sure, this really is a lot of what it boils down to the 80/20 concept, but I think a big part of the divide is in terms of men's looks. Sure we can all put in the effort to spend years in the gym, work hard and make money to afford top notch clothing, etc., but at the end of the day, not all men are created equal when it comes to looks and height.
This is stating the obvious, but I think a lot of the guys who think it's easy to obtain 100+ notches are in the top 20% of looks. When you are better looking than 80% of other men, it will make attracting and bedding women that much easier, sometimes even to the point where the women are putting in a good bit of effort to facilitate the hook up.
Not to say that average looking guys can't achieve 100 lays, but aside from a couple guys, the only dudes I know personally that have 100+ notches are way above average in terms of looks and height.
The other guys who have near that many notches either have exceptional game, or fuck fugly fat girls. I know a guy with according to his estimate 300 notches, but he's fucked some real trolls. Whereas I have no where near as many, but I've always kept my standards so much higher, there are plenty of girls he's banged, I wouldn't even touch.
Really what it boils down to are looks, game, and location. Ideally you have all 3, but at least 1 of the 3. A guy who women rate a 9, with exceptional game, who lives in the most ideal spot in Miami or NYC will kill 100 times harder than a guy who is a 6, has decent game, and lives in the rural south.
Obviously we all strive to improve ourselves and our situations in life, but sometimes we can only improve so much, everyone has a "ceiling" to how far they can take it.
There are some outliers out there, but if you look like Steve Buscemi good luck laying 100 women in your life outside of being famous or truly rich, whereas a 6 ft. 4 in guy who looks like Brad Pitt could work as a greeter at Walmart, but bed 100 women by the time he's 30 no problem.