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10-11-2012, 02:25 PM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VgK77f2rssY
I cant post links, but Tariq Nasheed made me a fan of his with his response to a similar ABC special that covered a topic similar to this. check that link out
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10-11-2012, 06:11 PM
Just listen to that feminine brasileira at 43:00....beautiful
makes a man want to get a one way ticket to brazil
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10-11-2012, 06:20 PM
Well I just think its a part of every man genetically to be drawn to the places where he has the most/best selection of mates. If I have the choice between the competitive American dating scene where women are valued, or parts of SEA, Latin America, Eastern Europe where the higher value is further tilted towards me, I will choose the latter. If the brothers in this video find that they have a higher value in Brazil, and that they are able to attain pussy more readily, and that Brazilian women care more for their relationships than its all good
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10-11-2012, 06:42 PM
I skimmed through the documentary, I guess I'm not as interested as I'm not a "brotha", but was kind of hoping to see more shots of Brazil and the women, instead of a bunch of dudes talking the whole time. I kind of wonder if the groups of guys interviewed hanging out were more about the p4p scene or about picking up women through game? I know a lot of black American dudes love to rave about Brazil, but how many of them are simply going to the termas vs. guys that have game, learn the language, approach like a beast, etc. Personally, I am not against p4p like a lot of guys on the forum, although I feel that it is more gratifying and important to pull through game, I am not opposed to p4p as a back up if I strike out.
As far as black women in America goes, I guess I am kind of biased because I am naturally less attracted to black women compared to other ethnic backgrounds, however a hot woman is a hot woman, I am DTF whether Sengalese, El Salvadoran, Eskimo, or whatever. That said, I think black American women typically are not very attractive, they tend to be overweight, and just don't take very good care of their health. Obviously, if they were less obese that would make them more attractive. But, on top of that they often have a shit ton of other issues, not very well educated, had kids at a young age, etc., etc. etc.
Black women in Brazil are 10X hotter than in the U.S., shit I'd love to sex me up some black Brazilian women. The only black chick I have banged was a Brazilian woman from Sao Paulo, she was definitely mixed with Native Brazilian Indian, and "mestizo", but would be considered black for sure in the U.S. Great tight body, big, round, firm tits, popping tight ass, amazing pussy... Unfortunately very few black women in the U.S. can compare....
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10-11-2012, 11:09 PM
See black women are too mean for me.
I'm taking my black ass on a plane to Brazil.
Nope.
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10-12-2012, 12:17 PM
Quote: (10-12-2012 12:20 AM)PhilE Wrote:
Quote: (10-11-2012 03:26 AM)Athlone McGinnis Wrote:
Quote: (10-10-2012 11:00 PM)Timoteo Wrote:
For white women, no matter what they make, they can probably find a man making the same or more (if she's decent looking). For black women, it's much more difficult. As one of the women in the video said, if I'm making six figures, he needs to at least be making $75k. In my circles, we've had this discussion, and that's truly how women feel. It's less about a man's intellect, and more about what he makes. If she's making $100k, she doesn't want a teacher that's making $35k, no matter how intelligent, decent and caring he is. She doesn't want to carry the financial load for a man. He could be blue collar and making more than twice that, but that guy doesn't have enough status, so he doesn't make the cut either. He's got to match her degrees, and come somewhat close on salary or he doesn't get a shot. They've painted themselves into that particular corner, and then bitch about there not being enough men.
The numbers are very stark when it comes to education:
-68% of associate's degrees earned by blacks are earned by black women.
-65.9% of black bachelor's degree recipients are black women.
-71% of black master's degrees are earned by black women.
-65% of doctors/professional degrees (Ph.D, Ed.D, M.D., J.D., etc) earned by blacks are earned by black women.
-As if this wasn't enough, black women graduate from high school at a much higher rate than do black men.
At every level of higher education (plus high school), black women are doing better than black men. Degreed Black women at all levels of higher education outnumber their male counterparts by a factor of at least two to one. Once you account for the homosexuals (who, unlike lesbians, are disproportionately represented among educated blacks), the ratio gets even worse.
A straight black male with a degree is a very rare thing. A male who meets that qualification while also being somewhat attractive (physically or otherwise) is about as rare as hen's teeth.
Given these unfortunate realities, it isn't surprising to learn of the high rate of singlehood among black women. Given their high demands (which, I'll concede, aren't too out of line with what white/asian women look for and are more often able to find), there is simply a critical shortage of men for them.
If you're one of the few who may meet these degree/salary qualifications (and I know there are at least a handful of these guys posting on this forum), the market should be good for you.
That is because men have to do WAY more riskier things to get money....so even if its not DRUGS or something illegal MOST MEN i know are trying to start a business of some kind.
I want to see the numbers of New Business Owner millionaires men vs women
I want to see the numbers of Surgeons who happen to be black, CEO's, Millionaire Bankers, etc...from what I can tell at the highest level its still BLACK men who out duel black women...and since black men have to achieve this insane preverse amount of success to just get that black women he has to do more riskier (read non college related) ventures to become successful.
If black women dated and loved college graduating men more than they do Dope Boys (and other super alpha male rich n***as) then college would be full with black men. But look how a registered nurse treats her counterpart male, the same for a paralegal. they all seek out the Doctor or the Lawyer and look down on the man at the same level as she is.
The goal for MOST women, regardless or race, is to date/marry UP. They may fool around with a guy on or below their level until they're serious about settling down, but once that moment comes, they're looking to upgrade.
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10-12-2012, 05:51 PM
I have been to Brazil (Rio, Salvador & Belo Horizonte) for a combined 12 trips. I have Brazilian women as probably the sexiest women out there. While, I would (and did) bang my share....
I was not going to marry any of them.
I would hope these dudes did like I did....bust that nut and keep it moving. What is an uneducated Brazilian or Dominican chick going to do for you outside of sex? I KNOW one is not going to risk bringing her here and risk losing your finances.
Hell, if going for a serious relationship...I am going with 6-figure/master's degree chick. If that relationship goes south, I won't be taken to the cleaners. Shiiiiiii....I DISQUALIFY chicks too...based on income too.
As long as dudes "stick and move" in Brazil and Dominican Republic it is all good.
Now if you start wanting a wife in the USA or Canada....it IS a business partnership.
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10-12-2012, 06:03 PM
Having said all of that.....
I have banged a good deal of those "uppity" chicks because (and the video proves it), IF you are a black man with some education and good income, you will have a BALL. Plain 'ole "beta provider" works. For me, it's fun when the educated black chicks start mentioning their degrees. Usually, my B.S. Math/Computer Science and M.S. Engineering is probably twice as hard as their majors anyway so that shuts them up. On top of that, while I do not have "Ivy League" schools behind my name, I do have two well-known Big-10 schools behind my name, so that "education edge" they THOUGHT they had is gone in 30 seconds of chatting.
Then, naturally...they want to talk about job and career.
Software Engineering pretty much shuts them up. They can be a damn super manager and I probably still rake in more than them.
I also made it a point to mention my parents so that they can't get any "mamas boys" thoughts, etc. I always mention my father and my upbringing.
Next question I usually get asked was "when are you free"??
Those chicks are not that hard.
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10-21-2012, 10:54 PM
The biggest problem for most black women is that they tend to make terrible dating decisions when they are younger and it bites them in the ass. There has been tons of research about black women in their 30s-40s who are single and feel that a quality black man is rare because many of the few that exists have chosen non black women. What these women tend to ignore is that they looked past most of these quality black men when they were in their 20s.
As a black guy I have had entire years where I have sworn off black women because of the way some of them have treated me. When I was in college most of the black women flocked to the frat guys and ball players. These guys tended to use up the chicks and discard them. Many of these same women then go on to date similar guys until they hit 30 or so and decide they want/need something more or their values change. For example, I've met black women in their late 30s who admit that when they were young they were more impressed by guys with flashy cars who recklessly spent money, but at their current age they value guys who have a history of being frugal. By this time many of them have had children and many quality black guys in their age range fall into two categories: 1)They know they are in demand so they don't settle down 2)They were smart enough not to wait and have already found someone.
Even in my early to mid twenties I found it hard to get close to some black women. Often when I would go out, it would be me in argyle and loafers and other black guys who were essentially wearing the stereotypes as snugly as skinny jeans. Guess who got the most play from most black women.
For some reason I also seem to hold black women to a higher standard, which means the slightest thing can be a deal breaker. For example, when one chick wanted to fuck to some little jon song that was ridiculously offensive to women I walked out on her.
I will say, and this is opinion, that I think if you pick the 10 hottest women of each hue that the darker ones would have the most beautiful features. I'm guessing that at least 70 of the 100 most beautiful women between 20 and 30 (based on actual physical features like size of nose in relation to face, waist to hip ratio...and not things like skin/eye/hair color) would be black or brown. If you up the age to 40+ then the number would probably shoot up to 80+ because darker women age better. The average black in America woman is not done in by a lack of beauty, but her attitude and early life dating preferences.
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10-21-2012, 11:18 PM
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10-22-2012, 12:57 AM
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What you said applies to every American girl I've met today
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10-22-2012, 09:11 AM
Truth be told - black men dont like black women,i have been saying that shit for years.
I am not sure if this is due to (white) media influence where black brothers were taught to believe that women who have lighter complexion are considered to be more attractive. All these black guys that say that the problem is not because these women are black, but because they are american, just ask them, what countries do they usually visit and what type of women do they find to be attractive. Do they usually find dark skin women to be attractive? I doubt it. Otherwise we would have more people on this forum, going to Jamaica, Barbados, Trinidad, Bahia (not Rio) and other places where black women are found in large quantities.
People are free to have their own preferences and they should date whoever they find attractive. But lets start facing the truth and admit that the majority of black men dont find black women attractive.
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10-22-2012, 10:24 AM
Quote: (10-22-2012 09:11 AM)pitt Wrote:
Truth be told - black men dont like black women,i have been saying that shit for years.
I am not sure if this is due to (white) media influence where black brothers were taught to believe that women who have lighter complexion are considered to be more attractive. All these black guys that say that the problem is not because these women are black, but because they are american, just ask them, what countries do they usually visit and what type of women do they find to be attractive. Do they usually find dark skin women to be attractive? I doubt it. Otherwise we would have more people on this forum, going to Jamaica, Barbados, Trinidad, Bahia (not Rio) and other places where black women are found in large quantities.
People are free to have their own preferences and they should date whoever they find attractive. But lets start facing the truth and admit that the majority of black men dont find black women attractive.
Good grief, I am so sick of reading shit like this from idiots who are only seeking to reinforce their pre-existing stereotypes by not looking at the issues/figures all that closely or who think they have black people all figured out because of the Chris Rock skit they have on repeat.
Black mens' aversion toward black women has a lot less to do with dark skin and a lot more to do with their baggage, ridiculously high obesity rates, bad attitudes, etc. You add the highly racialized social hierarchy we have in this country, and it's no surprise that upper class black men would date outside of their race in higher numbers due to artificial premium placed on white women. But even upper class black men, rappers and athletes (guys who have access to attractive white women who are willing to fuck them) the majority of them still marry black women even though they date- and marry-out in much higher numbers. These guys are still competing to marry the few thin, fit black women that are still left---if there were more of them, I think they would probably marry fewer white women (although they would still fuck them as often, of course). Take a poll of the NFL/NBA---these are all high-status black men who have probably fucked a lot of white women in their day. Sure, they marry out at much higher rates than lower class blacks...but most of these guys have black wives and that's how they want it. The statistics don't lie--most people like their own, which is only natural. Black people aren't any different.
And there are plenty of black guys on the forum who've been to places where black women are found in large quantities. Part of traveling is engaging in the novelty factor and having new experiences---and going to Sweden to fuck white women is
definitely a much different experience for (some) black guys than going to Jamaica. Traveling is in large part about doing something dramatically different---black men are no exception to this, as much as you'd like it to be so.