Quote: (07-14-2012 04:10 PM)Tuthmosis Wrote:
Quote: (07-14-2012 04:06 PM)soup Wrote:
Unique compared to the masses, but with a place like NYC, it's player player player.. there are so many guys out there running game.
But, I think that the best players I know run solo.
The best players roll solo when they actually roll, but the best players don't need special outings to holler at bitches. They're on call 24/7, wherever they may be.
Amen.
I as well am a disciple of the Dojo of Dolo, and yes, the Dojo Master was G and his piece (though trends had been apparent to me before that); helped open up my eyes, at home it's 90%+ (in fact only my best friend has the sufficient game to not-being-a-greedy-cockblocking-snake ratio required to roll with me to crunch numbers, but of course his life force is now gradually being sapped by an LTR), but here in China, where I don't speak the language, I still find the time to roll dolo (went out dolo last night, had a great time), but not always (the foreigner who speaks Chinese in China is the man you want on your team). Voted 80%.
The only time I'm not solo? With my family, with my friends at their places and with girls. Workout? Solo. Chilling? Solo. Night Game? Solo. Day Game? Solo. Shopping? Solo. I have met more girls that I have gone on to fuck solo doing any of these things (well except working out, I don't chop girls at the gym, and chilling, that's my 'me' time) than any of the nights when I used to go out with 'my boys' (yet they have failed to put two-and-two...my increased results, and them seeing less of me, together, note: find new friends).
Dolo for me, more then anything is about two things;
choice and
the removal fools and their weak game, minimizing the weaknesses in your Chop Chain™.
Like G said; dolo, I can walk into a place, post up, dig in the scene (with a gangsta lean) and make my judgments accordingly. Are drinks too pricey? is the music too loud and lame? Is the ratio poor? Is the talent pool shallow? If any of these things, rolling dolo gives the freedom to bounce (whereas with crew, someone might dig it and want to stay, constricting your options). It is not uncommon, on a dolo mission, for me to hit 2-3 places first before finding my ideal scene, think you can do this with a crew of your friends?
Second, the removal of weak links in the Chop Chain™.
Let me explain the Chop Chain (trademark) to you; If you have good enough game, you shouldn't be going to clubs and bars and lounges to chop leads,
you should be doing it everywhere; the grocery store, the library, the street, the beach, the airport, the bus, in class, at the dog park, online, and yes...in the bar, the club and the lounge. That day game is the only form of free of charge game to run and it's not being run or learned by every guy out there is our gain (though this is probably because its being recriminalized to talk to women on the streets of North America).
Bottom line; with good game, you can get laid by your own skills, and you don't get laid by your own limitations (so work on fixing them).
So, with
every single person you add to your chop chain, like in a regular chain, you decrease the odds to first half, then to one-third, then to one-sixth and so on and so on and so on that you will be getting laid that night; all it takes is one (in the G's parlance) suspect guy to ruin your flow with a poorly-timed miscue...such as:
- A bouncer shoulder-tapping you because your drunk friend mouthed off to a guy who is going to get his buddies (no doubt themselves unaware of Chop Chain™ mathematics) to kick his ass.
- A jealous guy shoulder-tapping to block.
- A poor guy shoulder-tapping to mooch some cash for another drink.
- A shy guy doing a tap to get you to 'wing' (agree, overused term) him to those girls over there.
And so on and so on, adding more guys increases the likelihood of a lameo, and it takes just one lameo to drink too much, cockblock, mooch or blow up your spot to ruin the sequence.
The strongest Chop Chain™? The Chop Chain with one link. When was the last time you saw four normal dudes, rolling out together, and all of them went back with a girl? 0 for 4 is the likely outcome, 1 for 4 is also a decent possibility, and I've even seen 2 for 4 once or twice, but 3 for 4 or 4 for 4? If there are no pics, then it has never happened, ever...in recorded human history.
Dolo: if you aren't comfortable with it, then get comfortable with it. If you aren't on the dolo tip at least 50% of the time, you aren't going to do as well as you could.