Hi guys,

I’m going to start a profile here. First time ever on online dating.

Is the elite membership worth it? I’m going to start with premium.

Thanks.

Quote: (12-07-2018 04:20 PM)jbkunt2 Wrote:  

Hi guys,

I’m going to start a profile here. First time ever on online dating.

Is the elite membership worth it? I’m going to start with premium.

Thanks.

Yes its worth it since you can't message without it. It puts you in a great position.

Hi guys, what is happening on Seeking, I am back in the game but hardly see any quality. There are much fewer girls on the site and the quality is quite low. I feel that this is happening in most Western cities. Someone has an explanation for this? Where did the girls go? Instagram?

I think the banning of the SA app on various iTunes has affected things.

Anyone use SA in South America? Plenty of 18-21 girls and they all seem down to meet up and fuck with just a dinner offering based on a few of my convos with them. Only one has directly asked for an allowance. Whats the catch? Or is SA like shooting fish in a barrel in South America.

I only used SA back in early 2017, and in a 30 day window banged 3 of the 5 women I ended meeting for drinks. The most interesting and best one was a senior in college who just broke up with her boyfriend(likely SD), and was looking to be with someone to travel with after graduation. I read into that as she wanted to go on free trips and post pics on Instagram like her other slutty friends. 3 drinks into the first date, we head back to my place, I show her a few souvenirs from my travels (a must in your living room/den area for girls like this) and we bang on the couch.

A few days after that, she text me asking about going to Toronto for a week, which I said didn't fit in my plans at the time. She ghosted me after that, likely finding another simp who would fly her to Canada.

BEWARE: Other SDs sites AVOID

I thought I'd try a different sugar site just to mix things up and b/c SA in my area is getting a little stale. Site in question: secretbenefits

First the site is pretty dead and a rip. But it gets worse. I hooked up with a girl who came directly to by pad. She stalls until about 11pm which I text her and say - let's try another time it's too late. Then she responds she's coming over immediately. She gets here and pretty much wants to bang which we do. Everything is fun, she seems normal. Then at 6am (The sun hasn't come up at all) she starts going apeshit and saying she is going to "call the police" b/c she can't find her car keys. Won't STF. I finally get up see her car keys on the counter top a whole 3 ft from her and quickly escort this dumbass bitch out my door. My building is highly secure, requires codes to get in , so not worried about this freakshow ever reappearing.

Conclusion: STAY ON SEEKING only. Other sites have alot of shady screwed up psychopaths. If SA is stale, just take a 3 month break avoid all the other sites. Other conclusion: while sleeping a whole 3 hours she obviously had serious misgivings about what she had done. But I think more importantly is she was just totally mentally ill.

Anyway ALWAYS BE PREPARED. Divulge no dark secrets. Never do anything that even comes close to law breaking. These scumbag hoes will blackmail you if they can. Treat them like the golddigging lowlife hoes they are which is basically use them b/c they are using you.

Quote: (12-15-2018 09:32 PM)NextStop100 Wrote:  

Anyone use SA in South America? Plenty of 18-21 girls and they all seem down to meet up and fuck with just a dinner offering based on a few of my convos with them. Only one has directly asked for an allowance. Whats the catch? Or is SA like shooting fish in a barrel in South America.

Q1) Yes.
Q2) No catch. They generally don't have money so are open to experiences and travel, among other things. Some may hit you up for cash after the date though. Be advised.
Q3) Yes, in the mid-range. Upper range (8/10+), you probably need to be bringing something to the party.

Quote: (12-18-2018 05:33 AM)denwalk Wrote:  

BEWARE: Other SDs sites AVOID

I thought I'd try a different sugar site just to mix things up and b/c SA in my area is getting a little stale. Site in question: secretbenefits

First the site is pretty dead and a rip. But it gets worse. I hooked up with a girl who came directly to by pad. She stalls until about 11pm which I text her and say - let's try another time it's too late. Then she responds she's coming over immediately. She gets here and pretty much wants to bang which we do. Everything is fun, she seems normal. Then at 6am (The sun hasn't come up at all) she starts going apeshit and saying she is going to "call the police" b/c she can't find her car keys. Won't STF. I finally get up see her car keys on the counter top a whole 3 ft from her and quickly escort this dumbass bitch out my door. My building is highly secure, requires codes to get in , so not worried about this freakshow ever reappearing.

Conclusion: STAY ON SEEKING only. Other sites have alot of shady screwed up psychopaths. If SA is stale, just take a 3 month break avoid all the other sites. Other conclusion: while sleeping a whole 3 hours she obviously had serious misgivings about what she had done. But I think more importantly is she was just totally mentally ill.

Anyway ALWAYS BE PREPARED. Divulge no dark secrets. Never do anything that even comes close to law breaking. These scumbag hoes will blackmail you if they can. Treat them like the golddigging lowlife hoes they are which is basically use them b/c they are using you.

Brandon Wade...c'mon man we know its you

Quote: (12-19-2018 01:58 AM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

Quote: (12-18-2018 05:33 AM)denwalk Wrote:  

BEWARE: Other SDs sites AVOID

I thought I'd try a different sugar site just to mix things up and b/c SA in my area is getting a little stale. Site in question: secretbenefits

First the site is pretty dead and a rip. But it gets worse. I hooked up with a girl who came directly to by pad. She stalls until about 11pm which I text her and say - let's try another time it's too late. Then she responds she's coming over immediately. She gets here and pretty much wants to bang which we do. Everything is fun, she seems normal. Then at 6am (The sun hasn't come up at all) she starts going apeshit and saying she is going to "call the police" b/c she can't find her car keys. Won't STF. I finally get up see her car keys on the counter top a whole 3 ft from her and quickly escort this dumbass bitch out my door. My building is highly secure, requires codes to get in , so not worried about this freakshow ever reappearing.

Conclusion: STAY ON SEEKING only. Other sites have alot of shady screwed up psychopaths. If SA is stale, just take a 3 month break avoid all the other sites. Other conclusion: while sleeping a whole 3 hours she obviously had serious misgivings about what she had done. But I think more importantly is she was just totally mentally ill.

Anyway ALWAYS BE PREPARED. Divulge no dark secrets. Never do anything that even comes close to law breaking. These scumbag hoes will blackmail you if they can. Treat them like the golddigging lowlife hoes they are which is basically use them b/c they are using you.

Brandon Wade...c'mon man we know its you

I wish it was dude. 40+ years and this is the first full on psycho i've ever dealt with. (well there was one in college that tried to make up some false sex claims b/c I turned her fat ass down , but this is #2) If you play the game long enough, some shit can happen. While usually it's ok to just invite a chick back to your place immediately, don't do it. In this psycho metoo witchhunt democrats gone bananas world, a man is always at fault. I'm setting up cameras all over my place now. Only a fool wouldn't.

PS: F**K you Leftists.

Is it safe providing your credit card info (mainly for privacy reasons), or are prepaid cards/funding through your phone's app store w/ a gift card the way to go?

gotten 80 lays from a little over a year of using SA.

Also, only filter for white, slim, athletic 18-29yo.

Just got perma banned and their customer support knows full name lol. Since I opened up a couple of chargebacks on them, to try and get free month.

Does anyone know a way to circumvent this type of ban?

Any way to use the website for FREE ?
As in ZERO dollars.

Quote: (01-10-2019 07:26 AM)Caduceus Wrote:  

Any way to use the website for FREE ?
As in ZERO dollars.

No

Quote: (01-09-2019 11:12 PM)Draper Wrote:  

gotten 80 lays from a little over a year of using SA.

Also, only filter for white, slim, athletic 18-29yo.

Just got perma banned and their customer support knows full name lol. Since I opened up a couple of chargebacks on them, to try and get free month.

Does anyone know a way to circumvent this type of ban?

80 lays in a year is impressive. What caused you to get perma banned?

Quote: (01-10-2019 06:00 PM)lunchmoney Wrote:  

Quote: (01-09-2019 11:12 PM)Draper Wrote:  

gotten 80 lays from a little over a year of using SA.

Also, only filter for white, slim, athletic 18-29yo.

Just got perma banned and their customer support knows full name lol. Since I opened up a couple of chargebacks on them, to try and get free month.

Does anyone know a way to circumvent this type of ban?

80 lays in a year is impressive. What caused you to get perma banned?

In a little over a year.. maybe 1yr and 4months. But honestly, it was happening so often, that I was started getting tired of it and actually made me more focus on work lol. But benefits of living in a big city.

Reason for banning was that I kept opening up a couple of chargeback, and they kept a record of those I suppose. Customer support knows my full name lol. I've tried using a VPN, different cc, names, address, photos. Everything still resulted in banned. Paying thru itunes worked at first, but CS whore found me again. Prob could wait a bit and try again.

Oh, and bc I kept making various accounts. But only bc SA keeps suspending people without a clear reason why. It just another unreasonable term that they have.

Quote: (01-10-2019 04:56 PM)Flacko Wrote:  

Quote: (01-10-2019 07:26 AM)Caduceus Wrote:  

Any way to use the website for FREE ?
As in ZERO dollars.

No

Quote: (01-10-2019 09:42 PM)Draper Wrote:  

Quote: (01-10-2019 06:00 PM)lunchmoney Wrote:  

Quote: (01-09-2019 11:12 PM)Draper Wrote:  

gotten 80 lays from a little over a year of using SA.

Also, only filter for white, slim, athletic 18-29yo.

Just got perma banned and their customer support knows full name lol. Since I opened up a couple of chargebacks on them, to try and get free month.

Does anyone know a way to circumvent this type of ban?

80 lays in a year is impressive. What caused you to get perma banned?

In a little over a year.. maybe 1yr and 4months. But honestly, it was happening so often, that I was started getting tired of it and actually made me more focus on work lol. But benefits of living in a big city.

Reason for banning was that I kept opening up a couple of chargeback, and they kept a record of those I suppose. Customer support knows my full name lol. I've tried using a VPN, different cc, names, address, photos. Everything still resulted in banned. Paying thru itunes worked at first, but CS whore found me again. Prob could wait a bit and try again.

Oh, and bc I kept making various accounts. But only bc SA keeps suspending people without a clear reason why. It just another unreasonable term that they have.

So you got your credit card company to take the money back from them you'd spent and you're shocked that they are making an effort to keep you off their platform?

Quote: (01-10-2019 09:42 PM)Draper Wrote:  

Quote: (01-10-2019 06:00 PM)lunchmoney Wrote:  

Quote: (01-09-2019 11:12 PM)Draper Wrote:  

gotten 80 lays from a little over a year of using SA.

Also, only filter for white, slim, athletic 18-29yo.

Just got perma banned and their customer support knows full name lol. Since I opened up a couple of chargebacks on them, to try and get free month.

Does anyone know a way to circumvent this type of ban?

80 lays in a year is impressive. What caused you to get perma banned?

In a little over a year.. maybe 1yr and 4months. But honestly, it was happening so often, that I was started getting tired of it and actually made me more focus on work lol. But benefits of living in a big city.

Reason for banning was that I kept opening up a couple of chargeback, and they kept a record of those I suppose. Customer support knows my full name lol. I've tried using a VPN, different cc, names, address, photos. Everything still resulted in banned. Paying thru itunes worked at first, but CS whore found me again. Prob could wait a bit and try again.

Oh, and bc I kept making various accounts. But only bc SA keeps suspending people without a clear reason why. It just another unreasonable term that they have.

I saw on reddit that they sent debt collectors after people that did that.

Is seeking arrangement good for late 20s black guy in Atlanta? I deleted my Bumble. Girls weren’t tryna link up like that.

I have been seeing a lot of beautiful girls without money and have wondered why arent they dating ballers. Is it difficult for a hot girl to get herself a sugar daddy or what?

The real sugar daddies can afford several spinning SB plates on allowance and as soon as an SB gets outrageous in their demands - "Daddy by me a new BMW or Mercedes" crap - she gets nexted and the real SD ads a new plate so the average high SMV (Younger) SB almost always pushes for too much and pisses off their steady SDs and then have to look for a new SD as they are by and large programmed by their natural hypergamy to constantly search for the Next Better Deal right out of the ABC Always Be Calculating SB school.

Has anyone heard of "The League" dating app. It sounds like a variation of the sugar daddy except its for career girls that want a beta bucks husband. Tried to get in but was not accepted. Any else have luck with that app?

Quote: (03-11-2019 10:26 AM)jcrew247 Wrote:  

Has anyone heard of "The League" dating app. It sounds like a variation of the sugar daddy except its for career girls that want a beta bucks husband. Tried to get in but was not accepted. Any else have luck with that app?

Wasn't familiar with it, but after looking it up just today, based on how it pitches itself, I would bet anything the women on there are post-wall ex-sluts who have decided they've had enough fun with the Chads (i.e., now that they're over 30 Chad isn't interested anymore) and it's time to settle down with, as you say, a beta bucks guy. That is, there aren't likely to be any hot twenty-somethings on there, so unless you're into MILFs, it's probably a waste of time.

Here's a review of it by a woman. Representative paragraph:

Quote:Quote:

Of course, I finally stop lying to myself and acknowledge the guy is a complete fucking douchebag through whom I'm seeking approval (ladies, I know some of you hear me). Guy goes radio silent for three days, then starts texting me exclusively after 1am. Insecure, 22-year-old me would've been a doormat to that shit. Self-respecting 30-year-old me? Next.

That should give you some idea of what you'd be dealing with on there.

Or this, from The League’s founder (the article posted above links to the following):

https://money.cnn.com/2016/02/01/technol...ating-app/

“Bradford says she built the app for Alpha women like herself.
‘I wanted to never EVER hear a woman be worried that her educational achievements or career ambition would be a turn-off," she wrote.’”

Sounds like “strong, empowered women” are definitely the League’s target demographic.