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10-17-2017, 03:25 PM
^ As Cobra points out, understand also why the chump "got" the girl: She wasn't desired by those she desired anymore. And people wonder why these divorce rates are so high ... lol
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10-17-2017, 03:38 PM
I’m never just friends with a girl I want to bang. I either get the lay, or if it’s not gonna happen I respectfully part ways. I have no interest in orbiting in hopes of eventually getting laid.
I can only be friends with a woman if a) I’m not physically attracted to her, and b) she’s got a cool personality I can tolerate being around.
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10-18-2017, 05:31 AM
The friendzone is like a no go zone for men.
There is no incentive for the friend zone, except self sabotage or self hate, i.e. to get some attention.
There is no point in staying in that gray area, of no sex zone.
Life is short and full of possiblity, unfortunately the friendzone, is not a viable option.
Its actually very normal for men to simply move on, accept there failures in life, and move on to the next possible lay.
Some men can't deal with failure very well.
Friend zone = no lay possibility = move on with your damn life.
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10-18-2017, 12:05 PM
The friendzone is a real thing, but it's mostly a self inflicted wound. And it shouldn't be a surprise that women have a slight instinct to foster a situation that's hugely to their benefit, but it's up to YOU to be strong and self aware enough to protect yourself.
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10-28-2017, 04:32 PM
I think the meaning of the term has changed a bit over the years. I used to understand it as a guy and girl meet and become friends and the guy starts to feel attraction for the girl but the friendship is so well established that he perceives it as risky to escalate. If the girl doesn't reciprocate then the friendship is over and the guy perceives the friendship as being worthwhile enough that he doesn't want to take this risk. As time goes on it becomes more difficult.
This is definitely "a thing." It's the man's responsibility to state his intentions early on and more importantly to not be seeking out platonic female friends in the first place.
Maybe the social dynamics have changed to where this malicious parasitic attention gobbling you guys are describing is more common, but I'm not seeing the distinction between this and orbiting. Either way it's obviously a poor and undignified strategy.
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10-28-2017, 08:29 PM
As a man that has gotten himself friend zoned on a few occasions: please take this topic seriously. You might get a second chance; but when does that rarely happen?
I have had a few flat out flashing neon sign indicators that a chick wanted me to fuck her and I blew it. (It happened a few times on my yearly vacations to Europe.)
I drink alcohol and it acts like an instantanios kryptonite, do not give a fuck drug: against taking the pussy. So, for what ever reason...this friend zone shit is real. Either you miss opportunities and hold onto a hope you can change things. Or people hang around hoping the chick will eventually like them. 99.979% of the time it will not work.
Women, like many opportunities in life, you get a one shot chance of igniting a fuse and making shit happen. There will be plenty of fuses to light. But you have to be ready to pull the trigger and do it then and there.
Hesitation is a mother fucker!
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10-28-2017, 09:59 PM
The question of the definition of "friend zone" is really pretty simple.
Female sexual attraction to a man is not a choice. It is essentially a cumulative "effect". It's "cause" is a combination of the physical and emotional stimuli created by a guy. whether knowingly or unknowingly.
"Game" is simply understanding the elements of the stimuli required to maximize the chance to induce a woman's involuntary attraction response and consciously applying that knowledge
Female sexual attraction to a man is not a choice. If a guy fails to create the necessary sexual attraction then she does not consider him sexually...therefore he is in her "friend-zone".
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10-31-2017, 03:03 AM
^^^ my understanding is that attraction for both sexes is not a choice. As said above game can help you trigger that attraction.