Finally sealed the deal with a new girl after a couple months of laying low and just banging the same 6 who treats me well. Took forever too, as I'd gone out with this girl probably 7 times since I met her back in May, including a few failed trips back to my apartment where I thought I had it in the bag. But it was worth the wait. As we're laying in bed, shortly after she swallowed my spunk, she says "I eat your stuff."
So, naturally, I feel inspired to write about China again.
Like all but one of the Chinese girls I've banged here so far, she was also ridiculously submissive. Like, do whatever you want to her or tell her to do something and she will comply. In fact, that lone outlier was a 29 year old I met at an international party who opened me. She was alright-looking, but already had that visibly mature look. This American guy there who was apparently banging one of her friends kept telling me to hit her up later, because she was going to "teach me things" in bed i.e. she's gonna be a kinky slut too. I did message her a couple days later on WeChat and like I suspected, she was gonna be easy.
Her: "Can you take the train and come to my town?" (she lived about 40 mins out of town).
Me: "No, it's too far and I have work at 9 am tom"
Her: "But there's no trains back after 7 pm"
10 mins of silence later...
Her: "Ok, I will come meet you"
Got the bang within an hour of her coming over. But it was a huge disappointment. Not only did she refuse to give oral, but she bitched and moaned anytime that I tried a position other than mish. After, we're talking in bed and she keeps asking me to explain how foreign women are different from Chinese women. So I tell her that most women my age are more career-minded, and then I bring up the big F word, "feminist." Of course, she claims she's a feminist too, but had no response when I ask her if she really thinks feminism will ever become big in China. After she left the next day I continued to humor her for a bit and she kept asking me to come to karaoke with her. I started ignoring her, and one of her last messages says "If u keep acting like this, u might not have a sexy night next time." Yeah, like I'm really bothered I'll never get to experience some of the worst sex of my life again...
Despite this, China has been a haven from annoying feminist culture for me. It might just be a limited sample size, but from my observations out and about and getting to know some of the Chinese as well, this seems to me one of the most inherently red-pill countries out there. I've only been out and about in 5 other countries, but the vibe and ways of human interaction are very different from the West.
Like I said above, I find the girls here more submissive in and out of the bedroom. Skinny girls here regularly talk about dieting and needing to lose weight. Men are still the unquestioned leaders here. Women/grandparents raise the children while the men work. I meet a ton of parents as a teacher, and its about an 80/20 moms to dads ratio. Many women want to have kids and get married young. Also, I'm wondering if the feeling is the same for others in China...but is this place not the
Land of the Milfs or what? So many hot young moms out here its just absurd. My school has me mostly teaching Pre-K kids, and many of the moms are easy WBs for me. Late 20s, early 30's women chilling on their phones who you'd never expect to be a mother if not for the kid running in circles around her. How to or if its even worth it...if anyone has any stories I'm all ears. Also, just way more couples and kids everywhere. The family unit seems strong and healthy here.
Lastly, some quotes from Chinese women you'll never hear from a Western feminist:
-Receptionist at the school: "Its a woman's duty to country to have children."
-6 I've been banging for a couple months conversation with me regarding making dinner at my place:
Her: "I have two dishes I will cook for you."
Me: "What will I do then."
Her: "My job is to cook the food for you. Your job is to eat the food and tell me I'm a good cook."
-Girl I just slept with (age 24): "Looks is not very important to me. Its more does the man treat me well, take care of me."
-28 year old Chinese TA: "I must get married soon."