Quote: (05-27-2016 01:13 AM)Canopus Wrote:
Crass libtard that he can be, I like Tony and I'd buy him a beer. As a guy who grew up reading and watching him, this is sad to see.
A little backstory:
Tony's first marriage, to his high school sweetheart who he described as "his partner in crime" lasted 20 years - until, of course, he got famous and started traveling extensively. They split in 2004, and the divorce finalized in 2007. I've never heard much detail on the divorce itself, but as he recounts in Medium Raw, the collapse of the marriage saw him whoring and boozing through the Caribbean, during which time he also admits to drunk driving and suicidal ideation. That should give you some idea of just how badly he took it.
Even so, he's famous, he's wealthy, he's got the Tall-Dark-Handsome triad going, and he has one of the best jobs a heterosexual male could ask for.
So what the hell is he doing with a tatted-up, Gina Carano-idolizing butterface with zero body fat?
The short answer is that his best friend, a French chef named Eric Ripert, set up a blind date with a girl working at one of his restaurants. Having worked with Bourdain for a good chunk of his career, Ripert knows him very well. He knows fast young pussy is not something Tony is hurting for, either. So he went the old school way, found a girl that wasn't going to be making Jennifer Lawrence jealous but who he knew his friend would have immediate chemistry with, and sure enough...
That was Date #3 from her Instagram. Yeah, Ripert clearly knew what Bourdain was looking for.
The long answer, though, and here's why I try to get all AnonymousBosch...
I really think it boils down to Tony basically dating a version of himself, or rather himself if none of the last 16 years had happened. It's not hard to imagine that Ottavia is basically who he'd be if Kitchen Confidential had flopped and he hadn't become famous: just a general manager working at a good restaurant, a smoker, a drinker, a foodie, and a partyer with next to no spare time. No fame, no celebrity, no wealth. All hard edges and no soft curves. Zero bullshit personality. (Ottavia is notoriously blunt. That's probably something else Ripert picked up on as a quality Bourdain would find attractive.) And "dysfunctional", which is the word Bourdain himself used to describe the both of them. It's a word he usually reserves only for himself.
That theory makes a little more sense when you consider how much Bourdain simultaneously loves and despises his fame. I still remember when he first got to CNN, and he had to give the most bullshit laugh in the history of bullshit laughter at a crappy joke by Wolf Blitzer. (I think it was "You know Tony, we do a lot of grilling in the Situation Room!") You could hear the anguish in his soul. He spent all his life mocking the artifice of celebrity and now he is a celebrity and he can't get anywhere without participating in that artifice. You know that word, "sellout", is one he hears a lot. His humor can only deflect so much of it.
So, Bourdain is probably happy to spend time with a woman who reminds him of himself, removed from most of the spotlight and who's doing her own thing rather than falling into globetrotting culinary adventure the way he did.
Besides, when Bourdain got back from being trapped in Libya, the first thing Ottavia did was make a baby with him. Yeah, she not only fucked him like he got back from a war (literally true) but gave him a child. On a primal level, that's something that secures a man's loyalty.
All that said - I buy Roosh's analysis completely. That's pretty damning behavior and body language, and you can definitely see the escalation over time on her Instagram. It'd be a shame if she's fooling around on him. She's the mother of his child and he seems to have fun hanging out with her, in a way he didn't own up to before. But any time your wife takes up a sport or hobby that involves intense, intimate physical activity with other men, you are walking a razor thin line. No way I could allow it.
Only a matter of time before it starts getting really overt. I hope Tony gets a handle on this.
It's pretty clear that he's being cucked or she is a front for his homosexual tipping. Your psych eval is correct on the bolded part. Guys that marry their "Best Friends" do shit like this. After my divorce I was vomiting red pill truth all around me. I dated another ultra liberal social worker/psychologist woman and another with a doctorate degree. It took two women like this and an older man to warn me that if I did not change the way I think, I would end up with the same woman over and over again. One of those women were a blind date hookup. Both woman had so many red flags and serious daddy issues it wasn't funny. After that I never accepted blind dates from anyone. They cannot know what I need or what when I am trying to change as a man. You have to be honest enough as a man to seek the truth, not just ideals.
This is where liberal men fail. Their liberal beliefs make them think a woman behaving like a man is a woman of high value. They are too pussy to bend a bitch to their own whims, so they must climb up to a woman on their level to gain attraction. Their liberal beliefs think humans do not need to have boundaries because they think they are better than the intrinsic nature we were designed with.
Their philosophy of thinking is anti-game. That's why liberal men try to whiteknight, become male feminists, and ultimately game denialists. A liberal rejects social and political realism because they think they can be God and bend reality to their evil carnal desires. It's a natural kind of insanity.
Something bad is going to happen with their arraignment, whatever the fuck that is. No open relationship lasts long (or ends softly) because it is not always about the two that initially started it, but the external people they bring into it. It may not result in "cheating" but someone in their circle could end up getting stabbed or shot. Just a look at all the beta orbiters comments on that instagram make that clear enough that funny stuff is going on, the actual body language in the pictures is just extra proof to men with a keen eye.
Anthony cannot heal from his fall like this. He will fall again. When Roosh says that game save lives, he isn't pulling that shit out of his ass. That guy may have traveled the world more than us, but he did not get anything out of it. Whatever dysfunction you leave America with, stays with you. Old school liberal? New School Liberal? What difference does that make? Retard Lite and Retard Extra like some bottles of Corona? Liberals with class are still just as wrong as the ones without it. The only thing he seems to have learned overseas is that he wants the same dysfunction Europe has and bring it to America.
No one should feel bad for this guy. He is completely indoctrinated into dysfunction and is more than just set in his ways. If he had his way, he would want you to be just like him. Completely beholden to a pyscho masculine bitch on a pedestal. Hey, after all isn't that what all liberals want for us all anyway? He and Obama just discussed food only? LOL
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