Here finally some of my experiences from Dnepro. Left the City already a week ago, so now it s time for a summary.
In the beginning it was not too welcoming. After 3 days I changed my Apartment and lost some time through this. Then the adventure with the shaurma-burgers Girl.
Street approaching was not too pleasant or mabe I hit the wrong Areas. Everybody in a hurry, the streets either too empty to make regular approaches or too full ´, as it s also difficult to stop a Girl when everybody around is pushing. A few pleasant Chats, but a majority rejecting immediately in the form of completely ignoring or Walking faster.
This typical direct stuff like Hi, how are you, short compliment and I want to get known to you works bad in Russian, Girls seem to be trained ignoring such guys. Better: Stop her, bring an Izvini like if you want to ask for the way and then bring your direct Statement. Can work if the Girl is open to meet a new Person.
Also good experience: Asking if she knew English (in English), if she knows chatting around a bit if not changing to Russian saying no Problem I speak Russian but I just wanted to check out the English knowledge of local People for a friend who wants to visit........
So opening in English somehow worked better. Don t know the reason, I think it s not that they love foreigners so much, it s just that it separates you from the typical guy , makes you interesting and gives an Explanation why you are a bit "strange", that you are not a maniak. Too many Girls after opening in Russian just freeze out and don t give a Chance to introduce as a Person.
That much about the General tactics of street game, now to the success stories. The good Thing: if a Girl opens up it s mostly that she is really interested. So maybe the high blow out rate is not that bad but a good filter saving me time.
Day 3: Approach on the street near the main market: Although it s sunday most People in a hurry, annoying Promoters of phone starter packages every few meters. Pass her, turn around after 5 seconds, walk up to her, Hi, smile, I just saw you and found you are interesting, I had to say Hi.......... Hooked. Started talking. She was just doing a sunday afternoon walk. Yeah, that is not uncommon here that a Girl is just doing a walk for relax. Oksana told me that also in the first Moment she thought what the hell is this guy trying to sell, but then she recognized my Accent.
After 5 minutes she offered to Show me around the city as she has time. Ok. Walked for 2 hours , sat down in a bar for a tea ( she is strictly anti alcohol) , went on. Tried to touch her more and more, no protest but also no reaction. Trying to kiss her, she s turning away. She s a big talker but behind the mask a very shy Girl. Living 3 - 4 streets away from my flat we go together to the crossing and say goodbye for today. Asked her to come with me for a tea but of Course she declined.
Met again the next day, she bringing her Little brother 12 years old. Ok, took a walk around Center, had a hot dog for us three, we walk in our direction and I use the Chance to introduce her to my Apartment and make her feel safe inviting her and her brother for a tea.
She felt too safe because the following days she might any time knock on my door without Invitation, so it became harder to game other Girls.
Worked out, next evening after work she calls me asking where I am, I say in the centre, 20 minutes later a call: Ok, I am on central place now, where are you...
Next date she Comes alone in my Apartment after our evening walk , heavy makeout and the next time the bang. Seemed to be not very experienced and passive.
She was quite attaching but a really wonderful Girl in my eyes, friendly, nice, no stupid games, not asking for anything, a funny Person loving the small things in life and not complaining about anything as many ukrainians do.
There were some more successful approaches in Dnipro , I write about later.
In the beginning it was not too welcoming. After 3 days I changed my Apartment and lost some time through this. Then the adventure with the shaurma-burgers Girl.
Street approaching was not too pleasant or mabe I hit the wrong Areas. Everybody in a hurry, the streets either too empty to make regular approaches or too full ´, as it s also difficult to stop a Girl when everybody around is pushing. A few pleasant Chats, but a majority rejecting immediately in the form of completely ignoring or Walking faster.
This typical direct stuff like Hi, how are you, short compliment and I want to get known to you works bad in Russian, Girls seem to be trained ignoring such guys. Better: Stop her, bring an Izvini like if you want to ask for the way and then bring your direct Statement. Can work if the Girl is open to meet a new Person.
Also good experience: Asking if she knew English (in English), if she knows chatting around a bit if not changing to Russian saying no Problem I speak Russian but I just wanted to check out the English knowledge of local People for a friend who wants to visit........
So opening in English somehow worked better. Don t know the reason, I think it s not that they love foreigners so much, it s just that it separates you from the typical guy , makes you interesting and gives an Explanation why you are a bit "strange", that you are not a maniak. Too many Girls after opening in Russian just freeze out and don t give a Chance to introduce as a Person.
That much about the General tactics of street game, now to the success stories. The good Thing: if a Girl opens up it s mostly that she is really interested. So maybe the high blow out rate is not that bad but a good filter saving me time.
Day 3: Approach on the street near the main market: Although it s sunday most People in a hurry, annoying Promoters of phone starter packages every few meters. Pass her, turn around after 5 seconds, walk up to her, Hi, smile, I just saw you and found you are interesting, I had to say Hi.......... Hooked. Started talking. She was just doing a sunday afternoon walk. Yeah, that is not uncommon here that a Girl is just doing a walk for relax. Oksana told me that also in the first Moment she thought what the hell is this guy trying to sell, but then she recognized my Accent.
After 5 minutes she offered to Show me around the city as she has time. Ok. Walked for 2 hours , sat down in a bar for a tea ( she is strictly anti alcohol) , went on. Tried to touch her more and more, no protest but also no reaction. Trying to kiss her, she s turning away. She s a big talker but behind the mask a very shy Girl. Living 3 - 4 streets away from my flat we go together to the crossing and say goodbye for today. Asked her to come with me for a tea but of Course she declined.
Met again the next day, she bringing her Little brother 12 years old. Ok, took a walk around Center, had a hot dog for us three, we walk in our direction and I use the Chance to introduce her to my Apartment and make her feel safe inviting her and her brother for a tea.
She felt too safe because the following days she might any time knock on my door without Invitation, so it became harder to game other Girls.
Worked out, next evening after work she calls me asking where I am, I say in the centre, 20 minutes later a call: Ok, I am on central place now, where are you...
Next date she Comes alone in my Apartment after our evening walk , heavy makeout and the next time the bang. Seemed to be not very experienced and passive.
She was quite attaching but a really wonderful Girl in my eyes, friendly, nice, no stupid games, not asking for anything, a funny Person loving the small things in life and not complaining about anything as many ukrainians do.
There were some more successful approaches in Dnipro , I write about later.