[Kickb]

I just got back from a place called insomnia(strip club by day nnightclub from 4-8. The only thing anyone did was shuffle. it's not really my scene so I sat in a chair waited for girls to walk by. No numbers tonight. My buddy got one in the mens restroom though.

Lots of hot skinny chicks only a few fatties

I'm going to bed!

[Samseau]

(01-14-2012 10:14 AM)kickboxer Wrote:  

I just got back from a place called insomnia(strip club by day nnightclub from 4-8. The only thing anyone did was shuffle. it's not really my scene so I sat in a chair waited for girls to walk by. No numbers tonight. My buddy got one in the mens restroom though.

Lots of hot skinny chicks only a few fatties

I'm going to bed!

You need to do lots of reconnaissance when arriving in a new town, or when you're new to the bar/club scene... keep going to a different club/bar every night and try to figure out what your niche is.

[[email protected]]

Night club game isn't dead- its just shifted almost entirely to drinking and grinding. Its too loud and there is too much energy inside the club itself to run verbal game; if you're in a packed club with blasting music your best bet is to run caveman game. In that sort of environment you need to distinguish yourself from all the other male competitors- and the best way to do so is to make the women think that you're better then other options. Aggressive dominant behavior quickly seperates you from the beta herd and is pretty much your only option when a club becomes so packed that body language and what you're wearing become almost irrelevant to attacting women- none of the chicks can see more then the 1-2 people surrounding them at one time. Unless you're good looking, well built, and have the right vibe- this is going to be very much a crap shoot with alot of rejections. If this bothers you- man up; Edison got rejected by Mother Nature 10,000 times before she gave up the honey pot of the electric light bulb- your odds are considerably better.

For those who hate dance/caveman game and want to work on their verbal game, as it will serve them as they continue to age, Clubs are a bad idea- you're better off with lounges.

However, if you're going to a club for some reason anyway, you still have some options.
1. Go earlier- you can talk to the girls inside before the place becomes heated; you can transition to dance/caveman game as the night progresses. If things don't work out with the early girls then you get the added benefit of seeming pre-selected to any girls who notice you as the place becomes more crowded.
2. Talk to girls in line- self explanitory; limited time however makes it difficult to build attraction enough to make her want to stay with you once inside- too many other options.
3. Go outside and smoke- my favorite, carry a zippo and you have a perfect opener- "Let me give you a light.". Transition into DHV bait opener from there.

[jariel]

(01-08-2012 05:19 AM)soup Wrote:  

Club game is not dead. You just have to adapt.

Someone's watched "How To Be A Player".

[velkrum]

Club game been dead

• ...except to a rare few who enjoy the club scene and do well.
  

Better to meet women

• engaging in a productive activity or hobby you enjoy
• upscale event / house party with people who are comfortable or somewhat familiar with each other
• event for people with a common interest
  

Best case club scenario:

• you fuck up your health with drinks and staying up late while wasting a ton of cash and hook up with a girl.
  

Usual club scenario:

• you fuck up your health with drinks and staying up late while wasting a ton of cash and nothing to show for it except an ego bruised by insecure bitches and a resentful outlook towards the opposite sex for a few days / weeks / months / years.
  

[Golden Boy]

Okay, for me, living in a big city like Los Angeles, I can tell you that from first hand experience all of my friends and I count exclusively on night game. In a big city, a lot of people work and have busy schedules, and its just too difficult and time consuming to spend afternoons hitting on random chicks while I am sober, if I even were to have the time to do so. On the contrary, you can go out from Wednesday through Saturday, and as P Dog says "high end places will always have good ratios of guys to girls", and this brings your value up. A couple of my friends and I go out, and for a couple of hundred bucks, we have a killer table in a cool nightclub, and never have less than 20 to 30 girls swing by our table, and we then open up sets and try to escalate. Most of us end up hooking up, but not always do we end up bringing chicks home. Other times we have managed to pull and slay chicks that same night. Thats how a lot of guys roll here in LA, night game is just a fact of life if you want to get high quality chicks. I can see how other cities, though like Medellin (just went there last X-mas/ New Years) day game is a must. When we were in Medellin, there were no girls in the bars and clubs you could hit on because all the girls go out with guys in a group. So, it also depends where you live. I am basing my opinion on bigger metropolitan cities, but Sao Paolo and Rio definitely have good night game, and it is possible to escalate chicks (6s to 8s) very quickly, and have them come home with you.

[Pilgrim37]

I think it depends what age you are not just the place you live.

20's Definitely clubbing is a big thing..loud,drunk etc
30's Still a bit of clubbing in the early 30's but moving more towards bars

Clubbing in huge venues with techno thumping in my ear is not my idea of a good time..even in my 20's unless I was off my head on E or something.
Rubbish for meeting new talent from my experience.

I've always met girls in bars where I could talk easily with them.

GM I liked the botecas just sitting there on Rua Augusta with a beer watching the people pass...I guess the High End talent doesn't hang out at those places...Fuck em.. I like it

[Mr.GM]

I went out last night to a Club in Vila Madalena SP to meet with Intl.Swagger , and honestly , nowadays I think that clubs are exactly for this purpose : Having a good time with friends or to enjoy the music.

Going to clubs with the only purpose of pulling chicks just won't do it anymore for me.

The ROI is too low , you spend a lot and in the end most times you'll leave with some phone numbers , a couple kisses (specially in Brazil) and that's it.

Day game or chilled Spots like those Botecos on Augusta that you mentioned are waaay better than spending money on the mainstream club scene.

[OGNorCal707]

(02-04-2012 05:29 PM)Mr.GM Wrote:  

I went out last night to a Club in Vila Madalena SP to meet with Intl.Swagger , and honestly , nowadays I think that clubs are exactly for this purpose : Having a good time with friends or to enjoy the music.

Going to clubs with the only purpose of pulling chicks just won't do it anymore for me.

The ROI is too low , you spend a lot and in the end most times you'll leave with some phone numbers , a couple kisses (specially in Brazil) and that's it.

Day game or chilled Spots like those Botecos on Augusta that you mentioned are waaay better than spending money on the mainstream club scene.

This is good thinking, as I personally have experienced it, and observed others as well, when you go out to a bar/club venue (night game) with the express intent of pulling ass and you have a horrible time if you end up striking out.

It's better to just go out with a friend or two, kick back, have fun, and be in a good mood, and let the pussy be a by product of having a good time.

When you're in the right state of mind, and are having fun, it puts out a good vibe and draws people to you. When you have the right vibe, you get noticed and it helps get you into the right zone or frame of mind, if you do get engaged with a woman.

A lot of times when you're just 100% on pick up you are just so focused on that alone, that you aren't relaxed and in a good mood, your eyes are darting around looking for "targets", you think too much about approaching/opening, etc., it makes you more tense and less natural. The worst is if you put off a vibe like you're hella thirsty or worse yet, desperate for pussy.

Better to be that guy, who's laughing, smiling, telling jokes, getting his buddies patting him on the back, whatever, when you look like a fun guy, women will enter your orbit, making it easier and more natural to approach.

Unfortunately for me, I normally just run with one wingman now a days as my social circle has deteriorated. He actually has decent game, but for whatever reason is a major wallflower, so I got to keep myself in a "game state of mind", or I'd just end up shooting the shit with him all night and never approach.

I guess, it can be a about striking a fine balance between just kicking back and enjoying a friends' company and not worrying about picking up, but at the same time keep your eyes open and be willing to step to a fine woman that peeks your interest at the drop of a dime.

[Golden Boy]

(02-04-2012 08:18 PM)OGNorCal707 Wrote:  

(02-04-2012 05:29 PM)Mr.GM Wrote:  

I went out last night to a Club in Vila Madalena SP to meet with Intl.Swagger , and honestly , nowadays I think that clubs are exactly for this purpose : Having a good time with friends or to enjoy the music.

Going to clubs with the only purpose of pulling chicks just won't do it anymore for me.

The ROI is too low , you spend a lot and in the end most times you'll leave with some phone numbers , a couple kisses (specially in Brazil) and that's it.

Day game or chilled Spots like those Botecos on Augusta that you mentioned are waaay better than spending money on the mainstream club scene.

This is good thinking, as I personally have experienced it, and observed others as well, when you go out to a bar/club venue (night game) with the express intent of pulling ass and you have a horrible time if you end up striking out.

It's better to just go out with a friend or two, kick back, have fun, and be in a good mood, and let the pussy be a by product of having a good time.

When you're in the right state of mind, and are having fun, it puts out a good vibe and draws people to you. When you have the right vibe, you get noticed and it helps get you into the right zone or frame of mind, if you do get engaged with a woman.

A lot of times when you're just 100% on pick up you are just so focused on that alone, that you aren't relaxed and in a good mood, your eyes are darting around looking for "targets", you think too much about approaching/opening, etc., it makes you more tense and less natural. The worst is if you put off a vibe like you're hella thirsty or worse yet, desperate for pussy.

Better to be that guy, who's laughing, smiling, telling jokes, getting his buddies patting him on the back, whatever, when you look like a fun guy, women will enter your orbit, making it easier and more natural to approach.

Unfortunately for me, I normally just run with one wingman now a days as my social circle has deteriorated. He actually has decent game, but for whatever reason is a major wallflower, so I got to keep myself in a "game state of mind", or I'd just end up shooting the shit with him all night and never approach.

I guess, it can be a about striking a fine balance between just kicking back and enjoying a friends' company and not worrying about picking up, but at the same time keep your eyes open and be willing to step to a fine woman that peeks your interest at the drop of a dime.

Excellent point Nor Cal brings up, "pussy just has to be a byproduct of having a good time." I kind have adopted this approach a while ago, you have to be able to go out with your buddies, open up sets, but at least, if you don't go home with someone you enjoy the whole experience, getting buzzed, listening to good music, and gaming.Otherwise, as you say, you will be disappointed the next day if you have so many expectations placed upon yourself.

[Raoul]

This is pure mental masturbation. If you even have hot female friends, it is easier to bang them rather than use this preselection crap to get strangers from clubs! Have you even been reading The Game lately? LOL.

(01-09-2012 09:28 AM)Amsterdao! Wrote:  

Going to a nightclub with some hot female friends does wonders.....

[anewtypedude]

(02-05-2012 01:44 AM)Golden Boy Wrote:  

(02-04-2012 08:18 PM)OGNorCal707 Wrote:  

(02-04-2012 05:29 PM)Mr.GM Wrote:  

I went out last night to a Club in Vila Madalena SP to meet with Intl.Swagger , and honestly , nowadays I think that clubs are exactly for this purpose : Having a good time with friends or to enjoy the music.

Going to clubs with the only purpose of pulling chicks just won't do it anymore for me.

The ROI is too low , you spend a lot and in the end most times you'll leave with some phone numbers , a couple kisses (specially in Brazil) and that's it.

Day game or chilled Spots like those Botecos on Augusta that you mentioned are waaay better than spending money on the mainstream club scene.

This is good thinking, as I personally have experienced it, and observed others as well, when you go out to a bar/club venue (night game) with the express intent of pulling ass and you have a horrible time if you end up striking out.

It's better to just go out with a friend or two, kick back, have fun, and be in a good mood, and let the pussy be a by product of having a good time.

When you're in the right state of mind, and are having fun, it puts out a good vibe and draws people to you. When you have the right vibe, you get noticed and it helps get you into the right zone or frame of mind, if you do get engaged with a woman.

A lot of times when you're just 100% on pick up you are just so focused on that alone, that you aren't relaxed and in a good mood, your eyes are darting around looking for "targets", you think too much about approaching/opening, etc., it makes you more tense and less natural. The worst is if you put off a vibe like you're hella thirsty or worse yet, desperate for pussy.

Better to be that guy, who's laughing, smiling, telling jokes, getting his buddies patting him on the back, whatever, when you look like a fun guy, women will enter your orbit, making it easier and more natural to approach.

Unfortunately for me, I normally just run with one wingman now a days as my social circle has deteriorated. He actually has decent game, but for whatever reason is a major wallflower, so I got to keep myself in a "game state of mind", or I'd just end up shooting the shit with him all night and never approach.

I guess, it can be a about striking a fine balance between just kicking back and enjoying a friends' company and not worrying about picking up, but at the same time keep your eyes open and be willing to step to a fine woman that peeks your interest at the drop of a dime.

Excellent point Nor Cal brings up, "pussy just has to be a byproduct of having a good time." I kind have adopted this approach a while ago, you have to be able to go out with your buddies, open up sets, but at least, if you don't go home with someone you enjoy the whole experience, getting buzzed, listening to good music, and gaming.Otherwise, as you say, you will be disappointed the next day if you have so many expectations placed upon yourself.

What if you are rolling dolo? Not going out with the intention of getting pussy defeats the entire purpose of rolling dolo.

[MiXX]

(01-08-2012 09:59 AM)Roosh Wrote:  

Club game in Poland was very fruitful. Little attitude. I'm sure this will change in the future, but in a place like Poland night game will you get more bangs at faster speed.

The more Westernized a country is, the more iphones the girls have, and the more likely she's on Facebook, the lower ROI you'll get from club game.

Man I cannot wait to get to Poland!! Colombia is no longer the promised land for me, sadly.

As with all good things, not every place you use to fuck so easily 10 years ago, continue to provide the same tasty fruit endlessly. The fruits stop coming, and the tree eventually dies. I'll miss you Colombia....great memories.

Onward to Poland.

Mixx

[Mrs. Chocolate]

I was disagreeing with you all, but now I can tell it is true: the night game is dying.
Guys getting drunk, some boring girls.
Let's keep the glasses full and dance!

[Samseau]

Night game will never die. It's the venues that die. Old cool spots die and you gotta look for new ones.

[Mr.GM]

(02-05-2012 03:04 PM)Mrs. Chocolate Wrote:  

I was disagreeing with you all, but now I can tell it is true: the night game is dying.
Guys getting drunk, some boring girls.
Let's keep the glasses full and dance!

off course you was disagreeing..you are a woman!!Whats bad for us is good for you!!LOL (e.g. Sausage fest)

*Night game will never die , We are talking about MAINSTREAM CLUB game...some guys are confusing

[Amour Fou]

(02-05-2012 04:24 PM)Mr.GM Wrote:  

(02-05-2012 03:04 PM)Mrs. Chocolate Wrote:  

I was disagreeing with you all, but now I can tell it is true: the night game is dying.
Guys getting drunk, some boring girls.
Let's keep the glasses full and dance!

off course you was disagreeing..you are a woman!!Whats bad for us is good for you!!LOL (e.g. Sausage fest)

*Night game will never die , We are talking about MAINSTREAM CLUB game...some guys are confusing

I haven't hit a mainstream club (at least in Brazil aka home) in close to 5 years.

I have other haunts I do better.

Venue selection is king!

[Raoul]

I don't like going to mainstream clubs here because most of the time they don't have good reward to effort ratio.

(02-05-2012 11:46 PM)Amour Fou Wrote:  

I haven't hit a mainstream club (at least in Brazil aka home) in close to 5 years.

I have other haunts I do better.

Venue selection is king!

[Mrs. Chocolate]

Sausage fests make men drink instead of approach.

Last sat I was at She Rocks. Report:

Men attitude: My boys getting drunk. Few hitting in their social circle
Women attitude: Very friendly! And open. (great!)

Ratio: 4:1

Music: Classic Rock + 90's

Price: I was Vip, but it is around 80 consuption. A botle of beer was around 7.50 reais. A tequila (what I drunk, 18 reais)

The vibe was great, nice songs, it was my girlfriend b'day and we were having fun, but... no men comming to none of us. NONE! And one of us, Victoria, has Czeck heritage, is tall, blond, deep blue eyes and all... no approaches. maybe just 2.
An ugly men looked at me, but it didn't had courage to come. I tried eye contact with other 2, unsucessfully. Then I gave up. The boys attitude was not cool.
Suddendly, my friend saw a nerd trying to blend in at the party and gave him attention, that was the funniest thing that happened that night. Because she is the completely opposite: tattoed, some piercings, and she can squeeze a man just at looking at him. The dark combination of sexy and dangerous.

[Amour Fou]

(02-06-2012 08:51 AM)Mrs. Chocolate Wrote:  

Sausage fests make men drink instead of approach.

Last sat I was at She Rocks. Report:

Men attitude: My boys getting drunk. Few hitting in their social circle
Women attitude: Very friendly! And open. (great!)

Ratio: 4:1

Music: Classic Rock + 90's

Price: I was Vip, but it is around 80 consuption. A botle of beer was around 7.50 reais. A tequila (what I drunk, 18 reais)

The vibe was great, nice songs, it was my girlfriend b'day and we were having fun, but... no men comming to none of us. NONE! And one of us, Victoria, has Czeck heritage, is tall, blond, deep blue eyes and all... no approaches. maybe just 2.
An ugly men looked at me, but it didn't had courage to come. I tried eye contact with other 2, unsucessfully. Then I gave up. The boys attitude was not cool.
Suddendly, my friend saw a nerd trying to blend in at the party and gave him attention, that was the funniest thing that happened that night. Because she is the completely opposite: tattoed, some piercings, and she can squeeze a man just at looking at him. The dark combination of sexy and dangerous.

Mrs. Chocolate,

You know you are hyping São Paulo's nightlife big time, right?

I will be coming to São Paulo soon enough, and I will check these places for myself. You keep telling us of these insane guy-girl ratio. I am from Rio and I party -a lot-, but I never run into such ratios.

You could consider making a thread on these places (venues) where you find these awsome ratios with lame guys. Make a list of those places with their name and all, you are making me very curious about it.

[Mrs. Chocolate]

Okay, I will!
I know some places to go to find tons of girls and almost zero boys... I will keep you updated.

[Enfant_Terrible]

(01-15-2012 01:12 PM)velkrum Wrote:  

Club game been dead

• ...except to a rare few who enjoy the club scene and do well.
  

Better to meet women

• engaging in a productive activity or hobby you enjoy
• upscale event / house party with people who are comfortable or somewhat familiar with each other
• event for people with a common interest
  

Best case club scenario:

• you fuck up your health with drinks and staying up late while wasting a ton of cash and hook up with a girl.
  

Usual club scenario:

• you fuck up your health with drinks and staying up late while wasting a ton of cash and nothing to show for it except an ego bruised by insecure bitches and a resentful outlook towards the opposite sex for a few days / weeks / months / years.
  

Sums up my feelings on night game, well put.

[WesternCancer]

good one. I had a usual club scenario last night.

We get there early its a friend of a friends birthday, you cant get in without a student card. There were 6 girls from Brazil said someone told them this venue was good on wednesdays (maybe they saw my vancouver data sheet) so they asked us to be our +1s to get in, i tell them only if they buy us a drink. didnt add much time, they peaced it right after they got in WHACK.

20 minutes in the birthday boy is barfing in the bathroom (luckily I didnt have to take him home)

me and 2 friends talk to this mixed group, mostly girls. one really hot girl. my friend makes out with her in 15 mins and her friends pull her away and make her leave.

later I see a girl with a princess tiara on with her 2 hot friends sitting lonley at a booth. I approach asking if its her birthday. I don't even say "happy birthday' before she says "are you going to buy me a drink its my birthday" her friends giggle. I tease her and ask how many people thats worked on, she says it again and her friends look even more validated by my even presence. I tell her "I don't buy stuck up cunts drinks even if it IS their birthday" smiled and watched as all of their attitudes and faces dropped.

next girl I approached was this SUPER hot asian girl, like i was chubbed out after "hi" a solid 9. A few minutes into the conversation shes playing with her hair everything and her other female friend comes over and goes. HEY ARE YOU HITTING ON MY FRIEND. I was prettty wasted but I agreed and amplified she giggled and then exclaimed she knew me in highschool and I had no Idea who she was, she got mad because of that and dr agged her friend away.

as for the dancefloor portion of the night I had a few dance approaches that were successful, but the girls werent super cute.
Another cute asian girl starts dancing up on me so i put my hand on her waist and pull her in for some grinding. 5 seconds in another random friend just pulls her away. She couldn't have been sending "get me out of here signals" as she was standing behind her.


All and all, nightclubs are just everything thats wrong with american women packed into one shitty place.

[DirkJohanson]

I asked around about this right in the beginning and the responses were that people just didn't want to risk driving late. The term strength in numbers was used a few times. So from what I see most girls go out in groups to clubs with the illusion that one of them is the designated driver(she only gets half plowed and cockblocks) but in a happy hour scenario you will see women showing up alone. Go sit in a parking lot at a busy happy hour type place and you will see. So what are your chances of pulling a girl who came with three girlfriends into a place where dudes are hardwired to run lame game and cockblock against a place were people go to decompress after work? Also, the fact that girls will reject you to show her friends that she has high standards at the club. The same girl would give you love in a different place.

My choice...Take a good look at the venues available in your area and find places that are not a nightclub but can erupt into one at a moments notice. Lets say there's a dancefloor but nobody ever uses it and a upstairs bar that's usually dead. Add a decent live band and it's on. The bad competition will be sleeping at the clubs and not have a clue a pussyfest is happening right down the road. Bitch shields are low and these places usually make cheaper stronger drinks.




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Any suggested venues in Tampa?

[Jackhammer]

I just can't work up the excitement to go to clubs (or even bars for that matter) anymore unless I'm out with my friends and just looking to chill.

How the hell are you club/bar guys able to do this night after night? It's seriously time to start honing my daygame skills, as this is looking to be the only option for me.