“As long as you are going to be thinking anyway, think big.” - Donald J. Trump
"I don't get all the women I want, I get all the women who want me." - David Lee Roth
Quote: (04-15-2019 03:41 PM)Kish Wrote:
He has a wife?!
Quote: (04-15-2019 02:31 PM)Greyman Wrote:
Seriously think my testosterone level just nosedived alittle just looking at that shit....
Christ Almighty I've been to third world absolute shitholes back in the early days of the OIF/OEF; And truly never actually WANT bad shit to happen in the continental US to clean out or harden the fuxk up some of these LOST men...
But as a 40's man who, even with as much (or not??) skill I have/had possessed to try and wife up...and ultimately fail, an early 20's stunningly beautiful woman, lost due to Instagram/Societal Liberal fallacy dogma that no matter what I do... i.e a woman's Family, social circle,....hell even some of MY hardcore good intentioned married ex-special operations buddies have negative leanings... And I couldn't provide enough... what? Truth? Provider Status? Game?? Trips to Cabo??? GMAFB....
It's cyclical and, for this moment in time I'm more and more believing to be true...the pendulum has truly swung in a direction to which men like me...GenX...will possibly never see the return to a sane paradigm. That is, until we are effectively and age wise, completely OUT of the running as far as relationships (with fertile women carrying the "HAPPY gene") are concerned. And to which the black pill is looming ever closer against which I'm struggling mightily...
The value we older wolves have I hate to admit, is that when the time comes...we may transition to being the knowledge base able to give some of you younger men the tactics and lessons of the wars we fought in.
This isn't some masturbatory Civil War II b.s of an old broken combat Vet trying to be relevant again... I'm genuinely frightened at what I/we see as some of the possibilities of the dark future in the remnants our constitutional republic that is daily getting usurped by *pick your special interest group HERE*...
My sons and your sons and daughters are going to inherit our failings...and my heart bleeds and cries out personally for the loss of what I so foolishly thought that allegiance to GOD King and Country would get me; the happiness found from adherence to a family and moral community brings, denied. I want a family because mine was shit. I want children because I think that's a worthwhile adventure.
I don't want to die alone. I was so very naive and good hearted once...
Fight boys, fight the rot that turns you into that blubbering simp.
Quote: (04-15-2019 06:52 PM)Aurini Wrote:
I hear you, brother. I'm making peace with it; that I may never meet a woman who wants to be a wife. Isn't it funny that this creep is married? To that... thing, yes, but married nonetheless.
Almost as if the only males these harridans see fit to marry are those who are easily controlled...
Quote: (04-15-2019 02:31 PM)Greyman Wrote:
But as a 40's man who, even with as much (or not??) skill I have/had possessed to try and wife up...and ultimately fail, an early 20's stunningly beautiful woman, lost due to Instagram/Societal Liberal fallacy dogma that no matter what I do... i.e a woman's Family, social circle,....hell even some of MY hardcore good intentioned married ex-special operations buddies have negative leanings... And I couldn't provide enough... what? Truth? Provider Status? Game?? Trips to Cabo??? GMAFB....
Quote: (04-15-2019 07:38 PM)Rorogue Wrote:
Quote: (04-15-2019 02:31 PM)Greyman Wrote:
But as a 40's man who, even with as much (or not??) skill I have/had possessed to try and wife up...and ultimately fail, an early 20's stunningly beautiful woman, lost due to Instagram/Societal Liberal fallacy dogma that no matter what I do... i.e a woman's Family, social circle,....hell even some of MY hardcore good intentioned married ex-special operations buddies have negative leanings... And I couldn't provide enough... what? Truth? Provider Status? Game?? Trips to Cabo??? GMAFB....
I don't believe there is any 'game' that can teach someone to get a wife in this day and age. Best hope is to have high smv, terrific game, and meet a woman who truly needs you. The third part is becoming tough for even the highest value guys though.
Quote: (04-15-2019 10:21 PM)budoslavic Wrote:
The whole world has gone bonkers.
Quote: (04-16-2019 09:52 AM)Aurini Wrote:
There's a fine line between being child-like and childish.
I don't generally advocate this as a standard, but look at it through a woman's eyes: does it show a lovable vulnerability? A hint of the boy that became the man? Or a failure to self-actualize?
What you describe with Red Dwarf reminds me of my friend playing action figures with his young nephew. Occasional vulnerability and playfulness is not weakness.