I went out with this chick 4 times, and we banged after every time except our first date.
The night after bang #4, I get the "wyd" text at 12am. I had just seen her the night before, and I was with my friends, so I didn't respond until 230am. We banter that morning(sunday), I try to set up a hang out for Monday, and she says she can't hang until Thursday night, which is a little weird that she's busy Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday. She's usually pretty free, so I say sure.
Out of the blue on Wednesday, she sends me a text that she's not ready to be dating right now (even though I never asked her to be my girlfriend or invited her on a dinner date. All we did was get drinks, watch netflix, and bang.). I sarcastically joked with her "bummer, I was totally going to propose this week", and she laughs. I say "Ok, see you tomorrow - but no getting attached to me *grin emoji*". Radio silence from her.
Today, the day we were supposed to hang out, I wait until late afternoon and say "Hey, confirming for tonight." She responds 3.5 hours later "I don't think that's a good idea. Just need to be alone right now".
What happened here and what's my next move? My best guess is that she's about to get back with her ex, or she met some other dude.
The PUA thing to do here is usually to next her and avoid oneitis. Do I have any other options? She's hot, and if it weren't for these latest shenanigans, I would have said she had girlfriend potential. I should probably ignore her, next her, and maybe she will text me "wyd" over the weekend. Maybe she won't. Whatevs.
Would ignoring her last text about needing to be alone make me come off as butt hurt? I feel like I should say something short and nonchalant like "Sure, take your time"
The night after bang #4, I get the "wyd" text at 12am. I had just seen her the night before, and I was with my friends, so I didn't respond until 230am. We banter that morning(sunday), I try to set up a hang out for Monday, and she says she can't hang until Thursday night, which is a little weird that she's busy Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday. She's usually pretty free, so I say sure.
Out of the blue on Wednesday, she sends me a text that she's not ready to be dating right now (even though I never asked her to be my girlfriend or invited her on a dinner date. All we did was get drinks, watch netflix, and bang.). I sarcastically joked with her "bummer, I was totally going to propose this week", and she laughs. I say "Ok, see you tomorrow - but no getting attached to me *grin emoji*". Radio silence from her.
Today, the day we were supposed to hang out, I wait until late afternoon and say "Hey, confirming for tonight." She responds 3.5 hours later "I don't think that's a good idea. Just need to be alone right now".
What happened here and what's my next move? My best guess is that she's about to get back with her ex, or she met some other dude.
The PUA thing to do here is usually to next her and avoid oneitis. Do I have any other options? She's hot, and if it weren't for these latest shenanigans, I would have said she had girlfriend potential. I should probably ignore her, next her, and maybe she will text me "wyd" over the weekend. Maybe she won't. Whatevs.
Would ignoring her last text about needing to be alone make me come off as butt hurt? I feel like I should say something short and nonchalant like "Sure, take your time"