[Jefferson]

(11-08-2018 02:50 AM)Duke Main Wrote:  

I started this thread about a year ago and had no online success over the previous year, so I was discouraged about it. This trip has been great and I've been able to analyze a bit why things weren't working before. First of all I wasn't fully aware of how shitty my attitude was and how I was projecting that bad vibe. The other things I fixed: I sorted for already having a kid and I covered the whole country instead of focusing on one city. Then I hopped around the country to where the matches took me.

I won't necessarily limit myself to Filipinas, but a lot of them have a combination of features that really work for me. For the time being, until I retire, I'm tied to the western hemisphere so I'll be checking out Colombia and possibly a few other places. And even if I find that perfect Filipina I wouldn't want to live in the Philippines long term, so the quest for my ideal situation continues.

I understand, glad it is working out now. I guess you can always take a few weeks off to Phil if you want.

It's just after having had a Filipina I don't think I could go back to a European woman.

You could not live in Davao, Duke? Why is that?

[ManOfTheTimes]

(11-08-2018 12:36 AM)Shimmy Wrote:  

(11-07-2018 08:02 PM)ManOfTheTimes Wrote:  

(11-05-2018 11:35 PM)Shimmy Wrote:  

(11-05-2018 04:55 PM)ManOfTheTimes Wrote:  

100% agree with Sr. Savonarola. I'm in Medellín right now and you might be shocked how easy it is to find mid-range women in their 20s (and older if you must) to date running Boyfriend/Provider Game for men our age (I'm 50). Obviously, the stronger your Spanish is, the better experiences you will have.

Two areas you should probably have on lockdown before you start more seriously dealing with savvy Latinas:

1. Make sure you are not the type of man to be taken advantage of easily. You will likely be a target for a world of hurt if you are.
2. Don't hesitate to carry yourself and relate to women fronting a heavy sensual (as in you're sexy and you know it) vibe.

I 100% agree on both counts, meeting a wife in Colombia is going to be 100x better than the Philippines if you're willing to do some heavy screening. Reading his recent report about not putting up with any BS from the filipinas I think he would do just fine in Colombia as he seems to be willing to put in the work. There are tons of girls in Colombia who will pull some shit on you if they can, but they are not girls with game like you would experience in Russia or Ukraine and it's easy to see through it. Most girls who would not make wife materials can't go 2 or 3 dates without asking to borrow money.

Are we dating the same Paisas?! Haha. My experience to the letter.

I'm in Bogota, but I find Colombian women to be similar with the exception to ones who lived abroad. I've met a few that lived abroad who are really smart and come from great families and are great. The rest I've met who lived abroad have the same cunty attitudes as the lower end of western women. I'm not sure what the difference is exactly, I think American men are to blame with their beta white knighting and throwing themselves at women.

Sounds like the local rolas you have met are on the better end. I keep finding the colder, more business-like ones in DC. No me gusta! It's like they took their Latina card and ripped it shreds. One of my favorite negs to use on a less sexy Latina is to tell her that she should give back her Latina card because clearly she is not using it as was intended.

[Savonarola]

(11-07-2018 08:46 PM)ManOfTheTimes Wrote:  

2. The knowledge that a woman is aging out around 25 is a real thing with non-clueless women here in Colombia. Had that conversation with a 24 year old this week. You could clean up in the 25+ range with decent game.

3. There are some, but quality dudes do not grow on trees here. However, it seems like there is a sexy woman factory somewhere in the Coffee Triangle. Don't sell yourself short either. A not insignificant amount of reasonably attractive women would be thrilled to live a US-level middle class lifestyle with a quality dude who treats her well and doesn't have too many mistresses. Yes, the market is that favorable to men here.

This. Two comments.

Re: #2, half the women in Colombia become mothers by age 19. No joke. Their bodies bounce back quickly after having kids at that age, and you would never know. Also, the men often leave their women a year or two after the birth, because shit they're 20 yr old Latin fathers. They don't want to be tied down.

So you end up with these beautiful 25-yr-old single women who have a six-year-old kid at home. They're dying to leave the kiddo with their sister and go out and have a good time dancing, drinking, and fucking with a handsome gringo. Normally single moms are no-gos for me, but in Colombia it's different. I cleaned up with this demographic.

Re: #3, yeah. Every woman I dated there told me that "nuestros hombres son perros feos" (our men are ugly dogs) or something like that. The men aren't really ugly, but the women are definitely more beautiful. The bigger problem is that the men just treat the woman badly, by and large.

LOL at the sexy woman factory in the Coffee Triangle. That's the God's honest truth. Next time I go, I'm gonna set up in Pereira for at least a week or two and see what happens.

[Shimmy]

One of the reasons gringos have such an exotic factor is because these women watch hollywood movies and think we are romantic faithful men, and then on top of it many guys go there and white knight women because they are really just not used to dating a caring woman who treats them good. Guys on this forum and guys who have lived in Colombia are most likely similar to local guys so it catches the the women off guard. People are a product of their environment and the dating market dictates how people act. For that same reason women who have lived in the west and the gringo hunters who speak english and have dated many FOB western guys are usually not the same.

[Duke Main]

(11-08-2018 06:48 AM)kazz Wrote:  

What is it about Philippinas that makes you seem to favor them?

Slender petite bodies, smooth brown skin, fun loving, enthusiastic acceptance of traditional gender roles. A lot of them have some annoying habits and mannerisms. Hopefully I can find someone who has the characteristics I like and not the things I dislike. A lot of this is discussed extensively in the main Philippines thread.

[Duke Main]

(11-08-2018 09:43 AM)Jefferson Wrote:  

(11-08-2018 02:50 AM)Duke Main Wrote:  

I started this thread about a year ago and had no online success over the previous year, so I was discouraged about it. This trip has been great and I've been able to analyze a bit why things weren't working before. First of all I wasn't fully aware of how shitty my attitude was and how I was projecting that bad vibe. The other things I fixed: I sorted for already having a kid and I covered the whole country instead of focusing on one city. Then I hopped around the country to where the matches took me.

I won't necessarily limit myself to Filipinas, but a lot of them have a combination of features that really work for me. For the time being, until I retire, I'm tied to the western hemisphere so I'll be checking out Colombia and possibly a few other places. And even if I find that perfect Filipina I wouldn't want to live in the Philippines long term, so the quest for my ideal situation continues.

I understand, glad it is working out now. I guess you can always take a few weeks off to Phil if you want.

It's just after having had a Filipina I don't think I could go back to a European woman.

You could not live in Davao, Duke? Why is that?

I'd consider living in the Phils part time after I retire. I'll give a quick rundown of where I'm thinking about living and the pros and cons of each.
Philippines, fun, English speaking spinners but poor infrastructure.
Thailand, good infrastructure, quality medical facilities but poor English.
Vietnam, there's just a vibe I love about the place but even worse English than Thailand
All 3 of these places make it difficult/impossible for a foreigner to own property.
Colombia, access to the US, ability to own property, and I speak Spanish, but I prefer asians to latinas. And it's probably less safe than the SE Asian locations.

[Jefferson]

(11-09-2018 02:50 AM)Duke Main Wrote:  

Slender petite bodies, smooth brown skin, fun loving, enthusiastic acceptance of traditional gender roles. A lot of them have some annoying habits and mannerisms. Hopefully I can find someone who has the characteristics I like and not the things I dislike. A lot of this is discussed extensively in the main Philippines thread.

I also love those slender, elongated, 'tall' Filipinas (above 1.63m), their fun character and silky skin. Unfortunately I am starting to think they are only good as temporary companions, not for long term wife material. Every Filipina I ever met was a project, not a partner. You have to teach them how to behave. They are bad with money, spendthrift and if you give them something the spend it inviting family and friend. Can't drive as a rule. Good at laundry and cooking, but generally lazy. The lying is simply terrible, moral behaviour and honesty, you might as well forget about it. It's a shame, because their silky touch, lovely voice, pleasing nature, as far as women go for the pleasures in live, there's none better really. Maybe that's just my personal experience. But it is what it is.

[Jefferson]

(11-09-2018 03:20 AM)Duke Main Wrote:  

I'd consider living in the Phils part time after I retire. I'll give a quick rundown of where I'm thinking about living and the pros and cons of each.
Philippines, fun, English speaking spinners but poor infrastructure.
Thailand, good infrastructure, quality medical facilities but poor English.
Vietnam, there's just a vibe I love about the place but even worse English than Thailand
All 3 of these places make it difficult/impossible for a foreigner to own property.
Colombia, access to the US, ability to own property, and I speak Spanish, but I prefer asians to latinas. And it's probably less safe than the SE Asian locations.

I suppose there is Penang, where foreigners can own property. I'm exactly the same, I speak Spanish but just prefer Asians to Latinas, and yes, culturally Asia is far more pleasant, secure, and interesting.