[The_e_man]

est-ce que tu parles francais??

[Banna]

(04-16-2018 07:05 AM)ausazn Wrote:  

I feel like I only have the confidence to go out solo when I'm overseas and travelling alone. I can't seem to do it in my home country since it almost seems pointless as you have friends etc. But overseas I have had some of the best nights solo and you ending meeting really cool people sometimes (including girls obviously). Do you guys go out solo in your home countries?

I think I'll be going out solo as long as I'm clubbing.

- No worrying about babysitting drunkards

- In the event I meet a girl that's down I don't have to curtail it because I have to drive my friend home

- Guys showing up late....I hate this the most!

- Guys that feel we have to be together in a venue all the time.....I'm a guy that'll roam around a entire club countless times screening different girls.

There's been quite a few times in my life where I lay in bed looking up at the ceiling with a club ONS at her pad after sex and say to myself:

"I 100% would NOT be laying here right now if I didn't take the initiative to roll solo or was the type of guy that felt uncomfortable going out without a social circle of friends"

[Salvadore]

(04-23-2018 11:43 AM)Banna Wrote:  

- Guys showing up late....I hate this the most!

- Guys that feel we have to be together in a venue all the time.....I'm a guy that'll roam around a entire club countless times screening different girls.

Sounds contradicting. Why bother if a buddy arrives late to a club or whatever when you could just go inside and "do your thing"?

[rishboy77]

(04-23-2018 11:43 AM)Banna Wrote:  

(04-16-2018 07:05 AM)ausazn Wrote:  

I feel like I only have the confidence to go out solo when I'm overseas and travelling alone. I can't seem to do it in my home country since it almost seems pointless as you have friends etc. But overseas I have had some of the best nights solo and you ending meeting really cool people sometimes (including girls obviously). Do you guys go out solo in your home countries?

I think I'll be going out solo as long as I'm clubbing.

- No worrying about babysitting drunkards

- In the event I meet a girl that's down I don't have to curtail it because I have to drive my friend home

- Guys showing up late....I hate this the most!

- Guys that feel we have to be together in a venue all the time.....I'm a guy that'll roam around a entire club countless times screening different girls.

There's been quite a few times in my life where I lay in bed looking up at the ceiling with a club ONS at her pad after sex and say to myself:

"I 100% would NOT be laying here right now if I didn't take the initiative to roll solo or was the type of guy that felt uncomfortable going out without a social circle of friends"

How do you handle situations where the does not want to abandon her friends or look like the slut for taking off with you ?

Otherwise I agree rolling solo can be better for getting bangs but not always if you looking to have a fun time with people around that you might want to party with.

[Banna]

(04-23-2018 12:04 PM)Salvadore Wrote:  

(04-23-2018 11:43 AM)Banna Wrote:  

- Guys showing up late....I hate this the most!

- Guys that feel we have to be together in a venue all the time.....I'm a guy that'll roam around a entire club countless times screening different girls.

Sounds contradicting. Why bother if a buddy arrives late to a club or whatever when you could just go inside and "do your thing"?

The problem was these inconsiderate lazy fucks needed my presence to enter the club or had to stand in a 45 minute line in the freezing cold and pay 20 bucks cover.

Wtf kinda ignorant kinda shit is that? You call me during the week to go somewhere because I have links....I get off work and head straight down whereas you had all day to be ready.....and you're the late one got me standing in the cold for 25 minutes waiting for your arrival?

Damned fellow West Indians I tell ya!

[Banna]

(04-23-2018 12:11 PM)rishboy77 Wrote:  

(04-23-2018 11:43 AM)Banna Wrote:  

(04-16-2018 07:05 AM)ausazn Wrote:  

I feel like I only have the confidence to go out solo when I'm overseas and travelling alone. I can't seem to do it in my home country since it almost seems pointless as you have friends etc. But overseas I have had some of the best nights solo and you ending meeting really cool people sometimes (including girls obviously). Do you guys go out solo in your home countries?

I think I'll be going out solo as long as I'm clubbing.

- No worrying about babysitting drunkards

- In the event I meet a girl that's down I don't have to curtail it because I have to drive my friend home

- Guys showing up late....I hate this the most!

- Guys that feel we have to be together in a venue all the time.....I'm a guy that'll roam around a entire club countless times screening different girls.

There's been quite a few times in my life where I lay in bed looking up at the ceiling with a club ONS at her pad after sex and say to myself:

"I 100% would NOT be laying here right now if I didn't take the initiative to roll solo or was the type of guy that felt uncomfortable going out without a social circle of friends"

How do you handle situations where the does not want to abandon her friends or look like the slut for taking off with you ?

Otherwise I agree rolling solo can be better for getting bangs but not always if you looking to have a fun time with people around that you might want to party with.

I guess that ive never had that happen if a girl was really into getting plowed. Girls in a few occasions have left their friends and took off with me and we had our private fun.

Actually once this jealous fat moo cow pushed me away from her 20 yr old russian/Spanish friend dragging her away that had her tongue down my throat at a club dt....but that's chiefly because earlier she flirted at the bar and we wasn't feeling her beluga ass lol. I was so sad at that missed 3 point basket ....but I'm not going to cause a scene at a club over a girl and get bouncers throwing my ass out

Of course being in this city there's often been the mother hen that's brushed me off when trying to escalate with her friends....but in those cases I was probably just missing out on a # which probably woulda been a flake anyways.

[Banna]

(04-23-2018 12:11 PM)rishboy77 Wrote:  

Otherwise I agree rolling solo can be better for getting bangs but not always if you looking to have a fun time with people around that you might want to party with.

I didn't answer this part....I guess I'm different. I'm not a guy that really wants or has people that I want to party with. Most guys my age are past or were never part of the clubbing scene. And also are not into mostly immature 20-23 year old University College students like me and prefer the company of 30 + mature girls.

I'm not anti social or unfriendly......I just like to roam around uninhibited at my own pace when I go out.

[Ramses]

(04-18-2018 08:36 PM)Pointer Wrote:  

I know Delirium, it's a typical tourist bar, perfect for doing approaches and practicing game. If I were you I'd lock down 3-4 places and stick to them. When you're rolling solo it's not a very good idea to walk around aimlessly, it kills your momentum and makes you tired.

As long as the place is reasonably packed, people are not sitting down and the ratios are good, I would jump in and grab a drink. Don't worry if people are in groups, just relax and enjoy your drink next to the bar. Don't sit on your phone like an idiot ignoring everyone around you, instead show that you want to be approached and start a conversation. Eventually some people will split from their group to buy drinks and bump into you.

Yes what i'll do when going out solo is i'll leave my phone in my car so i cant go on it as an excuse not to aproach.

During the week it's pretty dead in Brussels i'll focus on the weekend. And try to find 3/4 bars that i'm confident with.

[Ramses]

(04-19-2018 10:26 PM)SpursFan741 Wrote:  

@ Ramses

I'm another local and it's indeed a shithole, that's why I left.

Here are some tips for gaming in Brussels:

- Hit up the black girls in Brussels and tourists ( local girls are shit), they will be DTF

- Focus more on online game ( Nightlife in Brussels and Belgium in general is very poor ROI)

- Go to bloody louis on a Friday or saturday ( this club was the best for pulling me in Brussels, a lot of black girls and white girls who are DTF)

- thread-66812...pid1722282 I already wrote it here how game in Belgium is. If you don't have an established social circle, it will be tough ( which I didn't have either).

Thanks for the tips! Are you a Belgian that left the country?

I have had my fair share of black girls already! No more...
I fucked 15 girls from Tinder. I dont find any pleasure in it anymore. I want to meet real people and connect with them. I feel relationships that come from online are hollow and passionless. Also the girls are low quality, which i also have enough of.

I have been a few times to Bloody Louis, but i dont like the crowd and music. Only rap and RnB... I like to go to Spirito, with nicer girls and bether scene/music.

[rishboy77]

(04-24-2018 04:29 PM)Ramses Wrote:  

(04-18-2018 08:36 PM)Pointer Wrote:  

I know Delirium, it's a typical tourist bar, perfect for doing approaches and practicing game. If I were you I'd lock down 3-4 places and stick to them. When you're rolling solo it's not a very good idea to walk around aimlessly, it kills your momentum and makes you tired.

As long as the place is reasonably packed, people are not sitting down and the ratios are good, I would jump in and grab a drink. Don't worry if people are in groups, just relax and enjoy your drink next to the bar. Don't sit on your phone like an idiot ignoring everyone around you, instead show that you want to be approached and start a conversation. Eventually some people will split from their group to buy drinks and bump into you.

Yes what i'll do when going out solo is i'll leave my phone in my car so i cant go on it as an excuse not to go out.

During the week it's pretty dead in Brussels i'll focus on the weekend. And try to find 3/4 bars that i'm confident with.

Ramses - I will send you a PM later I will In Brussels for a day on Sunday May 6th

[Ramses]

(04-20-2018 07:22 PM)The_e_man Wrote:  

est-ce que tu parles francais??

Oui! Belge

[Ramses]

(04-16-2018 07:05 AM)ausazn Wrote:  

I feel like I only have the confidence to go out solo when I'm overseas and travelling alone. I can't seem to do it in my home country since it almost seems pointless as you have friends etc. But overseas I have had some of the best nights solo and you ending meeting really cool people sometimes (including girls obviously). Do you guys go out solo in your home countries?

I have always lived in Belgium, but only since 2 years in Brussels. All my mates are from another city.

They come visit sometimes im the weekends. But when they dont i need to go out solo, otherwise i wont do anything.

I'm kind of a tourist in my own country, because i dont know allot of people in Brussels.

[Ramses]

(04-24-2018 04:43 PM)rishboy77 Wrote:  

(04-24-2018 04:29 PM)Ramses Wrote:  

(04-18-2018 08:36 PM)Pointer Wrote:  

I know Delirium, it's a typical tourist bar, perfect for doing approaches and practicing game. If I were you I'd lock down 3-4 places and stick to them. When you're rolling solo it's not a very good idea to walk around aimlessly, it kills your momentum and makes you tired.

As long as the place is reasonably packed, people are not sitting down and the ratios are good, I would jump in and grab a drink. Don't worry if people are in groups, just relax and enjoy your drink next to the bar. Don't sit on your phone like an idiot ignoring everyone around you, instead show that you want to be approached and start a conversation. Eventually some people will split from their group to buy drinks and bump into you.

Yes what i'll do when going out solo is i'll leave my phone in my car so i cant go on it as an excuse not to go out.

During the week it's pretty dead in Brussels i'll focus on the weekend. And try to find 3/4 bars that i'm confident with.

Ramses - I will send you a PM later I will In Brussels for a day on Sunday May 6th

Allright great!

[Ramses]

I think i found Poosy Paradise

So I took a couple of days of to got to Mallorca (a gorgeous Spanish Island, of to the coast of Spain and France).
The weather is amazing and I see hot women everywhere.

It's Saturday night and it's the final of the Copa del Rey (Spanish Football Tournament) between Barcelona and Sevilla. So I decided to go to a sports bars to see the game.

I arrived about an hour before the game started. The bar was already packed with hot girls dancing to salsa/reggeaton. It was 8:45PM wtf?

The closer we would get to the start of the game, the more hot women would stroll in. I could not believe my eyes what was going on.

While I was watching the game, 2 girls stood close to me dancing, one was a 7 and the other was a stunning 9. One of the hottest girls I have ever seen. I openend the hot one with "Who are you cheering for?". Her english was pretty bad, but her friends english was very good. So I chatted more with the less pretty one.
Not long after she was teaching me salsa and bachata.
My spanish is rather shit so instead of talking to the hot one I danced more with her.

It was incredible what was happening. There was hot women everywhere, outscaling men 2-1. In a sportsbar wtf?? And it's only 2 hours flight away from my shithole city Brussels. I need to find a way to live here...

After a while I offered them a drink, but they refused because they were almost leaving and had to drive. I kissed them goodbye and was satisfied with the interaction.

I continued to watch the game the Barcelona was destroying 5-0.
I was getting looks from a group of girls. When I went outside to smoke a cigarette I saw 2 girls of that group smoking a cigarette. I went to them asking if they had a lighter. We chatted for a while and they told me that they were going to a club. I asked if I could join and they said yes.

While walking to the other club I was chatting to the cute girls from that group that was eyeing me before. We were all pretty drunk. I was being good company with high energy and jokes. She told me she had a boyfriend. In the group were 2 other girlfriends of her, one was very hot and another allright, but with short hair which i hate. I was not flirting with them because I feel it's like disrespecting the first girl I showed interest ind. Not sure if I have a good mindset on that?

We arrived at the club. It was pretty small but it was packed with hot spanish girls dancing to reggeaton, which means heaven for me. I think the girls outnumbered guys 3-1. Unbelievable..

I got bored with my group of girls and went outside for a cigarette. I saw a group of 8 girls together and asked the hottest one if she had a lighter. We got in a nice converstation. After the group wanted to go inside and I went with them.

I got closer with the girl by dancing and flirting. Eventually she told me she was getting married in a month. She also told me she had single friends with her now.
I was a little annoyed and did not want to suddenly hit on one of her friends because that would make me seem very needy. Not sure if I have a good mindset about that either..?

I left her and went back to my group of girls I came with. They looked so bored and told me they were leaving.

I told them I was staying. After that the club was full to the brim, almost impossible to move. The music was so loud it was nearly impossible to talk. It felt pretty oppressive. I was very drunk. It was 3:00am. And I decided to go back to the hotel.

Had a pretty good night. No kiss, no bang, good interactions. This island is insane.
I really dont want to go back to my shithole city..

I got a few questions maybe someone can answer them:
- How can i start to hit on a friend of a girl i just hit on?
- How do you aproach in a club that is packed completely and it's nearly impossible to speak with the music so loud?
- If you have any tips, recommendations on my field report, please let me know.

Thanks

[Trent W.]

(04-25-2018 01:15 PM)Ramses Wrote:  

I think i found Poosy Paradise

[...]

I got a few questions maybe someone can answer them:
- How can i start to hit on a friend of a girl i just hit on?
- How do you aproach in a club that is packed completely and it's nearly impossible to speak with the music so loud?
- If you have any tips, recommendations on my field report, please let me know.

Thanks

Never been to Mallorca but that's a pretty strong statement!

As for your questions...

- First of all, there's nothing wrong with hitting on the girl that is available. I had the same inhibitions before. But I've actually gotten laid with a girl that was in the same group with another girl that I made out with earlier the same night (although the girl I eventually went with wasn't there to see it). I don't know if anyone has a formula for that, I think simply shifting your attention gradually and gaming her as usual works. And don't forget, your aim should always be to isolate.

- If we're talking dance floor, it's not so hard. Eye contact and gestures. Make sure you lock eyes with a girl and then get playful with her. Smile at her, wave hello, make dance moves to provoke some short of dance showdown. Have fun with it. If you see that she's responsive then either go over and start dancing or signal to her to meet you in the middle. If you start grinding on each other all else will follow.

- The FR was good, keep it up.

[Ramses]

(04-25-2018 03:26 PM)Trent W. Wrote:  

Never been to Mallorca but that's a pretty strong statement!

As for your questions...

- First of all, there's nothing wrong with hitting on the girl that is available. I had the same inhibitions before. But I've actually gotten laid with a girl that was in the same group with another girl that I made out with earlier the same night (although the girl I eventually went with wasn't there to see it). I don't know if anyone has a formula for that, I think simply shifting your attention gradually and gaming her as usual works. And don't forget, your aim should always be to isolate.

- If we're talking dance floor, it's not so hard. Eye contact and gestures. Make sure you lock eyes with a girl and then get playful with her. Smile at her, wave hello, make dance moves to provoke some short of dance showdown. Have fun with it. If you see that she's responsive then either go over and start dancing or signal to her to meet you in the middle. If you start grinding on each other all else will follow.

- The FR was good, keep it up.

Yeah Palma de Mallorca I really advise, i could not believe my eyes.

I'm really going to focus on isolating a girl. I hope magic will happen once i do!

For advice on the field report I meant general advice on how the night went. I dont really mind about getting advice for writing a better FR or something. I phrased it wrong sorry.

Thanks for the feedback!

[Eddie Winslow]

(04-25-2018 01:15 PM)Ramses Wrote:  

I got closer with the girl by dancing and flirting. Eventually she told me she was getting married in a month. She also told me she had single friends with her now.
I was a little annoyed and did not want to suddenly hit on one of her friends because that would make me seem very needy. Not sure if I have a good mindset about that either..?

It doesn't matter how it theoretically "seems" if you don't actually try. If they like you, they will accept your advances.

If you wanted to get laid, you could easily try, fail, and then turn 180 degrees and chat up the next attractive stranger. If you want to develop a long lasting friendship with the girls, you could avoid hitting on them, but is that what you want?

Getting rejected, having girls turn on you, uncomfortable situations etc. are part of getting laid, especially in a club atmosphere.

(04-25-2018 01:15 PM)Ramses Wrote:  

While walking to the other club I was chatting to the cute girls from that group that was eyeing me before. We were all pretty drunk. I was being good company with high energy and jokes. She told me she had a boyfriend. In the group were 2 other girlfriends of her, one was very hot and another allright, but with short hair which i hate. I was not flirting with them because I feel it's like disrespecting the first girl I showed interest ind. Not sure if I have a good mindset on that?

I know this is tough to swallow if you are a nice guy, but you don't owe a girl you just met a goddamn thing. You are the prize, you are the one with the high energy and jokes, what has she contributed aside from simply existing? If you had already made out and have been heavily flirting for a good portion of the night, then obviously that's a different story.

Don't be so scared of what other people think, especially people who you don't know who you will likely never, ever, ever see again.

Otherwise, great job.

[Black Caesar]

Good stuff here.

“How can i start to hit on a friend of a girl i just hit on?”

If she pawns you off like what happened to you then all good and just proceed with the group. That is usually a layup.

Otherwise just keep flirting with everyone in the group and don’t choose up until the last possible minute (if you ever have to choose).

Basically if you had said “cool introduce me” she would have given you a warm lead and you can stick around to flirt with her friends which will make her want more from you and rethink her decision. Worst case you’re in with her friends.

Hard lining it like you did just lost you the group. Bad idea. Next time it will be easy though.

“How do you aproach in a club that is packed completely and it's nearly impossible to speak with the music so loud?”

This is actually a postive situation because it reduces personal space. Now you have to talk in her ear and get close to be heard and there is no hit to social frame while she takes you in and no one else can hear what you’re saying to her.

“If you have any tips, recommendations on my field report, please let me know.”

Keep doing them it’s how you get better.

Your interactions are super solid if you fix some mental blocks like “I shouldn’t hit on her friends” or “I have to choose only one girl from this group” then you’ll close.

Also spot sounds dope.

[azulsombra]

(04-25-2018 01:15 PM)Ramses Wrote:  

I think i found Poosy Paradise

So I took a couple of days of to got to Mallorca (a gorgeous Spanish Island, of to the coast of Spain and France).
The weather is amazing and I see hot women everywhere.

It's Saturday night and it's the final of the Copa del Rey (Spanish Football Tournament) between Barcelona and Sevilla. So I decided to go to a sports bars to see the game.

I arrived about an hour before the game started. The bar was already packed with hot girls dancing to salsa/reggeaton. It was 8:45PM wtf?

The closer we would get to the start of the game, the more hot women would stroll in. I could not believe my eyes what was going on.

While I was watching the game, 2 girls stood close to me dancing, one was a 7 and the other was a stunning 9. One of the hottest girls I have ever seen. I openend the hot one with "Who are you cheering for?". Her english was pretty bad, but her friends english was very good. So I chatted more with the less pretty one.
Not long after she was teaching me salsa and bachata.
My spanish is rather shit so instead of talking to the hot one I danced more with her.

It was incredible what was happening. There was hot women everywhere, outscaling men 2-1. In a sportsbar wtf?? And it's only 2 hours flight away from my shithole city Brussels. I need to find a way to live here...

After a while I offered them a drink, but they refused because they were almost leaving and had to drive. I kissed them goodbye and was satisfied with the interaction.

I continued to watch the game the Barcelona was destroying 5-0.
I was getting looks from a group of girls. When I went outside to smoke a cigarette I saw 2 girls of that group smoking a cigarette. I went to them asking if they had a lighter. We chatted for a while and they told me that they were going to a club. I asked if I could join and they said yes.

While walking to the other club I was chatting to the cute girls from that group that was eyeing me before. We were all pretty drunk. I was being good company with high energy and jokes. She told me she had a boyfriend. In the group were 2 other girlfriends of her, one was very hot and another allright, but with short hair which i hate. I was not flirting with them because I feel it's like disrespecting the first girl I showed interest ind. Not sure if I have a good mindset on that?

We arrived at the club. It was pretty small but it was packed with hot spanish girls dancing to reggeaton, which means heaven for me. I think the girls outnumbered guys 3-1. Unbelievable..

I got bored with my group of girls and went outside for a cigarette. I saw a group of 8 girls together and asked the hottest one if she had a lighter. We got in a nice converstation. After the group wanted to go inside and I went with them.

I got closer with the girl by dancing and flirting. Eventually she told me she was getting married in a month. She also told me she had single friends with her now.
I was a little annoyed and did not want to suddenly hit on one of her friends because that would make me seem very needy. Not sure if I have a good mindset about that either..?

I left her and went back to my group of girls I came with. They looked so bored and told me they were leaving.

I told them I was staying. After that the club was full to the brim, almost impossible to move. The music was so loud it was nearly impossible to talk. It felt pretty oppressive. I was very drunk. It was 3:00am. And I decided to go back to the hotel.

Had a pretty good night. No kiss, no bang, good interactions. This island is insane.
I really dont want to go back to my shithole city..

I got a few questions maybe someone can answer them:
- How can i start to hit on a friend of a girl i just hit on?
- How do you aproach in a club that is packed completely and it's nearly impossible to speak with the music so loud?
- If you have any tips, recommendations on my field report, please let me know.

Thanks

I've only visited Mallorca in mid-summer and its completely packed with tourist dudes at that time of year. I would avoid high summer season if I was you, don't expect the ratios to be anything like what you experienced. Good to know its better in the off season though.

[UniversalMen]

I'm really going to focus on isolating a girl. I hope magic will happen once i do!
[/quote]

Hello Ramses! Not sure if you're still going out solo but I wanted to add some advice to your poosy travels, and I'm sure you either already know this or have learned from other men on this forum, but try to go out a little earlier in the evening, if possible, and start up conversations with random people: store employees, bar patrons, and people you pass in the street (even women). The reason you do this is to drastically reduce your approach anxiety and fear of rejection.

DO NOT BE AFRAID OF REJECTION: The reason us men need to approach so many girls as possible is to reduce our fear of being rejected by them, and say that you go out solo again and the first 10 girls you approach (start with not so hot girls in the early evening) go with the GOAL of GETTING REJECTED. Not getting yelled at or slapped but hit on them and flirt with them. Get their numbers if you want but the point of all this is to get your fear of "opening" with the hotter girls later that night, out of your system. That way, when a hot girl does reject you, you move on to the next hot girl without skipping a beat.

You'll be invincible when it comes to approaching. You'll make the panties of a lot of hot girls, very wet!

I would very much like to read about your progress since your last Field Report.

Edit: ALSO! When approaching don't forget to breathe! Breathe through your nose and exhale through your mouth. It helps calm your nerves and tendency to say stupid shit.

[10hammer]

I travel for work alone frequently, so depending on the city I'm in, I often find myself going out solo.

Here are a few things I've picked up over the years that seem to help you warm up when you're feeling weird about going out alone...

- Start the night at a semi-crowded bar where you can GRAB A SEAT AT THE BAR... sitting at the bar, start talking to the bartender and the people next to you. Doesn't matter if it's male/female, single/couple, whatever, just start chatting with the people next to you. This is 100% "socially acceptable" and will get you warmed up. You might even meet some people who want to hit the next bar with you.
And make sure to ask the bartender where else is good to go that night. And "where all the girls are running around"? Guys working in the service industry usually know all the hot spots and where the talent hangs out.

- If you're feeling weird being solo, BUY TWO DRINKS... this might sound like a douchbag move, but carrying two drinks allows you to go start chatting up girls with the excuse that "you went to get drinks for you and your "friend"...but you think your friend went home with some girl, haha". Really this is just to get you out of your head about being out alone, and ultimately the girl you are talking to won't care if you are there alone or not.
This might help you with a little bit of social credibility, but also helps to get the girl talking about sex early in the interaction.

- GO DANCING... If you can dance even a little bit (or even if you can't), go hit a bar/club where there is a big dance floor. Think of times that you have been at a big club with your friends, how many times have you been separated from them on a dance floor, forgotten about them, and have been effectively gaming "solo" even though they were right around the corner. Replicate this same mindset while out solo. You just "lost your friends again".

- LOOK FOR GIRLS WHO ARE OUT SOLO... If you see a girl out solo, go start chatting her up ASAP! Her friends might be on their way, but once in a while you will meet girls out alone. This is really common in hotel bars.
If she is out alone, immediately start teasing her about it (in a playful way). Finding girls who are out alone is like striking gold. It makes pulling WAY easier... no cockblocking fat friends, no judgement for her to worry about, no finding lost drunk friends, etc. etc. And best of all, a girl out solo will WANT someone fun to hang out with!

This are all really just tricks to help you get out of your head when you are out solo... because you are the only one who cares anyway.
People are all in their own little world... when was the last time you even noticed someone else "out solo"?

[semibaron]

(04-12-2018 08:13 PM)Ramses Wrote:  

Field report #1

So this night was my first real night going out solo. I left my phone in my car so i could not watch it when i was feeling like it.

Good decision.

(04-12-2018 08:13 PM)Ramses Wrote:  

The problem is in Brussel you have a shit ton of expats, and when i open them i never know in what language i should start. Because most of them dont understand French. And my openers will fail most of the time because the girl just cant understand what I say..

It's not about what you, it's about how you say it. The next time try an universal greeting such as "hi, what's up?", "hola chicas" or "salut, how are you?" and go from there. Nobody actually cares about the content of the sentence.