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07-19-2018, 05:50 AM
If you have the money and she is not less than an 8, do it.
However make sure you are getting the bang. Start sexualising the conversation before she even flies to your city, send her really sexual pictures of guys giving oral sex to women and tell her you will make sure you will do that to her when you see her. Her response should tell you if she will fuck you when she comes to your city, if you are in doubt about this, don't do it.
The only problem is that 4 days is too short, for a 400 ticket, I would make sure that she would stay with me for 2 weeks at the very minimum. I have done this once and she stayed with me for 3 months, this was 10 years ago, I don't regret doing it at all. Don't listen to these guys telling you not to do it, it's your money, you do whatever you want to do with it. Enrich your life with wonderful sexual experiences with sexy women, experiences like that are unforgettable, specially if she is bad.
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07-19-2018, 11:01 AM
In my experience, it's best to make the girl pay for her own trip if you haven't fucked her yet. It can be understood that you'll pay for her expenses while she's staying with you, but she needs to take care of a significant portion of the plane ticket herself. If she gives you some good sex, then you can decide to help cover the cost of her transportation if you feel like it or she has genuine hardship. However, as Pitt points out, it's not a hard and fast rule. If she's really hot and fun and you're sure enough that she's DTF to take a chance on it, and you can afford it, then why not? Like Pitt said, you can test her compliance by asking her to stay for a couple of weeks instead of just four days.
I've had girls fly or drive long distances to see me and I did help some of them with their transportation expenses, but it was AFTER they fucked me. If any of them had come and stayed with me and immediately put me in the friend zone, there's no way I would have reimbursed them for any part of their travel.
I've known a couple of guys who helped pay for girls to come stay with them and then the girls friendzoned them and never put out. It was very humiliating for the guys involved. Even if they didn't say anything, you could tell the girl wasn't "with" them because of the body language and demeanor when they were around each other. It was very awkward.
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07-19-2018, 01:54 PM
Flying out girls seems kind of pointless, why not just game the girls in your city? Your basically just gambling by flying out a girl you never met. I'd probably only want girls to fly out and visit me if I had met and fucked them while I was traveling.
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07-19-2018, 03:30 PM
Ok, weird change of plans. So I just got notice I have to fly out to her city for work again, I'm flying out tonight and have the wkend free. This is a perfect chance to meet up with her and see if I can fuck her....or if she suddenly blows me off then I'll know she was only interested in the vacation to L.A. I haven't told her I'm going yet cuz i dont want to come off as thirsty but I'll invite her out once I'm already there.
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07-20-2018, 06:53 AM
A lot of great replies in this thread.
For me, it comes down to the classic money v. game paradox.
Quite simply: I wouldn't do it unless this girl is extremely invested, even if you can afford it. Investing that much in a girl you just made out with is basically putting your balls in her purse. Don't inflate the expectations of these women.
Now, as was previously said, if she's given herself to you in every which way, and is literally begging to see you, and offering herself completely? That's a different story if your bank account is tight.
Logically speaking though, if you're making enough money to be able to afford such a thing, you'll get a higher ROI in your local market, and there's a very good chance there's a girl dying to meet you, and fuck your brains out without you having to pay for a plane ticket.
Choose accordingly. Your bankroll is way more important than even top shelf pussy until your passive income has you covered.
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07-20-2018, 10:33 AM
I agree that many of the strategies in this thread could work. My opinion is that your decision should be based on how much you value the money and if you will be able to remain outcome independent after buying the flight..... and the girl's personality. We don't know much about the girl and how she is communicating with you so it is difficult to say.
One thing to be aware of is the likelihood that she agrees to the trip and then cancels. It's not uncommon for attention seeking girls to agree to something like this without intending to follow through. Girls will do this purely for attention and the validation from knowing that the guy will spend the money on them.
Something much more common is for her to agree and then change her mind at the last minute. Girls don't always think through their plans. Also, you paying for the flight can backfire because her attraction for you can decrease once she mentally processes that you paid for the chance to bang her. On the other hand, there are girls that wouldn't consider doing something like this if the guy didn't pay.
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07-20-2018, 10:37 AM
Bro. Don't trick on the ho. Find another version of her in your local vicinity. But I also hear it ain't tricking if you got it. I say Tricking is tricking whether u got it or don't got it. Church Tabernacle...cathedral...pimpin..?
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07-20-2018, 12:18 PM
I say go for it! Sounds like it will be your first time so just think of it as a learning experience.
Report back if you do
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07-20-2018, 03:39 PM
A lot of poverty mindset in this thread.
If he's got it like that then the answer is obviously fly her out.
If he's got Game then he already would have done that and not have been asking here.
Worst case is she ditches him and he's out a flight and hopefully won't waste any more time on the chick, which is a cheap lesson and well worth the cost to find out what you're dealing with.
Best case she comes fucks his brains out and flies back till he buys her another ticket.
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07-20-2018, 10:51 PM
Wow this girl did a 180 on me big-time, I told her I'm in her city and she took 2hrs to reply with a "I'm out of town"..i told her I'm here for a week and she straight up ignored me. This was after she was texting me frequently about coming to visit me.
On a side note, anyone have any recommendations on clubs in tampa? Lol!!
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07-21-2018, 02:52 AM
Hahahaha, what an unexpected turn of events!
Have fun in Tampa.
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07-26-2018, 10:19 PM
Holy fuck look at those juicy titties!
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07-27-2018, 07:53 AM
So, she was trying to get a free trip to LA. It doesn't mean, however, that she wouldn't have fucked you. If you had said that you would reimburse her for the ticket after she arrived, it would have put pressure on her to put out. But, if you had said that she likely would have tried to get a ticket from one of her other Instagram followers before she used your offer as a last resort.
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07-27-2018, 08:16 AM
Bro, you’re a backup plan.
Move on!
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07-27-2018, 10:55 AM
By the way, you should check Seeking Arrangement for her city because there's a very good chance she's on there.
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07-27-2018, 12:40 PM
I think you may have dodged a bullet here, and luckily so, but you still haven't addressed the original question. Is it "okay" to buy a girl a ticket to visit you?
Absolutely. Why not? If you're dating girls much younger than you, they're likely going to be financially immature, until they get their shit sorted out. I don't think there is any dilemma here at all. If you can afford it, why would you not invite a potential mate out to visit?
That having been said, it would seem in this case, my theory wouldn't really pan out on the positive side. But, I dunno. $400 is not very much to me. So, I think, in almost all situations, I would do it. Even if you only log a 25% success rate, that's still only the 25% of what you tried. And if you didn't try at all, you'd never even get that 25%