I have a bit of a dilema, i met this hot 21yr old while i was traveling in a different city and weve been chatting about her coming to visit me in L.A...thing is i would have to pay for her round-trip plane ticket($400), meals, drinks, entertainment, etc. for a 4 day weekend. Dont get me wrong, I make good money and can easily afford it but Im not sure if she's really that into me or is just agreeing to an all expense paid vacation to the city of angels. She texts me alot about wanting to visit here and go to the beaches and attractions LA has to offer. Im still undecided and havent committed to anything but wanted to know if you guys have ever done this and was it worth it.

Your chances of smashing are pretty good if she's agreeing to spend 4 days with you.

If you can afford it, fly her in and activate "don't fuck up" game.

Unless you're richer than Crassus, I recommend you don't do it.

Better to save $400 to use for yourself or a fraction of it to help land some bird who lives close by. Tell that bitch it's 2018, and if she's not willing to buy her plane ticket to see you, she's not a real woman. And she's a bigot.

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Dude that's a Bad Idea! It's either you Mack her so you over Hard that SHE takes the initiative to Fly ( very unlikely & hard to achieve) or that You visit het when your schedule allows you to(so that way you keep frame)

Of course you can still get the Bang by flying her over... but this option gives you the least "Bonus Points" right out of the Gate! If you're 100% sure you do 't have a case of oneits... I would advice you to just fallow your Gut about which option is the Best to Fallow!

She's a big girl, so she should pay for her own flight. End of story.

Part of the deal for you to bang her, in her mind, is that you pay her a vacation. That’s what she sees as a fair exchange.

If she’s that much more attractive than you, and you feel you can’t easily get a girl like that in your city, and additionally you don’t mind being in a sugar daddy like potition: go for it.

You can try to negotiate, maybe say you pay half. All depends of who wants it more—you banging her—or her the vacation.

Is local pussy so hard to penetrate?

Just tell her you'll see her when she makes it to LA and keep in touch.
How can you be sure you won't get me too'd once it gets hot?

Your in LA in in which Is a hot spot for 8s and up with money and your going to bring more sand to the beach. Is there something I am missing or is it just for the unknown novelty factor. You can be that desperate in a place where beauties are flying in daily.c

You're seeing this as: I am paying her plane ticket and entertaining her for 4 days and I am definitely fucking her.
She sees this as: This dude is paying my whole vacation, I might as well plan other things to do when I am not with him which will be a big part of my time.

DON'T DO IT!

Bad idea man, don't be dumb

Quote: (07-17-2018 10:42 PM)Axel99 Wrote:  

I would have to pay for her round-trip plane ticket ($400), meals, drinks, entertainment, etc. for a 4 day weekend.
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She texts me alot about wanting to visit here and go to the beaches and attractions LA has to offer.
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I'm not sure if she's just agreeing to an all expense paid vacation to the city of angels.

How could you possibly think that?
I definitely don't see any red flags here, you're good to go.

Don't let the broke naysayers here drag you down.
Remember, they hate us cause they ain't us.

So man up and buy her the tickets. She deserves it.

Pay for meals and wine and everything if you wish, but don’t pay for the flight. If you do you lose frame and she will spend her days with her first LA tinder match.

If banging her a few days is worth the $400 or whatever lol. Then yeah sure.

But yeah I see the pro's & cons with the various perspectives up above.

Have back up plan ready if she arrives and decides not to have sex with you.

Personally I would say this:

I would just say I got call about a work related emergency and you have to go out of town right away and she can't stay at your place but you and drop her back to the airport or anywhere she wants to go.

Assuming she has no money... it should work

I could think of alot of things I'd do with $400 + meals + booze + entertainment that don't involve women.

Hell for that much, you could get a SA account and pull girls to a hotel for way cheaper, more bang per buck.

I have had plenty of girls fly out to see me. There was a thread discussion on this a while back.

I only fly out girls who meet a few criteria:
1. At least a 7.5
2. Already have fucked every which way from Sunday
3. She has shown super high interest in me. I.E texting me multiple times a day, calling all the time, video chat etc.
4. She is paying for at least half or most of her flight. This is a biggie for me and honestly how most of my girls roll. They usually pay for their ticket and I buy food/drinks and the plan B pills
4.5 I've had girls i've known for a while ask me to buy the ticket and they will pay me back. These are girls I trust and they've always paid me back on time.

If you haven't' fucked this girl, I wouldn't recommend it. Then again, we live in the real world. Maybe you're going through a dry streak, maybe she's just your type and/or you don't give a shit about blowing the cash. If so have at it, but just be aware you may get played.

Good luck!

-CD

If you're ok with seeking arrangement and you're sure this girl will put out, do it.

I am looking forward to the continuance of this story.

If the money is no object to you and you just want some female company with zero expecations then go for it. I'm just saying don't expect her to pay you back with play.

If it were me and this were somewhere in South America where a domestic flight is only like $60USD and most girls are poor and have a hard time affording that kind of scratch then I'd say fuck ya. In the states I've had a couple girls travel to my city from far off and they paid their own way. I'm not in the business of sponsoring girls.

She's already got a claw in your bank account from the sounds of it.

You: Tell you what, if you get a flight and come over, you can stay with me and I'll show you around.

OR

Spend the money, fly her over and have tight game. Maybe take her out and approach other girls in front of her. You'll have to be indifferent and/or escalate fast. Strange combo I know.

Good luck.

I had one girl from Argentina, one from Brasil come to visit me in Toronto all I paid was accomodations (my place) meals and drinks (at my place) they paid for their flights and entertaiment. We have met as I did travel to those countries for vacations and they were girls in their mid 20s uni grads and holding professional jobs.

I have travelled to Panama (bocas del Toro), Mexico (playa del
Carmen), Aruba, and Miami to meet up with girls too. All I had to take care for was the Airbnb.

Next month I have a week vacation and a will be heading to Bogota (first visit) where I have a cousing and a couple of friends I can visit. My cute blonde 28 years old lawyer who currently resides in Cucuta due to work, will be taking the time off and has already arranged for Airbnb so, I do not need to worry about where to stay or paid for it.

I remember when the first time it happened to me and now I look at it and say fuck! It has happened lots of time without even worrying about how to make it happened.

Ps. My trip to Bogota I will have the airbnb for 2 nights before my cute blond arrives. I will try to game and see if I can get a girl in before her flight lands in El Dorado Airport

Someone had an excellent thread on the topic. He was living in Thailand, and doing in country flights for $80 a pop for rural farmgirls.

Not really comparable, IMO.

Flight tickets are too much. She should be very grateful if you even offer to host or show her around. And even then, I wouldn't invest a lot in it.

Next time she brings up LA, you say "come visit then. I'll rent you 23% of my bed" or something similar and take it from there

Depends on how hot the girl is. I probably wouldn't do it, but I've known rather alpha guys who have flown girls out for a weekend. However, these dudes are 30+ and working high-level Wall Street jobs and these were stunners in college. The other important distinction is that they're dudes who pull regardless of where they are, so it wasn't an act of desperation. It was just flexin.

The one dude I'm thinking of has serious expendable cash who probably was just getting his kicks since he had essentially "made it" and could spend cash like that on a whim showing a girl around a tier-1 city. If you're a younger cat with less disposable income, i think you'd be better off working on your game and finding something more local.

That said, if you don't give a shit about the money, go ahead. I'm sure you'd hit it, but be honest with yourself: are you doing it because you can't find girls locally or are you really just out for an adventure?

Of course, remember that my game is mostly coming from an Asia perspective where I'm dating girls almost 10 years younger than me on average and they often do not have cash to throw around. Even then, I'm not flying em around or comping plane tickets. Perhaps I'd consider it if the girl in question were seriously fucking hot, but a Chinese girl flying to meet you in your city knows she's gonna get fucked for your money's worth.