[TheOriginalSniggler]

Well, I know what happens hahahaha. Been there done that. I’d say my place for the last years has been observance with equal amount of work and opportunity but I’m hitting hard cause style.

It’s a wall after a wall after a wall. I’m thinking I need to make it over this or break it.

It’s be easier imy competition is so far ahead of me, Better looking, stronger, richer. Every advantage I’ve seen and it’s not necessarily all three at once but it’s people who have something. I wanted sick game to be that fourth disregarded factor but it doesn’t happen like that.

My problem is initial attraction but I’ve problems everywhere.

Here’s where I’ve suceeded. I know where the good parties are, or what I think.

All right job long hours,

Good hobbies, just don’t meet women doing them.

So what happens when you are outclassed? What have you done as compensation? *[Besides luck and good timings]

[Comte De St. Germain]

Newbie forum. Next time post there.

And if you're seriously asking such an obvious question read about every thread on this forum. Each of them has an answer.

You think most of us play from a level playing field lol?

[TheOriginalSniggler]

Why I’m posting on the game forum.

I thought game was the “fourth benign” factor. I’ve been noticing that it isn’t as much the case “NOW” as it has been.

Tell me though wise man, you’ve been there and done this. Throw a nibblet my way so I can eat. I’m a starving man for these sort of things.

My fault, and all my faults. Next time to the noob forum. I’ve read Laners stuff not much else besides randoms here and there.

[kinjutsu]

This does belong in the newbie section because it is a novice problem you are having.
You lack significant amount of inner game. No amount of looks, style or wealth will be able to compensate for that.

Not every man can have a model face but every man has the power to get in shape. Lose the body fat and get more muscle mass. They also can dress better, eat better and become a more interesting man that women will want to know more about.

[BadgerHut]

I'd get past the idea that you need to be better than everyone else to be successful. Remind yourself, "there are guys getting laid who are shorter, fatter, poorer and lamer than me." Stop worrying about whether you are better on paper than the "competition" and get your ass in the field where your boldness and tenacity can be a winning trait against guys who look like they're better but often fold like cheap suits when their natural traits don't get the job done.

You ever watch football? And seen a player who's giving away 20 pounds and 2-4 inches beat the bigger guy off the ball, or hassle and hustle the "better" guy until he says I don't need this shit? That's the guy you gotta imagine yourself as. It's a long journey, but the first step is not giving up because you think someone else out there has the edge on you.

[Supreme4ever]

BADGERHUT that is very correct advice. I'm the shit by most accounts but you best believe I know there's another 5% guy I'm competing against.

[ADEBISIGARANA]

create your reality. behave like the most interesting man in the world.

[Barron]

Embrace rejection and learn to take a loss.

Women are, Men must become.

Women are born with all the value they will ever have.

A man's value is decided by himself alone. If you feel outclassed, you have only yourself to blame.