Okay! I'm excited to ask for help because I'm learning something new about the game.
A similar situation has happened to me before, but I ended up just dumping the girl instead of trying to figure out how to deal with it. This time, I'm gonna try to experiment and see if I can deal with it.
Timeline:
- Met a girl two Saturday's ago. Sept 10th. Made out with her but couldn't close. Got her number.
- Called her up the following Monday, setup a date for Wednesday night.
- Took her out Wednesday, brought her home and fucked her in her room.
- Called her up the following Monday (Sept 19th), setup another date for tomorrow (Wed Sept 21st.)
- Just got a call 20 min ago from her.
Here's the call:
What the fuck is this call all about? Here's what I figure.
She's experienced buyer's remorse since I've last seen her and wants to regain her power in the relationship, even though she's already had sex with me.
At first, I thought about just canceling the date. That would be easiest. But, on the other hand, I'd like to see where this goes and see if I can learn anything.
So, for tomorrow's date, I'm obviously going to go for the bang. I don't know what the fuck she's babbling about, but obviously she's really insecure and wants to try and regain some hand.
How can I amend this situation so she's back to being comfortable with me and willing to bang?
Should I reassure her she's "someone I like too" and "not easy at all"? Should I not make a move for tomorrow's date (note: that will never happen unless someone in this forum gives me some very compelling reasons)?
Comments, suggestions, and inputs greatly appreciated.
A similar situation has happened to me before, but I ended up just dumping the girl instead of trying to figure out how to deal with it. This time, I'm gonna try to experiment and see if I can deal with it.
Timeline:
- Met a girl two Saturday's ago. Sept 10th. Made out with her but couldn't close. Got her number.
- Called her up the following Monday, setup a date for Wednesday night.
- Took her out Wednesday, brought her home and fucked her in her room.
- Called her up the following Monday (Sept 19th), setup another date for tomorrow (Wed Sept 21st.)
- Just got a call 20 min ago from her.
Here's the call:
Quote:phone call Wrote:
"Um, I'm just calling to let you know that things just happened last time we were together and I didn't want it to go that far."
Me: "Um... okay..?"
"I mean, I really like you but I didn't want it to go that far, if you know what I mean."
Me: "I'm not sure I know what you mean."
"Well, if we hang out again tomorrow I don't want to feel any pressure."
Me: "Well, we'll just meet up and play it by ear."
"Okay"
Me: "I'll see you tomorrow at xxx"
"Okay, I didn't want to make this weird or anything. Just wanted to let you know."
Me: "Alright. See ya"
What the fuck is this call all about? Here's what I figure.
She's experienced buyer's remorse since I've last seen her and wants to regain her power in the relationship, even though she's already had sex with me.
At first, I thought about just canceling the date. That would be easiest. But, on the other hand, I'd like to see where this goes and see if I can learn anything.
So, for tomorrow's date, I'm obviously going to go for the bang. I don't know what the fuck she's babbling about, but obviously she's really insecure and wants to try and regain some hand.
How can I amend this situation so she's back to being comfortable with me and willing to bang?
Should I reassure her she's "someone I like too" and "not easy at all"? Should I not make a move for tomorrow's date (note: that will never happen unless someone in this forum gives me some very compelling reasons)?
Comments, suggestions, and inputs greatly appreciated.
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