[_DC_]

Does anybody know of any tricks that worked for them?

What's funny is if I'm drunk I go too long, as in, the girl will dry up eventually because I've been pounding her forever. If I'm sober, like even the morning after, oh boy, it's not going to last long as all.

I know they make condoms with lidocaine or something similar, but I don't necessarily want to take away from the experience, e.g. numb my cock to feel even less than the usual condom provides.

An answer such as "get laid more" I completely don't buy. I was with a smoking hot girl for about 5 months and it never resolved.

I suppose the only thing I could think of is to bang less attractive girls, but that certainly isn't happening. I still don't think I've ever banged a girl over 130lbs.

[MikeCF]

The best answer is to improve your refractory period - that is, shorter the time period in between erections.

If I'm with a new, hot chick, I am busting in under 3 minutes. But I'm hard again in 5 minutes, and then pounding away. Then I am hard again.

Best way to improve refractory period is through having a good diet and exercising hard.

[Screwston]

I used to bust within a few minutes if I was going in raw. I try to focus on anything else if I feel it coming (picture on wall, tile pattern, homework). I also go slow and make the girl slow is she's riding me or any position where she's in control. I remember an interview with Ron Jeremy and he said his secret is to think of an old lady or someone setting up bricks lol

[Parlay44]

It's a compliment to a woman if you come quickly.

I've had a few times where I couldn't come at all. Wore myself out trying.

She looked good and all but she just wasn't sexy enough to get me off. Weird experience.

[tenderman100]

I know for some this a no no ...but masturbation. Or rather, don't masturbate.

Lube yourself up, and get to the point where you are just about to cum and stop, do the old kegel (tighten your asshole) and then do it again. Do it a dozen times.

You must learn how you react so you control the extent to which you react.

I am in my late 50s. I can go for hours now, because I know exactly how to control it.

[Chad Daring]

Wish I had your problems. I've got nerve damage from being cut when I was younger, a large majority of the time I have sex I dont come.

[Samseau]

My first time to shoot a load can happen pretty quickly. But 2nd and 3rd times I last really long. I like to wear a condom for the first load, and then go raw for subsequent loads.

[Kickb]

I've blamed it on too much foreplay a couple of times

[Pilgrim37]

Like to know the chemistry behind it.
A few beers works for me...dulls the reflex and synapses I think,but I'm guessing the alcohol is the culprit

Apparently Prozac works..another synapse effect or something.

I used to be worried about it in my teens and 20's ,but it's not a big deal...I guess when you can cum 5-10 times a day at that age it doesn't matter much.
We're pretty much designed that way though ,it's a reflex action to hit the Bullseye...your genetics are not worried about lasting for a women's pleasure ...just knocking her up!
Whereas for women it is deeper and longlasting...the orgasm I'm talking about.

If you cum quick..just take care of her for a while till you're ready to polish the beef bayonet again.

If you want to be a Porno Star,then you might need to find a solution..muscle control and all that...
Personally I've tried it but when I hit that "point of no return" Wild horses couldn't stop pull me back from the brink

[Screwston]

Shit, I can't believe I forgot alcohol and bud. Smoke and sip some before that time and you'll go long and hard.

[Ami5]

Agree with tenderman:

I did kegel for two-three months and went along with three girls for half hours, one hours and 2.5 hours! (without booze or anything)
Though maybe I am a newbie so it could have mattered.
Still, I find being hard for two-three hours much bigger problem than anything else...

[haywire]

(09-21-2011 01:38 AM)Ami5 Wrote:  

I did kegel for two-three months and went along with three girls for half hours, one hours and 2.5 hours! (without booze or anything)

Really? Can you really go on for 2.5 hours?

I might be able to go on physiologically beyond 45 minutes but mentally I want to cum already!

[Ami5]

Mentally I too wanted to come, to be real
To be honest I felt it too odd, as I thought its abnormal! I jack off pretty normal, but that sex went real long! (maximum: to be quite sure I watched it was from 11pm till 3, including foreplay)

[afronoob]

(09-21-2011 03:18 AM)Ami5 Wrote:  

Mentally I too wanted to come, to be real
To be honest I felt it too odd, as I thought its abnormal! I jack off pretty normal, but that sex went real long! (maximum: to be quite sure I watched it was from 11pm till 3, including foreplay)

You can ALL GO FOR HOURS. Breathe deeply-it helps if you do cardio cause it teaches the importance of keeping a proper breathing rhythm. It keeps you energised and hard-if she's a hottie you'll surprise yourself with your stamina.

[Moma]

(09-20-2011 04:03 PM)houston Wrote:  

I used to bust within a few minutes if I was going in raw. I try to focus on anything else if I feel it coming (picture on wall, tile pattern, homework). I also go slow and make the girl slow is she's riding me or any position where she's in control. I remember an interview with Ron Jeremy and he said his secret is to think of an old lady or someone setting up bricks lol

I've said this before and I must repeat it... Margaret Thatcher is my saviour. I've been balls deep in a gorgeous reptile and I have felt the floods coming and then I just imagine snogging old Margie and my nutt literally regresses right back up the shaft.

Think of a really hideous lizard. Engage fantasies about you and her naked having sex and your nutt will retract. If you do cum as fast, then maybe you are just attracted to hideous lizards (good for you)..

[Cecil Spits]

GBL works better than anything that I know of.

[Pusscrook]

(09-21-2011 03:35 PM)Moma Wrote:  

(09-20-2011 04:03 PM)houston Wrote:  

I used to bust within a few minutes if I was going in raw. I try to focus on anything else if I feel it coming (picture on wall, tile pattern, homework). I also go slow and make the girl slow is she's riding me or any position where she's in control. I remember an interview with Ron Jeremy and he said his secret is to think of an old lady or someone setting up bricks lol

I've said this before and I must repeat it... Margaret Thatcher is my saviour. I've been balls deep in a gorgeous reptile and I have felt the floods coming and then I just imagine snogging old Margie and my nutt literally regresses right back up the shaft.

Think of a really hideous lizard. Engage fantasies about you and her naked having sex and your nutt will retract. If you do cum as fast, then maybe you are just attracted to hideous lizards (good for you)..

Very good post , Moma, . A lot of this comes down to "mind over matter". Tricks like the above mentioned, coupled with understanding the triggers that accelerate ejaculation seems to work wonders.

You can always find natural substances to stave off coming too soon. I sometimes use a formula called " La piedra" (the stone) if I want to send the pussy a very stern message. ***Warning, taking such a substance and not fucking/masturbating could cause one to agonize for hours without any pleasure.

[dc1000]

Forget substances or visual imagery.

Here is what I learned and I can last for exactly however long I want to now - whether 2 minutes or 200.

You have to know your body. I don't know about you guys but my orgasms start as a tiny small feeling that signals the start of a process that takes usually 10-30 seconds. It slowly builds up to the point where I realize there is gonna be a nut and things just proceed from there.

You have to learn to feel and find that difference.

Its like a train that you're expecting. You fuck and fuck and fuck and then off in the distance you hear the faintest sound of the whistle blowing...thats when the orgasm is starting. You start getting your bags and shit together and the train keeps on approaching finally whooshing into the station with a fucking roar.

The key to not orgasming early is when you hear that faint whistle blow, instead of getting your bags together to get on that train...get your shit and get the fuck off the station.

Slow your fucking down. Stop it completely. Take some time to (depending on your style) choke the bitch or gently move the hair out of her face and gaze longingly into her eyes.

Take your dick and stop pumping, and just push it balls deep and leave it there.

Do anything you can to do STOP.

After a few moments, the orgasm train will disappear and you'll be good to go again for a while, sometimes even longer than before.

Like I said, the key is knowing your body and being able to feel the first instant when an orgasm train is coming.

I've found that this rise and fall method also tends to lead to more intense eventual orgasms for myself and for her as it raises the sexual energy in the room to a completely higher level.

[Pusscrook]

(10-12-2011 10:06 AM)dc1000 Wrote:  

Forget substances or visual imagery.

Even if it works huh. I didn't know there was one "method".

[dc1000]

(10-12-2011 10:19 AM)Pusscrook Wrote:  

(10-12-2011 10:06 AM)dc1000 Wrote:  

Forget substances or visual imagery.

Even if it works huh. I didn't know there was one "method".

Talking shit is easier than making a contribution, always.

Wouldn't you rather learn how to actually control your body directly rather than indirectly or with a foreign substance that you may or may never have on you?

Wouldn't you rather control your body while staying in the moment, connected to the girl you're fucking rather than thinking about some ugly old hag?

What is the fucking point of sticking your dick in some hot new young pussy and thinking about margaret thatcher?

i for one, would rather look at the little pussy i'm pounding, stay in the moment with the girl and control my body at the same time.

I thought this board was policed for trolls and malcontents, but I guess not.

[Dash Global]

Lately I have noticed if I hold out and dont cum when I first get the urge I sometimes lose my hard on and or getting to climax is much harder.

Weird....

A quick good blow job solves this problem though

[Pusscrook]

(10-12-2011 10:31 AM)dc1000 Wrote:  

(10-12-2011 10:19 AM)Pusscrook Wrote:  

(10-12-2011 10:06 AM)dc1000 Wrote:  

Forget substances or visual imagery.

Even if it works huh. I didn't know there was one "method".

Talking shit is easier than making a contribution, always.

Wouldn't you rather learn how to actually control your body directly rather than indirectly or with a foreign substance that you may or may never have on you?

Wouldn't you rather control your body while staying in the moment, connected to the girl you're fucking rather than thinking about some ugly old hag?

What is the fucking point of sticking your dick in some hot new young pussy and thinking about margaret thatcher?

Some of us control it by any means necessary. I sometimes think about how my tax dollars are being spent by the government. Works wonders for me. All depends on the agenda . Some fucks are based on anger, some love, some lust, etc. Im delighted to hear what works for you. Fuck on.

[Spike]

I last longer when i use half a cialis, you fuck like a pornstar and your dick is soo hard that i think it gets numbed a bit. Sometimes i had even had trouble busting.

Problem is its mentally addictive. Once you bang the living daylights out of a girl on cialis, its hard to go back to regular joe, especially now that im in bad shape due to traveling for 2.5 years. ( not enough sleep, bad food and too much drinks)

[Chad Daring]

Anyone tried horny goatweed? I've worked with a couple older guys who would swear by this stuff, thought about ordering a bottle but I dont want to get swindled on snakeoil.

[Catch 22]

I'm late to the party on this topic, but I'd much rather bust early than think about non-sexual shit. There are some other good ideas already(the 50 year old guy nailed one of them), but you can also work in positions and angles that you aren't as in to. So go to your favorite, then one you're into quite as much for a "rest," then back to something you like a lot. Same with speeds - going too slow or too fast moves me away from climax...you can use that to your advantage if you have to. But c'mon, Margaret Thatcher?!?!