Quote: (06-08-2012 04:35 PM)soup Wrote:
Quote: (06-08-2012 04:20 PM)Stitch Wrote:
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Don't try to last longer. What's the point? Are you trying to win over some precious, pedestilized creature.
/shrug. I get off on the woman's enjoyment and having her go wild for a nice long session; if it was just a matter of rubbing my skin and squirting, may as well stay home with a bottle of lubriderm.
Ok, unless you have a rare physical impairment, you are probably just having some anxiety. What is the root of the anxiety? It's most likely coming from a scarcity mindset which gives her a lot of power. If you want to errode that, you should just focus on upping your notch count.
I'll bet that if you fuck a lot of different girls it will clear up.
It's the same sing with approach anxiety. It looses some of it's power if you are constantly approaching women.
Aside from that, don't sit for more than 45 min at a time, and avoiding riding bikes, because both can lead to prostatitis (which can interfere with your hard-on).
The other thing you can do is have angry sex instead of chill sex. When you let the angry out, it overrides a lot of the anxiety.
Its not that easy. From somebody whom has been dealing with PE its a loosing battle each way.
Its a self eating mess. PW quite honestly lead me to Game because the notches I was squeezing out end up being a disaster where I didn't enjoy myself nor the female. Female would not want to repeat, and I loose out getting that consistent pipe line of kitty to help work-over the anxiety issues.
My needs come first but even when my pipes were normal I still got off and making girls nut and scream. Its a very powerful and sadistic thing to know you cause that shit, I can rifle of my orgasm on my own.. so the feminine attributes add a lot.
It is a anxiety backbrain issue. But unless you got the problem you have no idea how hard it is to get that piece of your mind back on-line. A physical ailment you can fix or strengthen but this is in the deep trenched of your brain.
* What used to work for me before it got to hectic of an issue (when it was just a 5-7 min thing) was I would take breaks and eat her out and shit, then return to pile driving. Switching back and forth would stretch things out for as long as you want.
* For me since other stlimuli get me off more-so then the actual "feeling" of sex I would those otehr stimuli such as her apperence by just fucking ugly fat sloots whom look like cows.
Jokes, but for real things like turning off the lights and fucking in complete darkness though. You can do stupid shit like dig your head into the pillow or even cover your ears if she's riding on top. You still get things like sent and just having sweaty sex, and the feeling of it to help you along.
This is the ramifications of my beta days comming back to haunt. In those days I perfected my my oral, and did all things from A-Z to turn into a zombie in the sack where I would just pile drive bitches for a hour. My mind was to think it was all about her back then.
It did keep a consistent rotation of sloots whom fiend for me and typical of women whom talk to much my snake became a urban legend females wanted to try. But it wasn't worth it. I would just rather be normal and be able to pipe a bitch for 10-15 min and be happy and satisfied.
Right now I am hopping no porn/ no fap + light meditation can help re-wire my brain. Plus working out bad logistics on my end so I can get back a consistent rotation of sloots to practice with and toss.