[assman]

Moma, wouldn't the desensitizing agent that is working on your dick also desensitize her vag?

The other problem I've run into, in my limited experience with this stuff, is that it's not easy to stay fully hard when your dick is all numbed up.

[Blaze Frazier]

I've often wondered if there is such a thing as TOO much stamina. When I fuck, I'm going for at least a few hours at a time.

I found that kegels work wonders, especially if you're masturbating. Get yourself to climax, then try your damndest to keep it in. Maybe it's awful advice, I don't know. Working out in general should also help lasting longer.

[kosko]

(06-18-2012 07:48 PM)assman Wrote:  

Moma, wouldn't the desensitizing agent that is working on your dick also desensitize her vag?

The other problem I've run into, in my limited experience with this stuff, is that it's not easy to stay fully hard when your dick is all numbed up.

If you raw dogg ya. But if your wrapping it then no. I used to always used those de-sensitize cream condoms but sometimes the lube and cream would mix and year it would numb up the vag. This stone+rubber combo would be ideal.

[IVth_Element]

(06-16-2012 12:37 PM)theoogabear Wrote:  

(06-16-2012 12:11 PM)Catch 22 Wrote:  

Interesting, now that I think about it, I do seem to cum quicker when I haven't pissed. Why would that be?

that prostate simulation, brah.

Works for some women too.

I was nailing this Jewish chick that could squirt 5 times in a row whiling riding me in like 20 minutes flat. Her secret. Keeping her bladder full before sex. She would plan out exactly how much water she needed to drink and time it to our sex.

And no, its not pee. Its a different fluid, completely clear, that tries basically just like water, no stain. My bed was covered in it. I've had some experience with squirters. They pee after sex just like any other girl.

[assman]

(06-18-2012 10:15 PM)kosko Wrote:  

If you raw dogg ya. But if your wrapping it then no. I used to always used those de-sensitize cream condoms but sometimes the lube and cream would mix and year it would numb up the vag. This stone+rubber combo would be ideal.

Desensitizing cream AND a rubber and you can stay fully hard? Or is it like a semi-woody that eventually gets fully hard as the cream wears off?

[IVth_Element]

Another idea for guys that usually raw dog but need to add a few minutes to their time.

Start out slow without a condom. Get the motion going right. Don't stare at her tits, but enjoy looking at other parts of her body like her arms, hair, etc.

Keep a condom by the bed and when you're starting to reach that point, tell her you want to come inside her and throw on the condom. Use a decent condom that you're used to opening. Get back in her quick, she'll enjoy the transition. I've seen it help girls come as it buys them the extra 10 minutes they need after we've usually finished, she has already been built up with the skin to skin action, and it relaxes them enough to come due to not worrying as much about getting knocked up.

You'll reduce the risk of pregnancy of only going raw, enjoy the non latex action for a bit, turn her on with the comment and buy yourself another 5 to 10 minutes.

Also start out massaging each other to reduce tension and don't forget to keep breathing. Just like working out, guys are known to hold their breath during sex. I catch myself doing it from time to time.

[Snowman]

Do what I did. Going back to the prostate thing, sex incorporates muscles. When you nut, it's a muscle behind it. So, work out that muscle and you'll be able to control it. Kegel exercises for men. Simple as that. It really works and you can actually enjoy sex. Win win. It has a lot of benefits too, like making the blast even bigger and bladder control. You're welcome

http://www.kegelexercisesformen.com/

[IVth_Element]

I've done the kegel thing and it works okay, but you have to remember to keep doing it. It also doesn't solve the issue if you are still doing other things like shallow breathing, tensing up other muscles, or if you have general anxiety.

I think learning proper breathing techniques from doing regular aerobic exercise is the biggest factor. I seriously doubt that runners have this issue. If you can run 5 miles you can fuck for at least 20 minutes. If not, then you might just have anxiety and massaging the legs and just laying down to relax before jumping right into it will help.

Low dose SSRI's work as well although I wouldn't recommend them unless someone already has depression/anxiety issues and then only 5mg a day max, IMO.

[Moma]

(06-18-2012 07:48 PM)assman Wrote:  

Moma, wouldn't the desensitizing agent that is working on your dick also desensitize her vag?

The other problem I've run into, in my limited experience with this stuff, is that it's not easy to stay fully hard when your dick is all numbed up.

You are supposed to wash it off. Put it on when you think you are going to have sex and then wash it off eventually. It won't rub off then.

I was too lazy to wash it off with the lizard and hence...

If you have trouble getting hard with this thing on, then your staying power should be pretty good, non?

If not, then have you tried the kegels mentioned by the Snowman?

[Screwston]

Hmm not sure which product to get. I was planning on getting some generic Viagra that we have been talking about in the Lifestyle section.

[Snowman]

(06-18-2012 10:54 PM)IVth_Element Wrote:  

I've done the kegel thing and it works okay, but you have to remember to keep doing it. It also doesn't solve the issue if you are still doing other things like shallow breathing, tensing up other muscles, or if you have general anxiety.

I think learning proper breathing techniques from doing regular aerobic exercise is the biggest factor. I seriously doubt that runners have this issue. If you can run 5 miles you can fuck for at least 20 minutes. If not, then you might just have anxiety and massaging the legs and just laying down to relax before jumping right into it will help.

Yeah it's a daily thing but if you can get up to 20 minutes at a time and combine it with yoga, then you're pretty much set for life.

(06-18-2012 11:06 PM)houston Wrote:  

Hmm not sure which product to get. I was planning on getting some generic Viagra that we have been talking about in the Lifestyle section.

I'd go witht the off brand viagra. Cheaper and practically the exact same thing

[kosko]

(06-18-2012 10:20 PM)assman Wrote:  

(06-18-2012 10:15 PM)kosko Wrote:  

If you raw dogg ya. But if your wrapping it then no. I used to always used those de-sensitize cream condoms but sometimes the lube and cream would mix and year it would numb up the vag. This stone+rubber combo would be ideal.

Desensitizing cream AND a rubber and you can stay fully hard? Or is it like a semi-woody that eventually gets fully hard as the cream wears off?

Its in the rubber already not separate. The Lifestyle brand is the only ones that is too strong and fucked up. A few times that shit numbed my dick up to much to the point it was a half gimped stick. Durex ones are better as the cream is not as strong and you can still keep it up solid.

[chyamor]

Which has a higher chance of working. Jamaica stone or Tong balm

[Screwston]

Just get the generic Viagra. You'll fuck like Rocco and have girls begging you to slow down

[reaper23]

for me it seems to be all about practice and training. and it works both ways.

when i was single and fucking all kinds of new women, i trained myself to last forever. literally, forever. i became a sort of expert on tantric sex and could literally fuck for an hour and not even come close. i could come whenever i wanted to however.

but since i trained my girl to only ever want to make me nut and our sex has gravitated to just her being there for me to get off -

i have totally lost all my control. since for the last year i've just fucked fucked fucked straight to the orgasm, i have absolutely no staying power at all anymore.

kind of sucks to have lost the option.

will be training myself again to go back though...gotta get that back

point is, its all about practice and training

[kosko]

(06-20-2012 08:07 PM)reaper23 Wrote:  

for me it seems to be all about practice and training. and it works both ways.

when i was single and fucking all kinds of new women, i trained myself to last forever. literally, forever. i became a sort of expert on tantric sex and could literally fuck for an hour and not even come close. i could come whenever i wanted to however.

but since i trained my girl to only ever want to make me nut and our sex has gravitated to just her being there for me to get off -

i have totally lost all my control. since for the last year i've just fucked fucked fucked straight to the orgasm, i have absolutely no staying power at all anymore.

kind of sucks to have lost the option.

will be training myself again to go back though...gotta get that back

point is, its all about practice and training

Drop a sheet on that Tantric training.

[assman]

(06-18-2012 10:55 PM)Moma Wrote:  

(06-18-2012 07:48 PM)assman Wrote:  

Moma, wouldn't the desensitizing agent that is working on your dick also desensitize her vag?

The other problem I've run into, in my limited experience with this stuff, is that it's not easy to stay fully hard when your dick is all numbed up.

You are supposed to wash it off. Put it on when you think you are going to have sex and then wash it off eventually. It won't rub off then.

I was too lazy to wash it off with the lizard and hence...

If you have trouble getting hard with this thing on, then your staying power should be pretty good, non?

If not, then have you tried the kegels mentioned by the Snowman?

Ah, ok, this is different stuff. The gel I used directed the user to apply, and then, instead of washing off, wait 10min so that it is absorbed and doesn't desensitize her vag. But I found the desensitizing effect only lasted a few minutes, so if I waited the 10min, it pretty much had lost all effect. And if I applied more, my dick would be numbed to the point of uselessness. Perhaps I need to apply more, then just have foreplay for a while and wait for some sensation to return before fucking.

No, never really tried kegels, aside from once in a while when taking a leak. Will have to try making a more concerted effort on these.

[HiFlo]

i still dont get kegels? Do you do a kegel contraction with each thrust when you feel you're getting closer to nutting?