This is why I love this forum, some solid advice dropped in this thread.
Personally, I think you did fine. This is how you learn, you wrote a report and can analyse what went 'wrong'.
It's counter intuitive but you have to be outcome independent in your mindset. You know she will put out, it's just a matter of time.
Regarding what she said about getting fucked here and there, your default response (for any kind of edgy shit they say) should be "that's cute". It could be a shit test, it could be a lie. It could be the truth and if she put out, you would rationalize her as being a slut. This could go so many ways so really don't read into it.
Again, kaotic, touched upon a gold nugget; indirect verbals and direct non-verbals. This is where the mystery comes in. You don't talk about sex but you are sexy. Let her mind fill in the gaps.
As for her putting out or not, it's purely sexual chemistry. With some girls, it happens the first time. With others, it's on the second or third time.
Find other girls to occupy your mind because with one girl, in this scenario, you will become overly invested.
Honestly, as long as you two had fun, the sex will come.
Good luck man.
Personally, I think you did fine. This is how you learn, you wrote a report and can analyse what went 'wrong'.
It's counter intuitive but you have to be outcome independent in your mindset. You know she will put out, it's just a matter of time.
Regarding what she said about getting fucked here and there, your default response (for any kind of edgy shit they say) should be "that's cute". It could be a shit test, it could be a lie. It could be the truth and if she put out, you would rationalize her as being a slut. This could go so many ways so really don't read into it.
Again, kaotic, touched upon a gold nugget; indirect verbals and direct non-verbals. This is where the mystery comes in. You don't talk about sex but you are sexy. Let her mind fill in the gaps.
As for her putting out or not, it's purely sexual chemistry. With some girls, it happens the first time. With others, it's on the second or third time.
Find other girls to occupy your mind because with one girl, in this scenario, you will become overly invested.
Honestly, as long as you two had fun, the sex will come.
Good luck man.