Quote: (03-05-2018 03:34 PM)Feyoder Wrote:
I think location matters. In a place like poland, I can see direct being mainly a disaster--especially in a mall.
In Melbourne, Bizet's location, maybe a direct approach is needed. I think you need something mega to penetrate the constant bubble of dopamine / opiates her brain is frying in from tinder et al. Only thing with that is then maintaining congruency and keeping body language chilled out (keep the convo spicy but the body language calm so the cat doesn't freak out).
Loving the journal. Keep us updated.
Funnily enough, I had the same thought today. I still get affected by AA when I try to go direct though.
Oh, and thanks bud!
Approach #28
I had a work meeting today at 3pm, but I figured I'd get into the city a few hours earlier and knockout as many approaches as I could.
My first approach of the day was, predictably, at my usual tram stop. She was a Chinese girl with headphones plugged into her ears and she was glued to her smartphone screen...
"Excuse me." I said.
She didn't hear me.
"Excuse me." I repeated, a little louder.
Still no response.
"EXCUSE ME!" I shouted.
That got her attention. I ran my usual tram stop opener and ramble on her and she responded well to it. I ran through GALNUC (after she had asked a question about me), although I skipped the "G" part, as I would've felt a bit autistic asking a Chinese girl if she was part German, haha. When I got up to the "L" part, she mentioned that she lived with her boyfriend.
Approach #29
Next I approached a blonde English girl in the park. She was very cute and friendly, but like with the previous approach, I found out that she lived with her boyfriend.
Approach #30
I was still in the same park when I noticed a pair of girls. They appeared to be backpackers (they sounded English) and they were taking photos of a floral exhibition in this park. Roosh advises against opening two-sets in Daybang. However, one of these girls - a curvy brunette in a red floral dress - was just so sexy that to give it a shot. I went indirect (asking the hot one about her camera), then made a comment about how her red floral dress matches the flowers she was taking photos of.
"If you were to lie down in that bed of flowers, you'd be totally camouflaged." I joked.
She laughed at this and told me she "loves flowers." I told her she was in the right place then. I tried to banter with her a bit more, but I was cockblocked by her plain friend. This would've been a great set if I had a wingman with me.
God fucking damn she was sexy though; on par with that Italian girl from the last entry.
Approach #31
OK, so this set lasted the better part of two hours. I'm not going to bore you with every little detail, just the essential parts...
I approached a blonde in that same park. I went indirect on her; although I really wish that I went direct instead. She was a Norwegian in her mid 20's, and today was her last day in Melbourne - well sort of. She was going away on a roadtrip tomorrow morning. She'd be back again on Friday, but I'm working that night. Then she leaves on Saturday morning.
Anyway... We were getting along really well and I told her that I would like to take her out for a drink that night. She told me that she couldn't because she had a job interview that night (back in Norway, via Skype) and an early wake up time the next morning. I still had two hours to kill before my work meeting, so I asked if she would like to grab a drink with me there and then (instant date). She told me she'd like that, so that's exactly what we did.
I have never been on a daygame instant date before, so this was new territory for me. I felt like Captain James Cook, sailing in uncharted waters. I'm not sure what I expected to happen, I had a compulsory meeting to attend to in two hour's time. But I decided just to go along with it and 'let the chips fall where they may'.
We went to this little bar by the river. I brought us a round of beers, and we sat down together. Our conversation was flowing quite well. I decided that I was just going to pretend that this was a regular Tinder/OKCupid date and act accordingly.
"I want to take a photo of us together!" She said, and pulled out her phone.
I put my arm around her lower back and she rested her head on my chest as we took a series of selfies together. I also took a few photos for this journal, but it turns out that you can't post pictures of your dates faces.
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So this is the only one I can use (that's her arm on the left)...
We stayed at that bar and chatted for a long time. I was flirting with her and lightly touching her - which she didn't seem to either like or dislike. We were talking about the colors of our eyes, while staring deep into each other's eyes. As I said, I was treating this like a Tinder date, so I decided to go for the kiss...
And I was shut down.
She turned her head and gave me the cheek.
"Nice try" she said, laughing it off.
She was cool about it, but that didn't change the fact that I felt a bit awkward after that. If she were a girl I met in a bar I would've brushed it off as no big deal and tried again later. But this situation was different, I didn't try to escalate on her again after that. I couldn't help but to remember something that ksbms wrote on my journal the other day...
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I don't even want to mention the unexpected a la carte tastes & flavours when it comes to idates and gunning for sdls/sddls during which the tiniest error results in a soup on the floor.
I felt like there was definitely soup on the floor at this point.
Eventually we left the bar. I had to run along to my meeting (which was good, as the conversation was drying up and things were starting to get uncomfortable after that kiss attempt). So I walked to her to the art gallery (which is something she said she wanted to see before leaving), wished her a good day and left.
Homework for tonight...
Re-read the instant date section of Daybang.