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Vice-Captain - #TeamWaitAndSee
Quote: (09-16-2011 03:40 PM)satanova77 Wrote:
I could add volumes to this thread based on real life situation of mine or countless friends....but will just skip to the bottom line....
NOBODY ON THIS FORUM SHOULD EVER GET MARRIED.....
For an Alpha to stay Alpha in marriage requires not only major balls and skills(if you are gaming on the side) but hardest part is to lift your head up high everyday in face of crushing blows from society, relatives and the Lizard you thought could be a life partner....
E.g I am riding to San Antonio with a 40 yr old guy who manages 20 engineers and a peer of mine....lives in my neighbourhood and say
me: you wanna do happy hour with my team this week...
him: yah i will ask my wife for permission and let you know....
me: you are kidding right about the permission thing?
him(bedazzled looking at me): you dont need permission to do stuff?
me: my wife is lucky if i inform here where i am most of the time....i just tell her what time i will be home...
him: i dont know....you know what they say "a happy wife means a happy life"
Fucker was giggling while he was saying this and I wanted to kick him out of a car running at 75 mph....this is the problem with society today...this bald fat baldless motherfucker's wife knows how she controls him and boasts about it in front of other wives and they take this initiative and go back home and try to subdue their husbands with mind eating tactics and bickering...
The only reason men stay married is due to having either or all of the following...sadly most married guys who act happy have all three deficiencies below...
1. No options or game
2. Kids
3. Insecurities
I want to go so far as to say nobody should be in a LTR period but that pill can be swallowed depending on what "LONG" (duration) means in LTR.......
Quote: (09-16-2011 06:03 PM)oldnemesis Wrote:
Why do you guys think he actually WAS an alpha man to start with? Just because he played one in movies?
Quote: (09-17-2011 02:53 AM)K-man Wrote:
This from a married man: yeah, it's a sacrifice. Your freedom, your options, etc. (fresh pussy not totally excluded, because you can still get something on the side).
But it's worth it if it's a sacrifice you make for the sake of your children. They need a dad in their lives, and not a dad who constantly fights with mom because he is a whoremonger, and not a dad who is never home either.
So there you have it: if you want kids and the rewards that come from being a father - you know what sacrifice you have to make.
Now, if you make it for another reason - such as the convenience of having a ready pussy in your bed, or for social conventions, or out of insecurity or whatever else - then you are a fool and deserve your fate.
Quote: (09-17-2011 02:53 AM)K-man Wrote:
This from a married man: yeah, it's a sacrifice. Your freedom, your options, etc. (fresh pussy not totally excluded, because you can still get something on the side).
Quote: (09-17-2011 05:18 PM)oldnemesis Wrote:
Quote: (09-17-2011 02:53 AM)K-man Wrote:
This from a married man: yeah, it's a sacrifice. Your freedom, your options, etc. (fresh pussy not totally excluded, because you can still get something on the side).
It is not a sacrifice, it is exchange. You're giving away some options, and instead you're getting some other options you didn't have before.
If one only gave away something in marriage and didn't get anything else back, then I wonder why would he get (or stay) married at all?
Quote: (09-18-2011 09:59 AM)Stitch Wrote:
Or also, there's the problem of having children: http://www.npr.org/2011/09/17/140557571/...es-the-man
(the major finding: a survey of 600+ Filipino men starting at age 21 lost up to 34% base testosterone level five years after having children)
Interesting.