I was reading this article today on peoples innate sense of a persons socioeconomic status. link below
https://www.cnbc.com/2018/03/02/study-mo...-face.html
If a woman (any country) can with 68% accuracy tell what your status is just by looking at your face. I think it gives a PUA reason to pause and re evaluate their approach.
Just like you don't shop for groceries on a empty belly....do you approach when internally your stressed out or in a bad mood (a given for failure..like stuttering shyness). Stuff going on inside shows up on your face and your general demeanor. (closed movements rather than open gestures...just as in the video guy above)
IMO a girls mind is made up about a guy in under 1 second...strong direct eye contact is another plus....before the PUA even opens his mouth.
I know girls are sharp on the facial expressions they are searching for "does this guy like me"
One example of this (for me) is I met this girl for the first time we had met online. She pulled into my drive way and from 10 feet away we looked at each other, I didn't' like her and I thought I was good enough to hide that fact (go for the fuck and dump) but she saw something. We had the date but it was stale and later she left. That evening I actually reflected on what"gave me away" did I wince did I blink to fast or not at all, I gave the fake smile and a hug. Curious stuff for me.
The challenge for me even in a Euro country is to put myself in a place where I genuinely like people not just girls but everybody, this is tough to do.
I cannot put "the game face on" be aggressive because I know it ain't me and shows up to people/girls as a bad act.
The video guy said he toned it down in Sweden and became more inclusive and non competitive and got the lays. I don't think it has anything to do with culture or socialism or politics for any woman in any country all he did was relax and enjoy himself IMO
Lastly I think I found my issue/nervus tick from the date I mentioned above. I looked away
This came to me in a bar as I was just starting my routine with a girl, she looked away. To me that's a death sentence
Looking away is basically a person trying to throw the image away of the person in front of them.
I had to watch people to figure out what to do during the start of a Pick Up (basically introductions) I look down which I call self depreciating and I look up which I call looking for a thought. This keeps me directly facing the target and in the center of my attention. I never look away until later when a connection is built.