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11-22-2017, 01:30 AM
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11-23-2017, 12:07 AM
Sitting on the plane home for the holiday, with two women in the window and middle seats next to me.
The one in the middle seat was around 70, but in excellent shape for that age. Healthy looking, proportions and posture like a much younger woman, collar-length silver hair, tastefully dressed. Spent half the flight reading a book on her kindle/tablet thing, neatly arranged on her seat tray, with feet curled up under her. Apologized to me for the inconvenience both times she had to get out to use the lav.
The one in the window seat was a college senior (assume 22, didn't look older than that) majoring in music education. Overweight but not quite obese, Uggs and flannel yoga pants, sweatshirt in a clashing color, looked like she'd just rolled out of bed, no care for her appearance at all. Working on a Macbook plastered with stickers most of the flight. At the cuff of her right sleeve, I could see a number of thin scars going crosswise and a couple lengthwise (i.e.: she was a "cutter" at some point). So, a pretty run-of-the-mill modern college girl.
Big generational difference in femininity. But bigger still when they started talking during the last half hour or so of the flight.
The older woman spoke in a soft, pleasant, well-paced voice using proper enunciation and full sentences, made her points concisely and clearly, and generally had positive or neutral things to say. The younger woman gabbed rapid-fire in meandering run-on sentences full of "umm"s and "like"s and "you know"s, with a loud and grating nasal monotone, and while not whining was definitely more negative and cynical in perspective.
Made me think of this thread. The older woman had the traditional qualities of femininity: a positive disposition, courteous behavior, pride in her appearance and "finishing", etc. including (in the conversation) expressign devotion to her husband (who sat on the other side of the aisle and, in true alpha fashion, was aloof to her the whole trip). The younger woman displayed none of these qualities, and came off as oafish, insufferable, and entitled.
It was quite a contrast.
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12-03-2017, 05:51 AM
It's nice but she should cover up.
That's not how we do things in Russia, comrade.
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12-05-2017, 11:05 AM
She looks like one of those body paint girls in Times Square.
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12-05-2017, 02:16 PM
Quote: (12-05-2017 01:50 PM)CRR Wrote:
I bet the older husband was just a genuinely regular guy in his youth. Maintained himself, handled his finances, etc.
This reminds me of an older preacher I once saw, probably in his 70's, who had his tiny, sweet, submissive wife onstage. He got off to a good start until he began extolling the virtues of his wife and his love for her. I thought, uh oh, until his closing thought on the subject:
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Yes, I love and respect my wife, it's true, and she loves and respects me . . .if she knows what's good for her.
That's how they do it old school, the courtly gentleman who every now and them brushes back his blazer to show the pistol.
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12-13-2017, 12:07 PM
There's absolutely nothing wrong with all that sweet stuff unless it's coming from a beta mindset.
I get away with it because every girl who gets that from me has known that I expect reciprocity and will not waste my resources or energy on someone who doesn't earn it.
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01-31-2018, 04:47 PM
“The greatest burden a child must bear is the unlived life of its parents.”
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02-10-2018, 10:02 AM
I think something this thread has really shown is that as much some people hate to admit it, men and women need each other.
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02-17-2018, 05:43 PM
To me femininity is like digging for fossils. (if you believe in dinosaurs) You see a hint of the fossil but not too much. Its such an unnoticeable thing but you can't take your eyes off of it, you see the hope and beauty that will come with time. You dig at it slowly and precisely with the utmost care. Taking your time to not damage the fragile and sensitive fossils. The deeper you dig the more beautiful the efforts of your work becomes. Then the feeling of accomplishment and love you feel once you uncovered the fossil remains for a lifetime. You formed a bond with that fossil
Im not talking about sex, although that is a good analogy. But the sense of femininity. You uncover more and more about a woman and that chase makes that woman seem worth it. In 2018 women ut EVERYTHING online or are open to tell their whole life story on the first date. a feminine woman to me is one who can carry a conversation about any topic without making it about her. A woman who doesn't have to rely on sex to keeps a man's attention. BUT using her innocent but dark sexual energy to have guys begging for more.
I don't know about you guys but I like modest women, I've laid a lot of sluts but my most accomplished and special times were with women who seemed innocent and pure. Even if those women weren't virgins they still had an energy about them that made the chase to get them worth it.
Ayesha Curry is the PERFECT example to me. Stephen curry even stated that even though he was a star high school athlete he had to pursue Ayesha Curry hard. This is the woman who took up for him on line, who has a cooking show, who dresses modestly everywhere. and my favorite moment
when they lost a big game and curry was walking to the locker room looking depressed and sad, Ayesha threw confetti up above him and cheered him on telling him it would be better next time. beautiful moment
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