I have thought about the topic of the future of western dating ever since I got really into the forum and red pill. One topic that I thought was fascinating and one we don't seem to go in depth on enough is where dating patterns will go next now that online dating is the hot trend and where most of the people end up meeting.
Now, the argument I have heard here is that women will never date down, which has proven to be true from everything I have seen in my life. So, I understand the thought of the topic title could easily be dismissed. To that I say, NOT SO FAST.
Women naturally look for the highest value man right? But, nobody has thought of the possibility of the feminism train not reversing. I've met plenty of males and females that have no desire to change course. However, we are seeing international dating, digital nomads, and traveling abroad becoming more and more mainstream. More and more men are reporting back to other western men about how much better they get treated by the women abroad.
Eventually, I think enough men will realize their value is higher abroad unless they're a true 5% player in the west. With talking to international girls and meeting them being easier than ever, I see this only increasing and not going away.
What helps is that shows like 90 Day Fiance, which I originally found a discussion on somewhere here and checked it out for myself, are making marrying foreigners abroad a mainstream topic, for better or worse. There are plenty of trainwrecks on the show, but we also have couples that legitimately work out.
This is leading to more women having the mindset that maybe they can find someone to meet abroad that can treat them better. The show even has younger women marrying Caribbean, European, and Israeli men (and the American girl is well off). I even know of a couple of white girls that have found men even in countries in northern Asia.
The point I'm getting to is, if this gender/culture war does not slow down, we could see a big divide and having more people give up on meeting the opposite sex in their own culture if it's perceived to be easier and better abroad with financial means.
My prediction is the next generation may not make the same mistake on avoiding marriage entirely, but I think it will be done differently as long as the western first world does not completely collapse (and I think it'd take longer than others say anyway despite the extreme pessimists).
With more men searching for feminine women abroad, I can see either true undesirable women, soccer moms in their 30's, career girls, or women who's fertile clock is simply ticking all being open to the possibility of finding a husband abroad. I see this being especially the case with Caribbean, Latin American, and Eastern European men. They are the most desirable physically and personality wise from the poorer countries.
The conclusion I'm making is that I think if the culture war keeps its current pace, we will see both genders reach a stalemate and say ok, if we can't compromise with each other, then we will find other people that we think will make us happy. Western men will get their feminine women who know how to take care of their men, and western women will get to have their career, ride the cock carousel into their 30's, and marry a physically attractive man that will not be completely beta, but will listen to her.
This would also play into the migrant theory and it would make it a hell of a lot easier and socially acceptable to fill a western country with immigrants.
What are your thoughts on this theory?
Now, the argument I have heard here is that women will never date down, which has proven to be true from everything I have seen in my life. So, I understand the thought of the topic title could easily be dismissed. To that I say, NOT SO FAST.
Women naturally look for the highest value man right? But, nobody has thought of the possibility of the feminism train not reversing. I've met plenty of males and females that have no desire to change course. However, we are seeing international dating, digital nomads, and traveling abroad becoming more and more mainstream. More and more men are reporting back to other western men about how much better they get treated by the women abroad.
Eventually, I think enough men will realize their value is higher abroad unless they're a true 5% player in the west. With talking to international girls and meeting them being easier than ever, I see this only increasing and not going away.
What helps is that shows like 90 Day Fiance, which I originally found a discussion on somewhere here and checked it out for myself, are making marrying foreigners abroad a mainstream topic, for better or worse. There are plenty of trainwrecks on the show, but we also have couples that legitimately work out.
This is leading to more women having the mindset that maybe they can find someone to meet abroad that can treat them better. The show even has younger women marrying Caribbean, European, and Israeli men (and the American girl is well off). I even know of a couple of white girls that have found men even in countries in northern Asia.
The point I'm getting to is, if this gender/culture war does not slow down, we could see a big divide and having more people give up on meeting the opposite sex in their own culture if it's perceived to be easier and better abroad with financial means.
My prediction is the next generation may not make the same mistake on avoiding marriage entirely, but I think it will be done differently as long as the western first world does not completely collapse (and I think it'd take longer than others say anyway despite the extreme pessimists).
With more men searching for feminine women abroad, I can see either true undesirable women, soccer moms in their 30's, career girls, or women who's fertile clock is simply ticking all being open to the possibility of finding a husband abroad. I see this being especially the case with Caribbean, Latin American, and Eastern European men. They are the most desirable physically and personality wise from the poorer countries.
The conclusion I'm making is that I think if the culture war keeps its current pace, we will see both genders reach a stalemate and say ok, if we can't compromise with each other, then we will find other people that we think will make us happy. Western men will get their feminine women who know how to take care of their men, and western women will get to have their career, ride the cock carousel into their 30's, and marry a physically attractive man that will not be completely beta, but will listen to her.
This would also play into the migrant theory and it would make it a hell of a lot easier and socially acceptable to fill a western country with immigrants.
What are your thoughts on this theory?
As far back as I could remember, I always wanted to be a player.
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