[Dalaran1991]

If you are in France this is normal. Your experiences mirror exactly what another RVF member here experienced, but replace the girls with pussy ass guys.

If you have to train krav, try to set up a group with like-minded people through meetups or the like. French gyms are cucked beyond repair.

Another thing you could do is try gaining access to krav clubs where the Gendarmes and other police/military force train.

[TravelerKai]

(03-20-2017 10:23 PM)Mochihunter Wrote:  

Hearing all these mcdojo stories is making me frustrated. It sucks so many teachers have to cave to parents demands or risk poverty.

If you need help finding a good place or style to train in, check out my Martial Arts Datasheet in my signature.

You can also send me a PM with your location details and I can help you find a few good schools to go check out, so that you won't be in the OP's situation as much. It's impossible to avoid women in any martial art style and some are in more than others (like Krav Maga) but for the most part just ignore them or ask the instructor that you would prefer to spar with other men instead. I used to have guys tell me that, and I would always oblige as an instructor. Please let me know how quickly you need help with a school as well, because sometimes I get swamped and it takes me a week or so to get back to you.

[Latan]

Didn't know this thread got retitled.
Much better this way; damn I love this forum.

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You guys are being unnecessarily harsh on OP. Even without the sexual innuendo it was always going to end badly for him. A bunch of tourist girls invaded his male space and because of that he had to cature to their female weakness. The overall quality of his lessons and training is diminished. I'd try to avoid them myself but it's inevitable you would have to spar with them. I'd just pack my bags and leave for another dojo, moreso if my instructor dared espoused any equality nonsense to me. The instructor doesn't care about equality, just thinking about his revenue stream and throwing OP under the bus to virtue signal to his other students. Fuck him.

I give OP partial credit here for voting with his feet. Yes he acted immaturely but didn't cowtow to the feminist narrative and retained his dignity without being emasculated.

[Number one bummer]

I give OP props for still being here after such a roasting two years ago. If he'd have been as bad as his own post made him sound he would have been long gone.

[The Stronger Sex]

Every time I read a thread like this I wonder "Why don't these things happen to me?". Assuming they're not trolls I think some people are looking for an excuse to whine so they don't have to take a look at themselves. "Waaaah! The big bad SJWs and feminazis are cramping my game!"

In this particular case the OP's line sounds quite cringey, and the cringe factor would be multiplied if he gives out a creepy/aspie vibe and/or he doesn't know the girl well. You don't say stuff like that unless you get some feedback that tells you that you can.

If you don't get away with it you're not doing it right. Instead of crying "unfair" try to take home some lessons and do better next time.

[Latan]

I'm glad someone bumps this thread every couple of months or so.

Reviewing my life, I see situations' patterns, situations which tend to repeat themselves.
Not the exact same ones, but in a larger sense.
Having a reminder of my past mistakes is a really good deterrent, for not making them twice.

Thanks for contributing to that.

[puckerman]

This is a great thread.

There's a good chance that the instructors are in the business just to try game the women who show up. If you are trying to game them, you are trespassing on his "turf."

I was in tae kwon do for a while. I couldn't believe how many belts we had. It was:

white
senior white
yellow
senior yellow
orange
senior orange
green
senior green
blue
senior blue
purple
senior purple
brown
senior brown
red
senior red
black

The senior belts all had a black stripe added. Each belt had a test that you paid for as well. The teacher was very good, although some egoes got in the way of him and another instructor. I was enjoying it a lot, until he left town and sold the place.

He had a mix of kids and adults. I was once holding a bag for a boy about the age of ten. I was trying to get the boy fired up, so I called him a "badass." Next week, I got a lecture about it.

There was only one or two women there to game. The only thing you should do in this situation is ask the woman if she would like to meet up away from class. If she says no, don't ask again for at least six months.

[Mochihunter]

Yeah Shotokan Karate has just as many belts

Ps on an unrelated note. Is there a martial art game thread? There is this cute little gymnast in my capoiera class and I'm trying to figure out how to mac on her. She looks just like Chloe Moretz yall.

[Waqqle]

Like in the workplace, avoid women as much as possible in "self defense" classes if your objective is actually to learn useful combative skills. In other countries, maybe jokes are not as big of a deal but I presume we are talking about the modern West and not about those other places. I agree with Tuthmosis regarding how you could better handle things like this in the future but, frankly, I'd say that such a place is not even worth spending money at to learn "self defense" in as it is clearly just another safe space where the instructors are comfortable with lying to your face about reality even if it might cause you to die at some point down the line and you would do better to start your own all-male fight club where you and some other guys spar in secret and practice techniques you have learned from videos on the internet. Frankly, though you crossed some lines with the sex jokes (lines which, though they may not have existed a few decades ago do exist now) and some of your lines veered on the creepy side, any "self defense" class that has women in it is almost certainly BS and not worth spending money or time in even if there were no fear of becoming persona non grata for making a bad joke.

In the meantime, don't bother trying to point out hypocrisy or make appeals to justice or logic. SJWs are beyond that. Let the fat women and soyboys be lied to by the authority figures they trust most about how they are just as strong as a man and how their techniques, which they have never practiced under stress or against resistance, will enable them to subdue a violent attacker who does not care what he has to do to get the money for his next hit. You are under no obligation to help them.