Quote: (09-11-2011 05:33 AM)pitt Wrote:
haaha come on man. Im probably the last guy on this forum looking to settle down, im not looking to settle down with any woman or planning to have kids any time soon. Im a player, act like one and think like one, you are talking to me as if i was the type of guy looking for a good woman to settle down and be happy. Well thats not my case.
But i just like to meet interesting women now and then, and i wouldnt go look for them, i want to come across them by accident. 10 approaches minimum per day in different parts of the globe should make me meet a lot of interesting women, but i just come across women that look hella good and have nothing else to offer.
Anyway i think thats all i had to say.
Ok,
I was just trying to help you find girls that are into self-development.
After all, you did start a thread asking "Why is it so hard to meet girls that are into self development"? and you said if you are "gonna settle down with a bitch, it would be nice if she was into self development".
Now, you say you are a player and you are not looking to settle down.
If you are a player, you must be looking for girls who are DTF.
So, you want to DTF girls who are into self development?
Or maybe you are just wondering why beautiful women are not that interesting. I think its because they are beautiful, they don't have to be interesting. Men want them and women envy them before they even open their mouths. There is no incentive to be interesting, being beautiful is enough. Actually, I have met alot of interesting beautiful women, you just have to talk to them and get them comfortable talking about themselves. Sometimes these beauties keep their guard up all the time because guys are always hounding them. They can be slow to open up. But once you gain their trust, I think beautiful women can be more interesting then average looking chicks. Their experience is really interesting. Guys trying to fuck them since they were 15, teachers hitting on them, lesbians hitting them, constantly being offered money and sex, pro athletes trying to holler at them, I love talking to beautiful women about this shit.
It sounds to me like you are looking for girls who read "self-help" book and study that stuff.
If I were you I would be hitting up yoga classes, self help forums and events, bookstores, and going through womens magazines to get ideas where these girls hang out.
What is your favorite "self-help" book. I bet that book has a website and possibly an online discussion group. Connect with those kinds of groups to meet like minded people.
Do you do online gaming? List your favorite "self-help" books in your profile to attract girls that are into that stuff.
In my experience, "self help" girls were very DTF, once you establish the initial connection and comfort.
Also, you say you want to meet interesting girls by accident, without looking for them, just by doing 10 approaches a day. That is actually a great game plan. If you approach 10 girls a day, you will definitely meet some interesting chicks. But, in terms of being interesting and being into self development, don't wait for them to bring it up first. I have learned that we as players have to take the lead, show them that we are fun and interesting, show them that we are into self development, and then, once they see that we are into it, then they feel comfortable opening up about it. No strange chick is just going to come out and say.."I'm into self-help"..They are a little embarrassed about it and you got to massage it out of them.
I'm sure I gave you more information then you were looking for, I am just into this shit. Hope some of that helps.