Ive been dating a girl for about two months now, we've dated before and it didn't work out because I was acting beta last year and tried to force her into a relationship. After some knowledge building and working on myself we ran into each other and have been having fun going out and having sex for about the last two months. She took off to Hawaii she said on a "last minute invite" and I know none of her friends are going and that she is most likely with another dude.
She's coming over to hang out on Tuesday but Im unsure as to even ask how her trip was. Isn't it a little odd if I don't say "how was hawaii" but isn't it needy if I say "who did you go with?" Not sure what the play is here. This is a girl I really like and I have not had feelings for a girl even though I am pretty good at meeting a lot of women and getting them into bed. I also know that if she comes over tuesday and I see sex bruises on her legs that I'm gonna lose it. Please help with advice, I like this one and don't want to play my cards wrong. I am actively trying to meet more women I have a connection with so this does not affect me so much with "one-itis" but Im afraid I already have the symptoms and need to know the play to make here. How do I act when I see her Tuesday and from there forward?
She's coming over to hang out on Tuesday but Im unsure as to even ask how her trip was. Isn't it a little odd if I don't say "how was hawaii" but isn't it needy if I say "who did you go with?" Not sure what the play is here. This is a girl I really like and I have not had feelings for a girl even though I am pretty good at meeting a lot of women and getting them into bed. I also know that if she comes over tuesday and I see sex bruises on her legs that I'm gonna lose it. Please help with advice, I like this one and don't want to play my cards wrong. I am actively trying to meet more women I have a connection with so this does not affect me so much with "one-itis" but Im afraid I already have the symptoms and need to know the play to make here. How do I act when I see her Tuesday and from there forward?