[bacan]

Hilarious. I have two dates scheduled for Thursday because I am assuming one of them will flake. The best way to get girls to not flake is to get as far with them as you can the first time you meet them. These two girls I talked to for like 5 minutes each before getting their numbers and they are both pretty hot, so at least one flake is almost certain..

[alphaspiraton]

I received this text a few minutes ago:

Sorry im going home for the weekend.

Yeah while this dumb bitch is hot and I wouldn't mind tapping it, there's only so much I can put up with. I'm replying with "strike 3" and deleting her from my phone. Sluts think they can get away with anything. Well there are some of us who have developed into real men over time and can only put up with so much.

Backstory: I called her on Monday evening and asked if she wanted to grab drinks wednesday evening and without providing an excuse she said "I cant on wednesday but any other day works." So I messaged her today that my friday opened up. 20 minutes later I get the response above.

[capote]

Just had this message exchange (saturday afternoon):

Me: hey I'm gonna be in xxxx this evening. We can meet up..
Girl: No, sorry i'm going to yyyy this evening
Me: Hmm...for the concert?
Girl: No, just to see a friend and get some help in math )
Girl: I'm passing one important exam for me next week ) GMAT
Me: Good luck for that

I was too annoyed to retort since this chick initiated contact in the first place and suggested the day. Suffice it to say that she will not be hearing from me again.

[Parlay44]

(05-26-2012 01:22 PM)capote Wrote:  

Just had this message exchange (saturday afternoon):

Me: hey I'm gonna be in xxxx this evening. We can meet up..
Girl: No, sorry i'm going to yyyy this evening
Me: Hmm...for the concert?
Girl: No, just to see a friend and get some help in math )
Girl: I'm passing one important exam for me next week ) GMAT
Me: Good luck for that

I was too annoyed to retort since this chick initiated contact in the first place and suggested the day. Suffice it to say that she will not be hearing from me again.

I love when they make it out like they're doing you a favor.

[runsonmagic]

"I slept in"

Our date was at 2pm in the afternoon.

[redpillrage33]

At least most flaky girls will actually try and come up with an excuse (albeit usually lame).

However, there are an ever increasing segment who don't even bother with that. Here's a recent example:

Her: I'm out. Sorry [5 min before time suggested by her to meet for drinks]
Me: [shortly after the above] What's up
Her: [after hours of silence] Sorry

[rottenapple]

Do you guys differentiate between girls flaking in Europe/N.America and South America? I mean if a girl would flake on me in Europe, I would be a lot tougher on her, because its not common or 'part of the culture'. In S. America it is so common though, I truly feel it happens to the best of them and for instance family plays a larger role (girl can't come because of family visit which is serious issue, girl can't come because father does not allow her and shes living at homr, etc.). Or am I looking at the the wrong way and should you just be equally harsh to flakers anywhere in the world?

I do feel like going to start flaking myself a lot, although it is completely not in my character. Anyone has some good experience with this? Do you ever lose hot girls for flaking on them or does it just increase interest?

[Tuthmosis]

(05-20-2014 10:19 AM)runsonmagic Wrote:  

"I slept in"

Our date was at 2pm in the afternoon.

You know better than to be making 2pm dates anyway.

[Fortis]

"I got too drunk with my friends last night." LOL

I mean, respect for getting hammer and respect for getting drunk before hanging out with me, but LOL.

[OMYG]

"Sorry im really busy with school and work"

Get this shit a lot from college girls.

[SpiderKing]

"My grandma died"


Does she have 9 lives? This is the 5th time she died

[Monxp]

"I really have something to do everyday until summer holiday", month before the actual holiday starts.

[TheFinalEpic]

Just yesterday, I had offered to pick up a girl to go for coffee, told her she's paying.

She gives me an approximate address, but not a specific house and asks if that's super far for me.

Me: "*bad part of town that is hell and gone from where I live*! Let's just say you will probably be purchasing my coffee this go round"

Her:"Where do you live?"
Her: "You're just telling me how it is lol."

Me:"Pretty much, I know, I know, you're aroused."

Her:"I'm not sure our personalities will mesh well lol"

Me:"Thats what a first date is for, silly girl."

Radio Silence. I went to the gym instead.

[AneroidOcean]

I fail to see the lame excuse on her part, she stopped responding after you repeatedly ignored her requests for comfort and implied she was a slut and then afterwards implied she was stupid.

Does not belong in this thread.

(05-22-2014 01:24 PM)TheFinalEpic Wrote:  

Just yesterday, I had offered to pick up a girl to go for coffee, told her she's paying.

She gives me an approximate address, but not a specific house and asks if that's super far for me.

Me: "*bad part of town that is hell and gone from where I live*! Let's just say you will probably be purchasing my coffee this go round"

Her:"Where do you live?"
Her: "You're just telling me how it is lol."

Me:"Pretty much, I know, I know, you're aroused."

Her:"I'm not sure our personalities will mesh well lol"

Me:"Thats what a first date is for, silly girl."

Radio Silence. I went to the gym instead.

[runsonmagic]

(05-20-2014 01:08 PM)Tuthmosis Wrote:  

(05-20-2014 10:19 AM)runsonmagic Wrote:  

"I slept in"

Our date was at 2pm in the afternoon.

You know better than to be making 2pm dates anyway.

2pm dates are easy lays.

[TheFinalEpic]

(05-22-2014 02:27 PM)AneroidOcean Wrote:  

I fail to see the lame excuse on her part, she stopped responding after you repeatedly ignored her requests for comfort and implied she was a slut and then afterwards implied she was stupid.

Does not belong in this thread.

Implying is not saying, and these things can be taken different ways. I enjoy your analysis of it however, you read into it far deeper than I did.

[Redwood]

Pretty insane that someone would lie by making up a death in a family than to say, "I'm sorry we can't do it today."

Nonetheless, I got the "I slept in" one a few times, and "my cat's sick".

[Saweeep]

I made a rookie mistake this week; planned a date with a uni girl who finished her exams yesterday. Of course, today I get the "hungover" text. My fault really.

The flipside is that I cancelled on another girl yesterday as I had problems with a flooded commercial property of mine; she didn't believe me, I am certain. Ah well.

[Sourcecode]

I number closed a 9.. we met out on the town.. I got strong indications that she wanted the D. but i didnt push for it cause i was dead tired.

I got her number..she asked for my facebook. ( my facebook is locked down anyway)

a day goes by and no response to text... i call her the next day and she claims she couldnt find my facebook.
I have an extremely uncommon name...literally 3 people on all of facebook with my name.
she says she'll call me back.


I call her back in the evening and my number is blocked

i had to bang a 7.5 instead that night

[HawkWrites]

I'm too lazy to search but "I have a headache" is a classic one.

[Thesoloist]

I've had a few of them

One was where a chick literally was 10 minutes from my house then called me saying

"something came up"

Something was another guy, that was a low point for me back in 2010. Best believe I let her have it

"I gotta go to the gym"
"My mother had a heart attack"
"I'm not ready to date"
"I'm hungover"--mind you this text was send at 12 and our date wasn't until 8pm that night

I'm pretty sure I could write a book on flakes I've heard some pretty lame ones the one i got yesterday was

"Hey I MIGHT not be able to make it...something kinda came up"

WTF ROFLLL

Unlike most of my brethern if a chick flakes on me, I don't give her another chance. It's a sign of low interest and disrespect unless the chick makes a counter-offer which is strong then I might for instance. A girl's basement flooded this is a good reason. Even though I was skeptical but she came over two days later with a bottle of "Grey Goose" and gave me a fantastic blow jobs. Another time is when a girl drove 2 hours both ways to have a 30 minute lunch with me whilst at work

[game_ethic]

Last night I was supposed to meet up with one of my regulars. At the last minute, she texted me "I'm soo sorry! I have to babysit. I'll be over tmrw" and I didn't reply. I went on Facebook and one of her friends tagged her in a status saying "Going out with my girls later " I didn't really care at first, but the fact that she blatantly lied got me angry so this morning I texted her "So, how did babysitting go?" and this is the conversation that followed.

her: "It wasn't bad; they kept me up all night"
me: "I bet they did. So much for babysitting at a club"
(no response for like 30 mins)
her: "I'm sorry ok? I hadn't seen my friend in a while and she wanted to go out"
(no reply from me)
me: "I'm coming over later. Don't go anywhere"

[They Call Me Mister Tony]

I may have posted this before, but here's an excuse I've gotten.

6pm "I have some stuff to do but I'll let you know."
(Call her at 8:30pm)
8:49pm "Still cleaning dear."

I love how she tries to call me that to make up for her flakiness. Then when I saw her at my store two weeks later (I deleted her number by the way), she (no surprise) lost track of time, and said that if we were to hang out, it would have to be closer to where she lives.

Fuck. That. Shit. This bitch has a damn Mercedes-Benz and has money for gas, but whatever. Oh well, other fish in the sea.

And here's something I found interesting:

Throughout the internets, I have not found any "reasons we flake on guys" articles by girls.



Oh well, just gotta move on.

[conservative]

I had probably the worst flake when I was a terrible beta 4 years ago. There was this girl and I invited her (by facebook) for a coffee. At 2 PM (if I recall correctly). By 3 (or 4 PM) she sent me a message that she couldn't make it (sick). That night, I chatted with another colleague that told me that at that time she was attending a conference. I rescheduled for the next week, at the exact same time.

This time I didn't go to the café. Odds told me (at that time) that she'll come but I didn't want to go. So I didn't go, and I got no messages/calls. Later that night, I sent her a message that she should apologize if she can't make it. She called and she apologized that she was sick again. I accepted her apology in a good faith.

A year later, I began to see things clearer. I know BullShit and I know RealShit and I know that you can fuck up. And I'm the one losing here.

1-2 hours prior to the date, I send a text message asking for confirmation "meeting at xyz, please confirm". If I get no confirmation, the date is cancelled.

All dates (unless it's a girl I trust her words) are treated equal. They are not dates until the confirmation is made, and my life should go exactly as there is nothing planned.

[Every10GivesMeA10]

'i cant. i have some sort of infection.'