Quote: (03-30-2017 08:00 AM)doej610 Wrote:From my point of view, talking to a girl about a wrong behaviour is pretty much useless.
Should i ask her about it or just stay on the origional plan?
First, it makes you look weaker, as something was able to touch / hurt you.
Second, they have a great memory when it comes to relationships : what she did, what you did, everything is stored in her head.
So when you go silent, show less affection, less desire to see her, begin to flirt with other girls, she'll understand she did something wrong to you; she'll then look at all what she did in the near past, to see what pushed you away.
Either she wants to stay with you and will automatically change her behaviour, or she'll continue disrecpecting you, clearly stating you should next her.
I'll add that never saying what upsets you (even denying anything does), keeps her in a state where she doesn't know if you're pleased with her, and she loves that uncertainty.
She'll then think about you as a drama source, while you're never saying anything to create it.
Are you going to be a loving partner or a distant guy (it's important to assume both roles), the next time she'll see you?
She can't be sure and that simple fact is key, to have her totally yours.