[realologist]

Sometimes I hope these threads will somehow not end up a disaster and people will just keep it light.

Damn am I always wrong.

People are putting way too much thought into this.

Either way this seems like an overreaction by the father because the guy her daughter is dating is probably a fairly good kid. Soccer in the U.S. isn't exactly riddled with kids that are trouble makers.

If he wanted to teach a lesson like he said I'm not sure why he wouldn't cut her off as soon as she hit college. She will probably be fine with a scholarship if she is as good as her ranking.

Oh and most importantly. WB

[Thrill Jackson]

(01-14-2017 12:44 PM)kirdiesel Wrote:  

As a black guy who has been in the same EXACT situation as this black guy has I'm glad she outed her pops. No reason for that shit when the brother is seemingly doing the right thing. My girl at the time ended up staying with me regardless of her racist parents until I broke up with her. In fact I went on to get better grades, graduate and their lily white daughter ended up being the degenerate.... not me. But OMG he's BLACK!

If it was Jamal or Jayshaun from the hood I would be 100% on the dads side.

Fuck that racism shit and its not petty. You can talk when you've been in that exact situation.

AMEN

I've been in that situation as well but oh girl stuck with the whiteys for the money.

Couldn't blame her in hindsight, he dad set aside tens of thousands for her.

Anyways she is married now and is a 5/10 WNB (from a 7/10 just two years ago)

her cuck fiance if flying her around the world probably shoving her chubby face with food.

Still, fuck that racist bitch and her family. If you can't look past somebodies skin color you can go fuck yourself.

[Geomann180]

(01-15-2017 02:30 PM)kirdiesel Wrote:  

"Cooning and muddying the linage" Look at the language here.. So this type of language is allowed when referring to blacks now on Roosh?

You are pure racist man...

Of course noone else is gonna say something about it but I sure as hell will.

You know that Kingsley Davis is black, right?

G

[weambulance]

QC is completely right, we have almost nothing factual to go on here and this has long since devolved into a pointless argument.

I have to say I also find it odd how many people on a "red pill" game forum are happy to take a disloyal attention whore's story at face value. That's what the conditioned irrational reaction to charges of "racism" does, I suppose. The Frankfurt School's indoctrination plan is still working as planned, for the most part.

[Serious Sam]

Before this thread goes 100% off the rails--in fact, it kind of already has--I'm going to explain the cycle of pettiness that occurs within southern families and social circles. A lot of it results from the passive aggressive language used by southerners. A lot of us would rather say, "bless your heart" rather than "you're being a whiny little bitch."

Let's say little Susy gets a new white dress that's 2 sizes smaller than her blue dress. Instead of telling Susy she looks fat in the dress, her mom or friends will say, "I like your blue dress better," or "You look better in blue." They're signaling, in an underhanded way, that she should stick to wearing dresses that are 2 sizes larger. It cuts Susy deep because she knows they're really saying, "You look fat," but they're at the store and she doesn't want to make a scene, so she just smiles and wears the blue dress instead.

When I brought a black girl home for Christmas to my white, southern, upper-middle-class family, my grandmother took me to the side. She had given me several savings bonds throughout the years. She handed me an envelope and said, "This is the last savings bond I have for you." I told her thank you and gave her a hug. I knew what she was really saying: "I'm cutting you off for bringing a black girl home." Before anyone tries to argue against this, my grandmother is a racist and has told my parents behind my back how she doesn't approve--not to mention the shit I've heard her say before I ever brought a black woman home. She has also done underhanded shit to my father; for instance, she didn't tell him that his uncle was on his death bed because she was upset with my father about some other petty issue. This is a common occurrence in southern circles. People get angry, but they don't want to make a spectacle of it. So they do passive-aggressive, underhanded stuff instead of confronting the issue head on.

With this family, there is probably a racial undertone--I know this based on the father's "it's because she was dating in private" excuse. It's bullshit. This isn't the first guy she's dated; I know this based on her looks. Guys have been hitting her up all throughout high school.

With that said, I'm not sure she meant for this story to blow up the way it has. If she has any class, and, given her upbringing, I would guess that she does, she's probably embarrassed by all the attention it has received. She won't admit this, but it's true. I know very few southern women from similar upbringings who would want their business plastered all over national media. She wanted some Facebook likes from her friends and to spite her parents, and instead she's become a national media sensation. She started the account in a petty, underhanded attempt to get back at her parents. She probably shared it on Facebook so her parents would see it. She continued the cycle of petty, underhanded behavior she's received and also given throughout her life.

You see, this was supposed to be something that did remain within the family, but Allie, being young and dumb, didn't realize 1) the power of the internet and 2) the ruthless tenacity of the MSM and its obsession with racial division. It was supposed to be another in a long line of petty, backhanded behaviors that have been the norm within this family. Instead, it's now a national media spectacle, but lucky for this family, the MSM quickly finds new "outrages" to foam at the mouth over every week. It won't be long until this whole thing is an afterthought in the national spotlight.

[Atlanta Man]

(01-15-2017 03:21 PM)weambulance Wrote:  

QC is completely right, we have almost nothing factual to go on here and this has long since devolved into a pointless argument.

I have to say I also find it odd how many people on a "red pill" game forum are happy to take a disloyal attention whore's story at face value. That's what the conditioned irrational reaction to charges of "racism" does, I suppose. The Frankfurt School's indoctrination plan is still working as planned, for the most part.

I just want to fuck her, and I stand firm on that she is an absolute WB.

[K Galt]

Great post but strongly disagree with first sentence. Worldwide, white populations have fertility rates of 1.5-2.0 with a handful of exceptions. Coupled with mass migration from populations with rates of 4.0+ yes this is tantamount to being bred out of existence.

From a macro point of view, we can understand this. All you need to do is look at Hawaii today and what has become of the Hawaiian race to see where the white race is headed in the future of our Brave New World Order.

Quote:

In short, THEY want the teeming masses of humanity to interbreed over consecutive generations to create a mishmash-melange of ethnic people without a solid cultural identity or national pride in a nation-state homeland.

Who are THEY that I refer to? Why the same THEY we recognize today - the banksters. The "elite." The "owners of society." As I noted earlier, I have begun reviewing my collection of Hawaiian history, with a particular focus on the transition of the Kingdom of Hawaii to the modern state of colonized incorporation into our Brave New World Order.

The same tools used to overthrow the Hawaiian Kingdom were the same tools that have been used to overthrow the Sovereignty of all the monarchies and other assorted forms of native sovereign governments of the world in the last several centuries - debt enslavement of the government and (by extension the populace at large) through usury that results in the eventual usurpation of power, followed by enforced immigration of different cultures to break up the cultural uniformity of the populace, so that they cannot base an effective resistance to this usurpation of power around National pride and heterogeneous cultural ties that normally bind a community together.

Take a look at any modern day mass gathering of blood-descended Hawaiians and you will see exactly what I'm talking about. The brownskin Polynesian genes have been thoroughly diluted and most Hawaiians have been miscegenated into a melange of indistinguishable ethnic identity.

The names and faces may have changed, but the game is still the same. THEY want to make racism the worst thought crime possible so as to speed up the miscegenation of the world to make us all one bland mass of controllable humanity with the only thing in common being our slavery to their system.

[Thrill Jackson]

(01-15-2017 01:23 PM)mpr Wrote:  

(01-14-2017 01:46 PM)Repo Wrote:  

@mpr

So are all of us guys traveling abroad dating exotic women also destroying our families heritage?

If you have a kid with someone who's a different race/ethnicity you are. It's up to you to decide if your culture and customs are worth preserving. When someone else is paying all of your bills; then they get to decide. Which is probably a good thing in this case. Considering that 18 year old girls aren't known for making wise life choices. He who pays the piper calls the tune. But in either case wanting your grandchildren to continue your cultural as well as genetic legacy isn't racist. Those who seem to be claiming otherwise are minorities who are pissed that social disapproval of interracial dating may mess up their game.

As far as my game, white girls are not exactly my niche but I would hate to lose a potential wife becuase of the mindset you just displayed.

Just because he's black doesn't mean he resembles his culture

I understand, in general black culture sucks. (generally speaking).
If we get educated you acting white.
If you commit to a girl your a simp.
If you don't fight everybody for everything your a bitch.
If you don't suck the Gov. for every welfare program imaginable your a fool.
You respect the police and/or Vote for Trump your a coon


I can go on for days.

But if a dude is educated, charismatic, financially stable, has similar ideologies (Right to Bear arms, small government,anti abortion, etc.)

Why should he not date your daughter? Your going to let skin color get in the way or her happiness?

I understand his family may be a whole different story, but you will never know for sure or how bad it really is until you give him a shot.

By your standards, you would rather her date a hipster clinton supporter who looks like this


Than a partiotic black Trump supporter who looks like this

[MrXY]

(01-15-2017 03:22 PM)Serious Sam Wrote:  

It won't be long until this whole thing is an afterthought in the national spotlight.

Yes, but the internet never forgets. Good luck ( not really) to her finding a quality white man willing to marry her when he, or his friends, or his family google her name and this lovely episode is the first twenty five results.

[nomadbrah]

It's not racism that parents and particularly fathers want their children to look like them, for one it is an easy way to be sure you're not being cucked. Black victim complex makes it seem like racism, while I'd like to see a show of hands of how many white guys in East Asia have ever met their girlfriends parents. Not many is my guess. Or the odd white guy who has to sneak around with a pakistani/turk girl for fear of getting killed outright.

Do people actually honestly believe that aversion to interracial dating is racism? And that we just have to 'overcome' it?

[Thrill Jackson]

Quote:

It's not racism that parents and particularly fathers want their children to look like them

Yes it is.

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for one it is an easy way to be sure you're not being cucked

Its his daughter not his wife.

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Black victim complex makes it seem like racism, while I'd like to see a show of hands of how many white guys in East Asia have ever met their girlfriends parents

Yeah and fuck those East Asian people too. All races can be racist. Its not exclusive too whites.

[Belgrano]

(01-15-2017 02:01 PM)Atlanta Man Wrote:  

The pussy is the strongest and sweetest at 18, I still want to fuck this girl.

(01-15-2017 02:13 PM)Atlanta Man Wrote:  

You have to be a hot , tight , 18 year old white girl- Then I will fund your ass, your sexy , soccer ass. I really want to fuck this girl, 18 year old, pampered, southern , educated , white and ready for the tap out sex.

(01-15-2017 03:24 PM)Atlanta Man Wrote:  

I just want to fuck her, and I stand firm on that she is an absolute WB.

I've seen enough.
Does Mark Zuckerberg's sister know about the digusting, sexist and objectifying posts you write behind her back?
A moment ago you were dating Mark's sister, and now already you are talking about cheating on her.
Let me tell you something, you can shove your lovey-dovey romance shit up your lyin' fuckboy ass.
That poor woman has hopes, she has dreams. She really deserves someone better.
Someone who doesn't disrespect her chunky Jewish bottom, and treats her like Zuckerberg's sister deserves to be treated.
Like a lady!

Shame on you man, shame on you.

[Atlanta Man]

(01-15-2017 04:32 PM)Belgrano Wrote:  

(01-15-2017 02:01 PM)Atlanta Man Wrote:  

The pussy is the strongest and sweetest at 18, I still want to fuck this girl.

(01-15-2017 02:13 PM)Atlanta Man Wrote:  

You have to be a hot , tight , 18 year old white girl- Then I will fund your ass, your sexy , soccer ass. I really want to fuck this girl, 18 year old, pampered, southern , educated , white and ready for the tap out sex.

(01-15-2017 03:24 PM)Atlanta Man Wrote:  

I just want to fuck her, and I stand firm on that she is an absolute WB.

I've seen enough.
Does Mark Zuckerberg's sister know about the digusting, sexist and objectifying posts you write behind her back?
You basically just met Mark's sister, and already you are talking about cheating on her.
Let me tell you something, you can shove your lovey-dovey shit up your lyin' fuckboy ass.
That poor girl really deserves someone better!
Someone who doesn't disrespect her chunky Jewish bottom.

Shame on you man, shame on you.

I am a polyamorous, multicultural, minority, who loves all women that are pale , white and right no matter their (((religion)))-as long as they are 18 and hot or very (((rich and connected))). So I will go ahead and say it, I am going to marry soccergirl Allie Dowdle!!! Also, I am triggered!

[weambulance]

I have dated white girls almost exclusively so far in my life. I have every intention of marrying a white woman--preferably a fair skinned redhead or brunette--and raising white kids. I am very white myself, being of mostly German and Irish stock.

Yes, I want my kids to look something like me. I'm a handsome bastard with a glorious beard.

So now that we've established I'm a hardcore racist because of my preferences for my progeny, I guess I can never worry about someone calling me that again. If the shoe fits!





I don't care if some white people want to marry out of the master race or whatever terminology I'm supposed to use as a hardcore racist white supremacist guy. But I guess mere tolerance isn't enough. No, I have to set aside my own preferences and not only celebrate, but partake in, interracial reproduction or I'm just a dirty racist.

Sorry, but this reminds me all too much of the demands of the LGBTQ crowd. For the last decade or so it's been "If you don't cheer and wave whenever you see a couple fags kissing you're just a homophobe and should die!" and next it will be "If you're a straight man and you've never sucked a dick, you're a homophobe and you should die!" I'm pretty sure I've already seen people saying things like that actually.

Tolerance means letting something happen without interference. Interracial couples are tolerated in America and the west generally. But if you're going to claim anyone who prefers to marry within their own race and disapproves of their own kids doing otherwise is a filthy racist who needs to be torn down, you're just being absolutely ridiculous.

[Kona]

(01-15-2017 03:08 PM)Quintus Curtius Wrote:  

Guys, don't get manipulated into thinking that this little story is mainly about "race." My gut feeling tells me that this is a family fight, probably brought on by the fact that this girl is "acting out" in some way. We don't know enough to tell for sure. She might have a drug problem. She might have an alcohol problem. She might have been spending money recklessly like a drunken sailor. She might be having other problems. We don't know.

So how do we know she is the one with the problems?

As I've gotten older, my family has grown, and the amount of people I've met goes up, I've realized this: Not all women are evil just because they are women.

Allies gofundme has been up for 5 days. It has raised 30 grand (thats my girl) in that time. At this point there has to be some truth to it, or it would be down. Her little write up says that her parents went to her school and tried to get Allie thrown out of some types of student groups about diversity. Theres witnesses there.

Did anyone read the part about daddy taking Allies personal savings?

Maybe he's the one with the drug or alcohol problem? Maybe he's out of cash, can't pay for college anyway, so his drugged up decision was to throw up the racial smokescreen.

I know its not the general narrative here to support women. I also get that some folks just have the belief that racism doesn't exist anymore.

However, sometimes are exactly how they seem. Think about it, the fathers only rebuttal was "well my preference is that she not interracially date." If she was on drugs just say "she's on drugs."

And again, I applaud Allie and wish her and Atlanta Man a long and happy crowd funded life.

Aloha!

[realologist]

(01-15-2017 04:54 PM)Atlanta Man Wrote:  

(01-15-2017 04:32 PM)Belgrano Wrote:  

(01-15-2017 02:01 PM)Atlanta Man Wrote:  

The pussy is the strongest and sweetest at 18, I still want to fuck this girl.

(01-15-2017 02:13 PM)Atlanta Man Wrote:  

You have to be a hot , tight , 18 year old white girl- Then I will fund your ass, your sexy , soccer ass. I really want to fuck this girl, 18 year old, pampered, southern , educated , white and ready for the tap out sex.

(01-15-2017 03:24 PM)Atlanta Man Wrote:  

I just want to fuck her, and I stand firm on that she is an absolute WB.

I've seen enough.
Does Mark Zuckerberg's sister know about the digusting, sexist and objectifying posts you write behind her back?
You basically just met Mark's sister, and already you are talking about cheating on her.
Let me tell you something, you can shove your lovey-dovey shit up your lyin' fuckboy ass.
That poor girl really deserves someone better!
Someone who doesn't disrespect her chunky Jewish bottom.

Shame on you man, shame on you.

I am a polyamorous, multicultural, minority, who loves all women that are pale , white and right no matter their (((religion)))-as long as they are 18 and hot or very (((rich and connected))). So I will go ahead and say it, I am going to marry soccergirl Allie Dowdle!!! Also, I am triggered!

That's until the next young fresh white girl with a little bit of attitude comes along. Next time she might play tennis and thinks she can handle a racket with the best of them.

[Dr. Howard]

I'm going with the same vein that samseau, QC and david.garrett have latched on to. The only reason we know that this family battle is because Dad is racist is because of the daughter and whatever buzzfeed typists created this article.

Perhaps this is about religion? Let me enlighten you with some more local culture of Cordova (the memphis suburb in which they reside). Cordova is the baptist home base of planet earth. How bible thumper is it? It was the home church town of adrian rogers (google) and that church is about the size of a shopping mall. There are a number of other very large churches in the area and they need extra police to direct traffic on sunday mornings in Cordova because everyone is out heading to service.

Much of Tennessee is also very family honor/heritage oriented, especially for well established families. There are families around where I live that are still farming the same ground their families had when the came to america nearly 300 years ago.

Dad could be mad this boyfriend is black, but he could also be mad that the boyfriend isn't christian or that slut daughter is shaming the family by sneaking out to date guys and their church and social circle is gossiping.

TL;DR religion and family matter as much as race does in Cordova TN.

[K Galt]

Quote:

Quote: It's not racism that parents and particularly fathers want their children to look like them


Yes it is.

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Still, fuck that racist bitch and her family. If you can't look past somebodies skin color you can go fuck yourself.

I say that yes, indeed, a Father wanting his child to look like him is racist, and that this is a perfectly normal and natural thing for a man to want!

Is being "racist" really that bad? Why do you care about what another man thinks so much?

People need to read old books from the ages before mass media mind control. Reading both fiction and non-fiction from history before the anti-racism Borg has assimilated most of Western Civilization's intellectual zeitgeist. Reading old books gives you insights into the minds of people who accepted race realism and the idea that all mankind is inherently racist and that it was perfectly natural and normal.

The key difference is that while people were openly racist in the past, they were still able to look past somebodies "skin color" (RACE) if they got to know each other beyond the initial meeting marked by mutual xenophobia.

But now we have this REGULARLY SCHEDULED PROGRAMMING for or entire lives that RACISM is the ultimate evil...the worst thing a human being can think.

In past eras of the more enlightened attitude that racism is perfectly normal and natural state of humanity, people of different races would get together in a state of mutual suspicion based on their preconceived notions (aka "prejudices") of different races. Yet, unless the racial interactions were not based on immediate conflict, all them racist folks could interact enough to eventually see past their racial differences and find commonality in their experiences - despite being equally racist at the outset.

Nowadays, after all this RACISM IS THE ULTIMATE THOUGHT CRIME programming we've had rammed down our throats for our entire lives, we now get attitudes like this ("If you can't look past somebodies skin color you can go fuck yourself!"), in which anyone who dares to admit they may have a racist thought every now and then, is vehemently denounced and branded as the worst example of humanity in existence.

This deliberately programmed attitude by our mass media and educational institutions has I think made race relations worse for us all....and that is precisely what was intended!

I think a person can be both racist (I think all humans ARE whether they believe it or not,) and still look past another's skin color...after they get to know the content of their character.

[Sonoma]

To be honest, race wise it goes both ways.

My son is biracial and only looks vaguely like me.


My parents are both white with similar features and honestly it's hard to tell where I got what trait from

[John Michael Kane]

Lets put this in a different, but similar situation:

Lets say you have a cute Filipina girl from the Philippines. Some guy, (could be white, black, etc) meets her online, flies to the PH to meet her in person.

Filipino daddy knows damn well that the Philippines is a sex destination for western men. How many millions of Filipina girls have been pumped and dumped? Is Filipino dad wrong to be suspicious of the foreigner? You're darn right he is! It is the man that has to prove to the father he has good intentions for his daughter. This is timeless wisdom.

I don't have any daughters, but if I did, the only men I'd want my daughters dating at age 18 were guys in their mid 20's. Proven to be hard-working and accomplished. Sorry, but my daughter dating a college athlete would be a no-go. Doesn't matter if he's black or white or latino. Not my problem. If that same 18 black kid was a 25 year old man with a solid job history, shared values and came from a good family, then we can talk. But he's probably like most 18 year olds of any race, and that he wants to get his dick wet, and might or might not want a LTR with True Love. As a father, your job is to prevent your daughter from taking more dick of any color from men other than her future husband.

This girl is a proven attention whore given the crowdfunding campaign.

The black dude should be worried about dating this chick. She blasted her father instead of trying to talk to him privately if he had concerns about her dating a black dude (a story only told by the girl's side). A girl who is as reckless and attention whoring to do what she did is dangerous. What if this black man she's dating pisses off miss 18 year old white pussy pass? False rape accusation? How's that going to play out for the guy? Here we have a white 18 year old American girl, the top of the pyramid of spoiled humans. Lets say the guy gets accused of being a rapist falsely. He's in the South, and yes, there are still race issues there. How likely do you think he'd get a fair jury given that the girl already shows signs of being an excellent manipulator? She's hustled $30k from sappy internet betas!

You guys that are saying OMG the dad is a KKK or something just short of it, are really missing the point. The daugher is way out of line, and the father and the black kid will probably suffer for it in the long run. The dad's reputation has already taken the hit, the girl is looking like an attention whore and this black boyfriend looks like he's caught in the crossfire. He either wants the pussy (what straight man doesn't?) or he thinks he's in True Love with a girl with a serious attitude problem. Either way, it doesn't bode well for him either.

I question all three actors judgement calls, the boyfriend, the girl and the dad.

[Atlanta Man]

^^^Leave the boyfriend out of it, he is just giving her cervix a touch up. He did not do anything wrong, he just did what any of us would-fuck a hot 18 year old soccer girl.

[R_Niko]

I guess she'll be spending future holidays at her boyfriend's family's place. And by that I mean his mom's place.

[Kona]

(01-15-2017 09:08 PM)John Michael Kane Wrote:  

Lets put this in a different, but similar situation:

Lets say you have a cute Filipina girl from the Philippines. Some guy, (could be white, black, etc) meets her online, flies to the PH to meet her in person.

Filipino daddy knows damn well that the Philippines is a sex destination for western men. How many millions of Filipina girls have been pumped and dumped? Is Filipino dad wrong to be suspicious of the foreigner? You're darn right he is! It is the man that has to prove to the father he has good intentions for his daughter. This is timeless wisdom.

I'm not sure which Filipino fathers you've met, but the ones I know want nothing more than to have their daughters marry white men.

My neighbor will fly you in a niece tomorrow if you want.

Aloha!

[Geomann180]

(01-15-2017 09:54 PM)Kona Wrote:  

I'm not sure which Filipino fathers you've met, but the ones I know want nothing more than to have their daughters marry white men.

My neighbor will fly you in a niece tomorrow if you want.

Aloha!

Got any pictures? Do she cook steak well?

G

[Thrill Jackson]

(01-15-2017 06:01 PM)K Galt Wrote:  

Quote:

Quote: It's not racism that parents and particularly fathers want their children to look like them


Yes it is.

------------

Still, fuck that racist bitch and her family. If you can't look past somebodies skin color you can go fuck yourself.

I say that yes, indeed, a Father wanting his child to look like him is racist, and that this is a perfectly normal and natural thing for a man to want!

Is being "racist" really that bad? Why do you care about what another man thinks so much?

People need to read old books from the ages before mass media mind control. Reading both fiction and non-fiction from history before the anti-racism Borg has assimilated most of Western Civilization's intellectual zeitgeist. Reading old books gives you insights into the minds of people who accepted race realism and the idea that all mankind is inherently racist and that it was perfectly natural and normal.

The key difference is that while people were openly racist in the past, they were still able to look past somebodies "skin color" (RACE) if they got to know each other beyond the initial meeting marked by mutual xenophobia.

But now we have this REGULARLY SCHEDULED PROGRAMMING for or entire lives that RACISM is the ultimate evil...the worst thing a human being can think.

In past eras of the more enlightened attitude that racism is perfectly normal and natural state of humanity, people of different races would get together in a state of mutual suspicion based on their preconceived notions (aka "prejudices") of different races. Yet, unless the racial interactions were not based on immediate conflict, all them racist folks could interact enough to eventually see past their racial differences and find commonality in their experiences - despite being equally racist at the outset.

Nowadays, after all this RACISM IS THE ULTIMATE THOUGHT CRIME programming we've had rammed down our throats for our entire lives, we now get attitudes like this ("If you can't look past somebodies skin color you can go fuck yourself!"), in which anyone who dares to admit they may have a racist thought every now and then, is vehemently denounced and branded as the worst example of humanity in existence.

This deliberately programmed attitude by our mass media and educational institutions has I think made race relations worse for us all....and that is precisely what was intended!

I think a person can be both racist (I think all humans ARE whether they believe it or not,) and still look past another's skin color...after they get to know the content of their character.

Your as delusional as SJW if you think racism is okay.

Its one thing to generalize, thats okay with me, its natural to be cautious.

It is perfectly fine to want your kids to have the same values as you but to someone they potentially love because of how they look is ridiculous.

If you can't look past somebodies skin color, your dehumanizing him/her which is never okay.

The key point I'm making is give people a chance, regardless of race. Dismissing someone because of their race is right up their with the "I regret the sex I had.... so you raped me."