[WashedUPVet]

(07-14-2018 09:48 PM)TripleG Wrote:  

@DN, pretty sure you would have enjoyed Moscow more and done better if you had taken some time to learn Russian. I would compare going to Moscow and attempting game without any Russian to “filling up a Porsche with 87 regular gas when 93 supreme is required”, youll still drive fast but engine wont run at optimum performance

Although better to know Russian of course, I found this not to be true depending on the type girl sought. All highly educated women in Moscow speak English. Russian would surely benefit the pure player or those outside of Moscow.

This is from experience with 1 year on the ground living in Moscow near ring 1. But hey, I can’t tell between grades of gas in my car either.

Girls like practice with native English speakers and often told me my accent was easier to understand than the British.

[getdownonit]

It's easier to love SPB than Moscow. Logistics and its sheer size make Moscow a tough nut to crack. Living there long term would probably be better, since SPB starts to feel small after a while. Both have plenty of women but in SPB girl's wibes are more proportional to their looks and desires so it's an easier city for a quick bang mission.

[TripleG]

@washedupvet, while you do have 1 year experience i still will politelt disagree with you. Ive been going to russia for tourism, friends, gaming since the 90s and have met many college educated women in Moscow who knew almost no English. Sure, They can understand basic sentences but having any type of intelligent debate is far from guarantee. Of course my sample is different from a typical RooshV guy as i usually go for older demographics (20s-30s). On the street doing day-game such as in Gorky Park it is a crapshoot finding a good English speaker.

To be honest if i was not fluent in Russian already i would probably stick to easier places like Estonia with just as good of quality as the ROI on a short trip to Moscow (under 2 weeks) is too low.

[Gopnik]

My experience matches that of TripleG. Almost all russian girls I've met were university students and only 1 spoke good english.

(07-15-2018 04:11 AM)getdownonit Wrote:  

It's easier to love SPB than Moscow. Logistics and its sheer size make Moscow a tough nut to crack. Living there long term would probably be better, since SPB starts to feel small after a while. Both have plenty of women but in SPB girl's wibes are more proportional to their looks and desires so it's an easier city for a quick bang mission.

I spent several months in SPB and could constantly find new nightlife venues, even on my last few weeks there. Depending on the kind of crowd you prefer you can venture out of the central districts and try out clubs where foreigners rarely go to. The city really has more options than it might initially seem.

[DigitalNomad]

(07-15-2018 04:11 AM)getdownonit Wrote:  

It's easier to love SPB than Moscow. Logistics and its sheer size make Moscow a tough nut to crack. Living there long term would probably be better, since SPB starts to feel small after a while. Both have plenty of women but in SPB girl's wibes are more proportional to their looks and desires so it's an easier city for a quick bang mission.

Gotta watch out for the bad Wibes

(07-14-2018 09:48 PM)TripleG Wrote:  

@DN, pretty sure you would have enjoyed Moscow more and done better if you had taken some time to learn Russian. I would compare going to Moscow and attempting game without any Russian to “filling up a Porsche with 87 regular gas when 93 supreme is required”, youll still drive fast but engine wont run at optimum performance

No doubt.. or even spent some more time there. It's a lot to take in. I also had some pretty bad luck a few times. It's a big ass city though, my type of city is more the walk everywhere type.


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St. Petersburg has definitely climbed it’s way into my top 5 favorite cities in the world. Almost the top, although I think I still prefer Krakow a bit more overall, especially due to ease of visiting. It is nice not worrying about the amount of tourists.. Krakow circa 2009 was better in that aspect. I could probably do a good data sheet up at this point, although I’ll probably just add to the recent one as that was solid. Note to those creating Tallinn data sheets every 3 weeks.

+1, 7/10, Russian, 22 years old, 49 on the year
Anyway, first night back was a cockblock of the ages. I almost hope the guy is on the forum to corroborate the story. I was rolling solo at this point, and I briefly talked to a cute girl near the bathroom. She and her friend went back to a table with two guys. The guys were buying them drinks and holding their hands, but my spidey senses were tingling. At some point a drink got spilled on their table so I took that as my cue to enter. I sat across the table from them and started talking to the girl, completely blocking the guy out of the conversation. Keep in mind she is still holding the guys hand, but we start talking more and more sexually, mostly through google translate. She starts telling me she wants me, I just can’t figure out a way to slip her away from her friend, who was clearly digging the other guy. Eventually she went to the bathroom area to make a call, I went with her, motioned towards the stall and she nodded and dipped in. Luckily there was a shelf kind of area above the toilet so I propped her up there, stood on the toilet and got to it. I came out with a big scratch on my neck and the bouncers were just laughing giving me a thumbs up. By the time we came out her friend and the guys had left, so we bounced back to my place. I think 4 of the 5 or us pulled that night, including my Pakistani friend with a really cute 18 year old he met on the street 15 minutes before bringing her back.

One night I was with the 18 year old that cheated on her bf with me. She since broke up with him for a coworker and wouldn't cheat on her new bf. Sluts these days....

+1, 7/10, 28 years old, Russian, 50 on the year
I have apps to thank for this one. One girl I had been chatting with on tinder was nearby, and at this point we had started to learn the tricks of the trade with Tinder here, gotta be careful. She was with a friend, which is basically always the case with tinder dates here it seems. In the mean time we had met other girls at the bar, they didn’t seem so impressed when the Tinder girls showed up and bounced quickly. I think we had one or two drinks, nothing crazy, and my buddy and I told them we were going to grab a drink at the apartment before we go to a club. Surprising they came back with little resistance, but aside from some hand holding nothing had happened much. Queue app #2, Picolo. If you don’t have this app, download it and pay for the upgrade. There is s “caliente” versión that can get the mood going if it’s dull. An hour later we had my friend licking the other girls nipple and the girls exchanging ice cubes between their months. After a bit of LMR on both ends, we each dipped into our rooms banged out.

The next day we went day gaming at fan fest. Playing our 5s game- approach in 5 seconds, do 5 push-ups or pay 5 bucks, we had a few good approaches. My friend had latched on pretty well with a sexy blonde with half her midriff showing. Her friend was standing alone nearby so I chatted her up a bit. Out of the blue, my friend left, leaving me with the 2 girls.. unexplainable. I made out with and fucked around a bit with my girl on a bench after the game, but the friend was next to us annoyed that she was a 3rd wheel.

+1 6.5/10, 26 years old, Russian, 51 on the year
The next night I met the day game girl from the above story. We walked around for ages, hours. She wanted to grab some food, and everything kind of worked perfectly. The forum member I was staying with had left me a key to our Airbnb, which we were supposed to have checked out of, so I could pick up a sushi roll I forgot in the fridge. The host wasn’t coming til the next day, so I brought her upstairs to eat that. I made a joke about having our choice between the 4 bedrooms, she replied positively so I took her to the nicest one and closed easily.

+1 6.5 (body 7.5, but way too old for me), 32 years old, Russian, 52 on the year
I spent the whole night making out with a cute 7 I met daygaming, but she had a 6am train the next morning and couldn’t come home. Walked back into the club and saw a cute skinny girl with a massive rack sitting with a couple guys. She was intrigued enough by me being American she started talking to me instead of them. We bounced to near by restaurant where she started jerking me off up my shorts leg, but it was already pretty light and the patio seat we were at was right in front of a window. I couldn’t get her home and I thought that was that, but she hit me up one of my last nights here and asked if she would see me again before I left. I was out with a guy from the forum and said I’d meet her at my place for champagne, assuming she would resist. Instead she agreed, we had a few drinks and started escalating and it didn’t take much work from there. I hit up my buddy but he had gone home for the night, so I told her to call in sick to work and spend the night at my place, where we drank and fucked til the early morning.

Aside from that, I spent a couple nights with repeats. I know one forum member closed a repeat's friend last night, so good on him. There was one Russian girl I pulled and fucked briefly in an alley close to our apartment, but it was so useless it’s hardly worth mentioning. There was also a funny 5am street pick up with my buddy and I and this girl walking to work with juice and a laptop. We basically invited her back to the apartment for a glass of wine and told her to go to work an hour late. I bailed last minute but my friend ended up fucking her.

I’ll say this, I ranked these based on the fact that the standards in Russia are so high. I had so many 7-8s, even an 9 or two that we met day gaming and had drinks with, just couldn’t close for one reason or another. I literally have to scroll through my spb contacts on my phone. Had a handful of really hot leads that took off to moscow the day after I met them. I think a good thing about returning in the fall will be having less movement of the summer travelers. I’ll also have an incredible set of prescreened girls ready to mass email, so I’d imagine the quality will increase as well. None of these girls were worth complaining about if I wasn’t in Russia straining my neck every 2 minutes on the street. Also, having a good wingman is really helpful, I’m not sure there is an easier place to meet two sets for instadates will day gaming. I’d estimate we had 10-20 of these... just make sure you choose the spot and don’t let the girls order food. As soon as they suggest a “cool karaoke bar” they know, BAIL! I don’t care how hot they are or how into you think they are. Watch their body language go from 100-0 the second you say goodbye, you are going somewhere else. If they then backtrack and decide to come with, maybe you can ride it out, but 9/10 times they will just get angry and walk away, fuck em. Same with Tinder, never let them choose the place; unless you already know what the place is like, you’ll get there, they will be with a friend, and they’ll want to order a bottle of champagne or get $15 cocktails. There is no reason to pay more that $10 for the strongest of strong cocktails, normally more like $5 though

Anyway, back to Estonia today. There are a couple forum guys there I’ll be meeting up with so hopefully we can put some good stories together.

[AznMarkZuckerberg]

Inspirational stuff DigitalNomad. I'm heading on my first solo long term trip to SE Asia. This thread is a goldmine! Couple questions:

1) Do you find it easier to bang locals or other travelers (hostel)
2) How are logistics different for each? ie seems like private room in hostel is way to go for travelers (automatically conveys higher status). airbnb may seem better for locals since hostel may feel less safe?

[BlackFriar]

Glad to hear Russia was a good time. Too bad I cannot have more time off from work. When I win the lottery, I am buying a place in Estonia. We need to make a RooshV safe house in the middle of Old Town Tallinn.

[DigitalNomad]

@AMZ contrary to popular belief with a lot of guys on here, I only really go for locals in Europe. South America probably 1/2 and 1/2, Central America only backpackers for the most part. This trip has been only locals aside from the most recent, but it was an interesting enough country I toon the dip.

I do hostels at lot of the time when it’s short term in a place with cool hostels- check out my hostel data sheet for tips on logistics, as it can be tricky with wristbands sometimes if the girl isn’t staying there. Private is the way to go, and some hostels aren’t as strict on guests when you have a private. Lately I’ve been doing AirBNB a lot because I’ve either been with friends or in places with shit hostels, or alternatively the good hostels have public bars, so there isn’t any advantage to staying there. All of that said, if you are only going for locals AirBNB is definitely going to make it easier
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I spent the last week in Tallinn. Not a ton to update, probably should have had a few more notches, but I was mostly doing repeats. Saturday I pulled the first girl I talked to.. she was out alone and for the first time in 14 years, as she had married her high school sweetheart and is getting a divorce. She wasn’t drinking, but after a few hours of talking and making out, I walked her back to her car and she gave me head in the back seat.

+1 7/10, 23 years old.
Can’t give too many specifics on this girl without giving away who it is to too many people, but I was out with her and her coworkers. She’s from a country in Southern Europe, I had heard from her coworkers that she is mostly just into Latin guys. I was flirting a bit, but didn’t really see it going anywhere. At one point I went to kiss her, she said we can’t in front of them, meet me at the bathrooms. Luckily the Club Hollywood bathrooms are unisex and individual, met her up there and she was on her knees before we had even kissed. Ended up bending her over briefly but she was worried people were going to notice we were gone for too long. Ended up repeating with her last night, brought her home this time though.

Aside from that, a funny story from s repeat. Her and her sister and a guy that likes her sister came to my apartment for an afterparty. We started playing Picolo and as a result, I actually fingered and licked her sister’s tits before I got with her. Friday I probably could have got with my friend’s ex, and seeing he did that to me one time, I thought about it but was already with another girl. A russian girl had flown in to see him for the night, so it was the perfect combination of jealous and drunk on a bachelorette party that the option was there. A straight from IG girl was blasting me last night, judging by previous texting convos it was probably on the table, but by the time I finished with the Southern European girl, she had already gone home. That same night the girl I was with was sitting with my friends, when I went to the bar I had a quick makeout with a girl but obviously I had to bail. Got her number but she left town until tomorrow, so never got a chance to meet up.

A funny story from a friend- he met up with a repeat and I asked how they met... apparently he started talking to this guy outside Hollywood. His girlfriend came over and the three of them went to afterparty. When the couple left, she lied and said she left something at the apartment, came back up, kissed my friend and gave him her number. They met up a few days later and banged. Pretty much a perfect example of your typical Estonian guy to allow that to happen... you can see the fear in their eyes when you start talking to them. One thing I’ve learned from him is the effectiveness of approaching mixed sets. Monday night we were incredibly close to bringing home 2 Finnish girls that were with 3 other Georgian guys.. the only reason they didn’t come back is that they were all classmates and they didn’t want to look like assholes, but they definitely a conversation in Finnish deciding whether to come with us or not.

Anyway, off to Copenhagen now, the. Malmo for a repeat with the freak I met in Nicaragua.

[Distant Light]

Still at it...love it

Charity Work all around the world...

[d619rq]

Want to give a big shout out to DN for keeping this thread alive with the capers, definitely the highlight of the travel section. You have a great taste in where in the world you travel around as well.

Want to especially say thanks for all the tips with regards to saying in hostels. Unlike DN, I'm would consider myself lower energy and I'm not going to have great success on the bar/club scene, at least solo, definitely have a more academic and conversation based game.

However I've learnt here how to find a suitable hostel, how to isolate a cute girl (was as simple as suggesting heading to the beach when someone went to sleep) and how to put covers across a bunk bed for shared room privacy.

Results was a German student many years younger than me with arguably the best all-round body I've had sweaty and sandy sex with.

Doing this travel thing as long term as you isn't on my life plan agenda, but I'm walking around the airport with a big grin knowing what can be done in the right place, right time, and the right frame of mind.

If I spot we are in the same part of the world I'll buzz in.

[DigitalNomad]

@d619rq thanks man, good job with the German!

The final few days of the trip were quite a good time. Copenhagen is definitely a fun city aside from the price. More my jam than let’s say.. Amsterdam.

First night out a friend and I went out with 2 French sisters. We both got some kisses in a bit more, but couldn’t get the close. Went back out with another guy and 2 Finnish girls. Again, kisses, a bit more, but couldn’t seal the deal.

Thursday was downright frustrating. Started at A-Bar, met a group of 3 18-19 y/o. Our 3rd wingman was like 27 but he had a thing where he wouldn’t hit on under 22. Regardless, my friend was making out with one of them, but we had to bail on them. Met another 3 seT, one took off with a guy, my friend and I were all over the other 2 outside on a bench. They got worried about their friend and by the time that was resolved the mood was gone. Should have bounced earlier. Met 2 guys and a girl on the street, went to a bar with them and got another make out in, couldn’t separate again. At the end of the night, I met the cutest, innocent girl walking alone at like 6am. She had only been with one guy, some random in the final weeks of being 17 so she wouldn’t be an 18 year old virgin. We made out and she wanted to hang out Saturday, but unfortunately I was headed to Sweden and she had a birthday party Friday night (which she eventually invited me to late in the night but I was already tied up).

Friday things got interesting. I met up with a local bartender buddy of mine I met in Nicaragua. We went to a cool party in a courtyard, lots of talent and no foreigners, but a danish girl I originally met in Brazil. It was pretty much a guaranteed thing, we went back to her place after a few beers. +1 (6.5/10, danish, 23 years old, 54 on the year)

+1 - 6.5/10, danish, 27 years old, 55 on the year
I was walking home at 6am or so.. my hotel was right next to the train station. There was a cute girl sitting alone on the stairs near the station I started chatting with. I had pretty much a full beer which were passing back and forth. When we finished I said we should have a drink at my place. She asked where it was, I pointed to the building, and she suggested we go to 7/11 for a coffee. Grabbed a 4 pack of beer as well. As gutter game normally goes, there wasn’t much resistance upstairs. “10 minutes only” turned into 1 hour plus, I finally kicked her out at 8:30 so I wouldn’t be a zombie when I checked out at 11am.

I spent the weekend with this girl. Had a great time and met her family.. definitely a bit different than vacation in Nicaragua though.

(03-31-2018 06:02 PM)DigitalNomad Wrote:  

+1, 8/10, swedish, 25 years old, 23 on the year
There was a beautiful swedish girl just waking up in my room just as a beer pong tournament was getting started -at 9am. I asked her to be my teammate, she said yes, then we went on to hold the table down for about 3 hours. By 12pm we were fucking, by 6pm we were fucking again, and so is the story for the last 4 days of my vacation. At one point I actually got the 20 year old and the swedish girl to agree to a threesome but for the life of me I could not get them in the same spot. The swedish girl would tell me how much she wanted to lick her first pussy, the 20 year old would ask where the swedish girl was, but it just didn't work out. The 20 year old was quick to high five me on closing the swedish girl though..

+1, 7.5/10, American, 19 years old, 56 on the year
Final night in Copenhagen had low expectation. Prices everywhere were expensive and the hostel I was planning to stay at was sold out. I put my stuff in storage and figured I’d be pulling an all nighter since I had an 8:30am flight. I met a few cool people at the hostel and was having a beer with them when I noticed a really cute girl at the bar. Mental note to talk to her later. Luckily about 20 minutes later she came up to our table, turns out she’s from the same state I was born in and we hit it off immediately. There was pretty good tension in the air, got her talking about sex, how she likes being tied up, and how she lost her virginity in February while studying abroad. Still didn’t really think it was going anywhere, until one of those lucky, and purely lucky, moments happened. Turns out she has a 8:45am flight. I propose we sleep in the same bed, wake each other up, and I’ll pay for the train and breakfast in the morning. She was already pretty into me, but I think what pushed her over the edge was that I had the balls to not book a place. We went up to her dorm room, made out a bit, then another couple started hooking up which turned her on. Let’s just say we didn’t sleep much before our 5:30am alarm.

Anyway, that trip was ~18 locals, 1 Southern European living in Tallinn, a French hostel girl and an American hostel girl, could be worse for the guy who has the reputation of only banging hostel girls.

[Contagion]

I've read a little bit of your journal/thread here over the past couple of weeks. I gotta say, that's awesome that you've been able to grab life by the horns and get what you want from it.

- You make a great salary.
- Your job is location independent.
- You make the most of this by going with the flow and taking off when you want to take off and staying put when you want to stay put.
- You make enough money to save a good amount for retirement while still traveling at will.

Damn, you are living the dream. Just wanted to say props, hard work pays off, that's awesome.

[Road_Less_Taken]

Do you ever feel burnt out at all? I don't think I could keep up your lifestyle for a few days nevertheless longer.

[jcrew247]

Awesome posts! Is this the same writer from Naughty Nomad blog? how does he afford to keep traveling?

[TripleG]

Thats the “million dollar question”...
I also wander how someone can go out and spend money every single day to party and chase women...even trust fund babies eventually need to account for their finances and time spent(wasted). I know quite a few “location independent” people including one extreme case of a friend who travels the world doing dance workshops, getting his Room ad board fully covered, visiting the best clubs and getting paid to teach and dance w beautiful women but even he needs to be fully rested and to practice to maintain his dream job thus cant go out all the time.

This case of DN seems to be too good to be true. To go out 24/7 and maintain “a job” is still something i have a hard time grasping.

[BlackFriar]

I could not belive it either. He is doing it. More power too him.

[tobehero]

(08-10-2018 02:07 PM)jcrew247 Wrote:  

Awesome posts! Is this the same writer from Naughty Nomad blog? how does he afford to keep traveling?

Heard him talk about it on his podcast but he does graphical design work, also has his own ebooks.

[scotian]

DN has met several repped members, he’s legit and has an income source that obviously allows him to live the lifestyle he wants, so who cares really? I’m a hard drinker myself and even I couldn’t party like this guy does but power to him, keep the stories coming bro!

[stefpdt]

(08-10-2018 02:17 PM)TripleG Wrote:  

Thats the “million dollar question”...
I also wander how someone can go out and spend money every single day to party and chase women...even trust fund babies eventually need to account for their finances and time spent(wasted). I know quite a few “location independent” people including one extreme case of a friend who travels the world doing dance workshops, getting his Room ad board fully covered, visiting the best clubs and getting paid to teach and dance w beautiful women but even he needs to be fully rested and to practice to maintain his dream job thus cant go out all the time.

This case of DN seems to be too good to be true. To go out 24/7 and maintain “a job” is still something i have a hard time grasping.

While I haven't met DN personally, I've met guys who found ways to "beat the system" very fast in life. These types of guys figure out how to beat the money and sex game faster and easier than everyone else. It isn't fair, but that's just life.

For example, I witnessed a fellow forum member build a fully-fledged and profitable lead-generating website with world-class copywriting in under 2 hours. This guy also runs incredible game and pulls hot girls in one of the most difficult regions of the world. And he goes out most nights of the week.

I congratulate anyone who can do this, and genuinely wish them the best, because it must be fucking awesome to be that gifted.

I personally have to work harder and longer than most people I know, because that's just how I'm wired. I also don't respond well to alcohol at all, so I barely even drink these days (1-2 drinks max). On top of that, I need at least 8-9 hours of rest every night, and I have to eat a special "high performance" diet to feel my best.

We are all different.

[DigitalNomad]

(08-10-2018 05:26 PM)scotian Wrote:  

DN has met several repped members, he’s legit and has an income source that obviously allows him to live the lifestyle he wants, so who cares really? I’m a hard drinker myself and even I couldn’t party like this guy does but power to him, keep the stories coming bro!

Thank man! Too bad I missed you in Toronto.

(08-10-2018 04:10 PM)tobehero Wrote:  

(08-10-2018 02:07 PM)jcrew247 Wrote:  

Awesome posts! Is this the same writer from Naughty Nomad blog? how does he afford to keep traveling?

Heard him talk about it on his podcast but he does graphical design work, also has his own ebooks.

Not me haha. I think NN also plays music as well though.

(08-10-2018 02:17 PM)TripleG Wrote:  

Thats the “million dollar question”...
I also wander how someone can go out and spend money every single day to party and chase women...even trust fund babies eventually need to account for their finances and time spent(wasted). I know quite a few “location independent” people including one extreme case of a friend who travels the world doing dance workshops, getting his Room ad board fully covered, visiting the best clubs and getting paid to teach and dance w beautiful women but even he needs to be fully rested and to practice to maintain his dream job thus cant go out all the time.

This case of DN seems to be too good to be true. To go out 24/7 and maintain “a job” is still something i have a hard time grasping.

I work a few hours a day, although the summer is pretty dead. But for example this winter I'll probably get a job at a hostel, cute accommodation fees to 0, free food, and discount drinks. Don't need to make much to maintain that lifestyle. In the summer I'm normally in Europe, so my hours are 4-7pm. Gonna start a few new things when I'm back in Toronto next week, so hopefully I'll be working less eventually!

(08-10-2018 02:07 PM)jcrew247 Wrote:  

Awesome posts! Is this the same writer from Naughty Nomad blog? how does he afford to keep traveling?

No that's someone else. I have a job online.

(08-08-2018 09:28 PM)Road_Less_Taken Wrote:  

Do you ever feel burnt out at all? I don't think I could keep up your lifestyle for a few days nevertheless longer.

I don't really get burned out. No hangovers, don't need much sleep, and the last time I was sick was like 2011, so I guess those things help.

(08-08-2018 04:34 PM)Contagion Wrote:  

I've read a little bit of your journal/thread here over the past couple of weeks. I gotta say, that's awesome that you've been able to grab life by the horns and get what you want from it.

- You make a great salary.
- Your job is location independent.
- You make the most of this by going with the flow and taking off when you want to take off and staying put when you want to stay put.
- You make enough money to save a good amount for retirement while still traveling at will.

Damn, you are living the dream. Just wanted to say props, hard work pays off, that's awesome.

Thanks man!
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Back in the USA! It's been a pretty successful time back.. I'm lazy after a late night so not the most in depth post, but here's a quick summary.

+1, 30 years old, mexican, 6.5/10, 57 on the year
First day back I took a well deserved night off to readjust to the time zone. Wednesday night in SF we did the rock, paper, scissors pub crawl. The quality wasn't great, but there were 2 older but pretty attractive mexicans my friend and I started talking to. One drink led to another, next thing you know I was in the bathroom hooking up with one of them. My friend left with another girl but passed out before anything happened, thankfully she left and opened the door for me, since he left his phone in the lyft and wasn't picking up. Thursday was a really fun night, but it was more catching up with my friends than hitting on girls. I did have one really close to coming home, but her friend cock blocked the shit out of us before we got in an uber.

+1, 21 years old, american, 6/10, 58 on the year
We found a country bar called Jaxson... this place was gold, and my game was on point that night. I had one girl locked and loaded after about 2 sentences. Her friend was hellbent on her hooking up with my friend and tried relentlessly to cockblock. I really don't know why she was so insistent on this, but eventually I said fuck it and moved on. The next girl I talked to I ended up going home with.. her roommate was so much hotter I kind of wanted to switch it up, but couldn't pull that off. Part of the deal with going back was she got to clean her room for 15 minutes while her friend entertained me haha. Once at night, and once in the morning, then I walked back to my friends house and caught my flight to Seattle. Side note, I went out with 5 other guys that night and we all closed.. successful night to say the least.

+1, 6.5/10, american, 24 years old, 59 on the year
I went to a solo dinner and wanted to stay out, but needed a nap so I ordered an uber pool. The girl that got in the back seat was friendly, we chatted a bit about sports as she recently got a job for one of the teams in Seattle. There was a 3rd person in the uber as well as the driver, and as much as I wanted to get her info, it was kind of awkward. Luckily I knew her name, previous job and google exists, so I went Sherlock Holmes on her ass and found her Instagram. She thought it was cute and we agreed to go for a drink later in the week. By pure luck, she ended up sitting next to me at the bar I was at later in the night, the catch was she was on a Bumble date with an Argentine. He chose an unfortunate venue haha. When the bar closed, the three of us went back to my hotel for drinks, but apparently the hotel can't serve after 2am, even for room service. Instead, we went to her house and started pounding tequila. Every time he went to the bathroom or the kitchen, I was making out with her. Eventually we told him he had to go, and the shit storm that ensued was unreal. The climax was him smashing a mason jar on my feet, sending it to a million pieces around the apartment. After that he finally left and we went to bed.

+1, 21 years old, american, 6/10, 60 on the year
The next 3 nights were pretty dead. One night I hit it off pretty well with a birthday girl. We tried to go to Vegas the next day on her airline staff price, but the flight was sold out. Wednesday I discovered $5 pitcher night.. tons of talent, albeit pretty young. I was with a buddy and started chatting up 2 21 year olds. I was pretty sure it was a sealed deal after they made me a deal, shots for tots. I got us tequila shots, they invited me home for tater tots. The hotter of the 2 had a guy coming over so I settled with the other one. She gave me the boot at like 7am.. part of me questions why I even bother paying for accommodation when I end up crashing at girls places half the week haha.

Thursday in Victoria, BC was somewhat dead, but I noticed a really cute girl standing alone against a pillar. Turns out it was her first time visiting a bar, 19 years old and came up alone from seattle for the weekend. Unfortunately with the innocence, she was also a virgin. At one point we were close to going back to her hotel, she flaked at the last minute tho. I met a 9.5 alter in the night that lit my DMs on fire on instagram. Got a kiss but she wouldn't come back to my place. Burger King it is.

+2, 22 years old 7/10, 35 year old 6/10. Canadian x2, 61 and 62 for the year
This night got weird. Very weird. Was out with an Aussie guy but he had to at 12:30 or so. I was minding my own business at Darcy's listening to a live band and this older lady started hitting on me a bit. I kind of blew her off, but she kept trying, eventually telling me she was at the bar with her husband. Her husband was talking to a really cute girl nearby and I started realizing what was up. The bar closed, my hotel was 10 minutes away, so I suggested we all go back there. I think we all knew what was up, but none of us had kissed or anything at that point. The husband got everything in motion when he told his wife to go down on the girl. The funniest part was he never ended up fucking the girl, but I banged his wife and the girl before the night was over. Finished to a double BJ, that was fun. Woke up just to her and hooked up again in the morning.

[Trent W.]

(08-18-2018 05:43 PM)DigitalNomad Wrote:  

I work a few hours a day, although the summer is pretty dead. But for example this winter I'll probably get a job at a hostel, cute accommodation fees to 0, free food, and discount drinks. Don't need to make much to maintain that lifestyle. In the summer I'm normally in Europe, so my hours are 4-7pm. Gonna start a few new things when I'm back in Toronto next week, so hopefully I'll be working less eventually!

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Do you get work at hostels in your own hometown?

(08-18-2018 05:43 PM)DigitalNomad Wrote:  

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Back in the USA! It's been a pretty successful time back.. I'm lazy after a late night so not the most in depth post, but here's a quick summary.

+1, 30 years old, mexican, 6.5/10, 57 on the year
First day back I took a well deserved night off to readjust to the time zone. Wednesday night in SF we did the rock, paper, scissors pub crawl. The quality wasn't great, but there were 2 older but pretty attractive mexicans my friend and I started talking to. One drink led to another, next thing you know I was in the bathroom hooking up with one of them. My friend left with another girl but passed out before anything happened, thankfully she left and opened the door for me, since he left his phone in the lyft and wasn't picking up. Thursday was a really fun night, but it was more catching up with my friends than hitting on girls. I did have one really close to coming home, but her friend cock blocked the shit out of us before we got in an uber.

+1, 21 years old, american, 6/10, 58 on the year
We found a country bar called Jaxson... this place was gold, and my game was on point that night. I had one girl locked and loaded after about 2 sentences. Her friend was hellbent on her hooking up with my friend and tried relentlessly to cockblock. I really don't know why she was so insistent on this, but eventually I said fuck it and moved on. The next girl I talked to I ended up going home with.. her roommate was so much hotter I kind of wanted to switch it up, but couldn't pull that off. Part of the deal with going back was she got to clean her room for 15 minutes while her friend entertained me haha. Once at night, and once in the morning, then I walked back to my friends house and caught my flight to Seattle. Side note, I went out with 5 other guys that night and we all closed.. successful night to say the least.

+1, 6.5/10, american, 24 years old, 59 on the year
I went to a solo dinner and wanted to stay out, but needed a nap so I ordered an uber pool. The girl that got in the back seat was friendly, we chatted a bit about sports as she recently got a job for one of the teams in Seattle. There was a 3rd person in the uber as well as the driver, and as much as I wanted to get her info, it was kind of awkward. Luckily I knew her name, previous job and google exists, so I went Sherlock Holmes on her ass and found her Instagram. She thought it was cute and we agreed to go for a drink later in the week. By pure luck, she ended up sitting next to me at the bar I was at later in the night, the catch was she was on a Bumble date with an Argentine. He chose an unfortunate venue haha. When the bar closed, the three of us went back to my hotel for drinks, but apparently the hotel can't serve after 2am, even for room service. Instead, we went to her house and started pounding tequila. Every time he went to the bathroom or the kitchen, I was making out with her. Eventually we told him he had to go, and the shit storm that ensued was unreal. The climax was him smashing a mason jar on my feet, sending it to a million pieces around the apartment. After that he finally left and we went to bed.

+1, 21 years old, american, 6/10, 60 on the year
The next 3 nights were pretty dead. One night I hit it off pretty well with a birthday girl. We tried to go to Vegas the next day on her airline staff price, but the flight was sold out. Wednesday I discovered $5 pitcher night.. tons of talent, albeit pretty young. I was with a buddy and started chatting up 2 21 year olds. I was pretty sure it was a sealed deal after they made me a deal, shots for tots. I got us tequila shots, they invited me home for tater tots. The hotter of the 2 had a guy coming over so I settled with the other one. She gave me the boot at like 7am.. part of me questions why I even bother paying for accommodation when I end up crashing at girls places half the week haha.

Thursday in Victoria, BC was somewhat dead, but I noticed a really cute girl standing alone against a pillar. Turns out it was her first time visiting a bar, 19 years old and came up alone from seattle for the weekend. Unfortunately with the innocence, she was also a virgin. At one point we were close to going back to her hotel, she flaked at the last minute tho. I met a 9.5 alter in the night that lit my DMs on fire on instagram. Got a kiss but she wouldn't come back to my place. Burger King it is.

+2, 22 years old 7/10, 35 year old 6/10. Canadian x2, 61 and 62 for the year
This night got weird. Very weird. Was out with an Aussie guy but he had to at 12:30 or so. I was minding my own business at Darcy's listening to a live band and this older lady started hitting on me a bit. I kind of blew her off, but she kept trying, eventually telling me she was at the bar with her husband. Her husband was talking to a really cute girl nearby and I started realizing what was up. The bar closed, my hotel was 10 minutes away, so I suggested we all go back there. I think we all knew what was up, but none of us had kissed or anything at that point. The husband got everything in motion when he told his wife to go down on the girl. The funniest part was he never ended up fucking the girl, but I banged his wife and the girl before the night was over. Finished to a double BJ, that was fun. Woke up just to her and hooked up again in the morning.

You must have gotten some strong IoIs from the girl on the Bumble date if you chose to stay. When another guy is involved I leave it and go for something else. Could be worth changing tactic on occasion.

As for the last story, talk about being at the place at the right time. Good stuff man!

[DigitalNomad]

(08-19-2018 07:09 AM)Trent W. Wrote:  

Do you get work at hostels in your own hometown?

You must have gotten some strong IoIs from the girl on the Bumble date if you chose to stay. When another guy is involved I leave it and go for something else. Could be worth changing tactic on occasion.

As for the last story, talk about being at the place at the right time. Good stuff man!

Not in Toronto no. Regarding the bumble girl, that's probably the 4-5th time I've stolen a girl from a date like that. It's a bit deep into game, but it's actually pretty hard to fend off someone that is trying to steal your online app date. I normally approach it with how did you guys meet, when they say Bumble, reply something like "ohh that's cute, first date" "What was the opening message." Then just keep the conversation going. By default, he can't really get mad at you, or he'll look bad. If he's friendly, he'll look like a pussy. Realistically she has only known him a bit longer than you, so you are almost at par at that point.

Actually curious what y'all think would be the best way to fend that off. I've had similar situations where a guy asks "is that your girlfriend" about a girl that I've only been on a few dates. Once you say no, they latch on and ask if she is allowed to sleep with other guys and what not.. similar bind to the above scenario as the girl doesn't really realize whats going on and it's difficult to defend against. The best solution I've had is just to go overboard and say something like "she's my wife, we are on our honeymoon" then get a bit stern if he sticks around and say something like "hey man, your friendly and all, but we'd like to have a private conversation if that's cool"

And on that note:
+1, canadian, 31 y/o, 63 on the year, 7/10
Took a tinder date to a rooftop bar, then bounced around to a few other places. At the 3rd place she just straight up said let's go have one drink at the country bar then go back to your hotel. Nothing to special to point out aside from the fact that I'm now eskimo brothers with Gaz and Leonardo DiCaprio haha.

[tr1cky]

To defend against the rando commando (if you're the one on the date) you can do a number of things

First - never mention online or first date. If asked, roleplay like DN. "We're on our honeymoon, we almost missed our flight because *she* (points to date) tested positive for explosives when they swabbed her hand. I think I married a domestic terrorist, we might have to get the marriage annulled." And even if she answers first (bumble date) just laugh, say you wish, and go into the married/honeymoon/3kids story

Before he has a chance to respond you ask him where his girlfriend is, if he says she's not here - tool him for leaving his girlfriend home alone. If he says no, reply with;

"Aww man, don't worry there's a lot of single girls here, just act cool and they'll like you. Maybe relax your shoulders a bit you seem tense. If you can't find a girl by the end of the night I'll buy you a beer buddy. "

Then turn and *ignore* his ass. Turn the girl and say something to move her away. "Let's go get a drink, let's go play pool" he can't follow without looking like a chode.

But if he replies "it's complicated" and starts spitting game to the girl, don't panic because I'll take good care of her for you ;-)

You can do it any number of ways but the key elements are;

-make him look like a chode, even slightly is enough.
-spiking her emotions so you will have more compliance to move her away from him. Even if you only get her to move 45 degrees and turn her back on the guy. He will look like a chode trying to get her attention from behind or following.

If he reopens later you can cut him off and go aww man did you find a girl yet? Hang in there buddy eventually you'll find someone.

He can't get mad at you because you're "helping him".

[RespectivePerspective]

This lifestyle is definitely achievabe, as I have a similar situation. But this just makes me wonder if i’m living life to it’s fullest potential. When I total the number of days I typically stay abroad per year, it’s only about 9-10 weeks in comparison. The rest of the time I stay home. I’ll usually take three trips a year, for 3 weeks at a time.

I suppose it depends where i’m at as well, as I found myself being drained from the harsh climate and time difference in Asia, although I’ve been fortunate in recent years to not have to interact with business contacts back home too much, and can just deliver what I do to meet deadlines.

I think I like Europe best, and could remain there and not feel like i’m always battling having to stay motivated all of just 2-3 hours a day on average, 5 days a week. Career advancement has made me a lazy pos sometimes, it seems, but I pack my days pretty tight with things to do given that I don’t ever stay in a place(s) longer than a month when I’m abroad. I do kind of miss being home, too.

Early 30’s though, and unmarried/child-less. I think I might re-configure how i’m doing things.

[Contagion]

I liked the Argentinian story, I'm surprised that didn't lead to a fight. Glad it all worked out in the end with you, but how in the hell did you avoid fighting with the Argentinian guy after he smashed something in front of your feet, late at night, when you were both drunk?

Also, working at a hostel seems like it would be right up your alley. I've seen average guys clean up working at them. From what you've posted on this thread about hooking up with 50+ 8's in a year, you're far above average. It would probably be like shooting fish in a barrel for you working at one.

Do you have any regions of the world in particular, where you're wanting to work in a hostel this winter?