[Lime]

When you are having sex with a new girl the first couple of times, do you look often in her eye while fucking her?
Sometimes I do that and I like it when I smile and she smiles back but am wondering how much is too much.

[kaotic]

Honestly I hardly look at a girl that I'm banging most the time I'm looking down.

If I do give her eye contact it's that "I'm fucking the shit out of you" intense look, most girls are rolling/closing their eyes anyways, or you're hitting it from behind.

I can't remember ever smiling during sex, more like laughing if my dick slips out or we fuck up a position.

[heavy]

Tough to doggie style...and dammit then I thought of this.


But if we're going missionary, yeah I make eye contact. I'm a lover though.

[kamoz]

I honestly hate eye contact during sex, not sure why. I also hate any form of 'dirty talk' unless it's a legitimate 'oh shit/oh fuck' when I kick it into overdrive. When I manage positions it usually prevents any eye contact such as having her head over my shoulder, or me using one hand to push her face into a pillow etc. Maybe I'm a damaged person....

[kaotic]

Dirty talk is good if it comes naturally to you

I'll give commands, tell them to call themselves my slut, daddy, papi, slap them, whatever.

It's good to use during sex.

[Sosa]

Of course I do, and I highly recommend it. Leads to better sex for both parties and a very masculine move. You're non-verbally communicating your dominance over your girl when you look into your girls eyes - they LOVE it. Think James Bond - be subtle, squint your eyes a little, smile slyly, and don't flinch.

I usually whisper into a girls ear after this "I'm going to fuck you now" or " You're going to give me this Poosy, Understand?" Pin her hands hands down - and watch the Water Works! They instantly start panting and get wet. It all comes back to being dominant, and girls craving a dominant man. It's primal and girls literally cant resist - it's in their nature, just as being cunning is for them.

It never fails - so much that after a session I'll fall asleep and in no time shes rubbing up on me unapoligetically asking for more.



Just don't look too excited or desperate. That's weird

[dallasguy]

Look them in the eyes and tell them what you're going to do and what they are going to do. It turns them on and they get hornier and more nasty if they are timid

[Moma]

I don't look, I can't focus on too many things at once. My mind starts wondering and my eyes tell too much. My mouth is also nasty, not the 'dirty bytch' but 'you wotless thing, you will always be pump and dump'. This always dries up the pum.

[Windom Earle]

If you're getting fixed gaze, pancake sized pupils from your chick which feels like you're being entranced - take heed, this is a BPD tell.

[LeoneVolpe]

As long as she doesn't start doing this shit, it's fine:

[Ringo]

I always look for eye contact.

I love the feeling of intimacy from fucking a girl and looking deeply into her eyes.

"Deep" eye contact if a big part of my game. I'm a great observer and can read a lot about the girls behavior by looking into their eyes, and seeing how they react when I do so.

It's also a good way to evaluate how much a girl is into you - pay attention to where their eyes wander and how dilated their pupils get.

It's creepy to fuck them while staring at them if you're clueless about what you're doing. If you were a Javier Bardem in Vicky Cristina Barcelona type of character, girls would love you to stare them down. "He's so romantic", "he's sooo deep", etc.

As for talking, like Sosa and dallasguy said, I mostly talk only when giving out commands, but it's always a hard whisper right into their ear. "Move", "Get down", "Shut up".

Telling them what you are going to do to them is golden, too. Especially if you hold it off for a while and build anticipation. I've had this dialogue before:
"You like this, don't you?"
"Yes."
"I fucked you good, didn't I?"
"Yes, you did."
"Now I'm going to cum in your mouth and you're gonna swallow every last drop."
"Yes."

And so they do...

[Comte De St. Germain]

Eye contact comes naturally to me in a social situation if I'm deep in conversation. It doesn't come as naturally during sex with one exception. Not to mention as others have said earlier girls close their eyes even during missionary as it is.

The exception being if I've picked her up and her legs are around my back as I fuck her against the wall. Only time I can't help but smirk/laugh and look her in the eyes like a dog looking at fresh meat. Not to mention sex is a pretty funny thing so I don't know this whole know smiling things. Sometimes I just bust out laughing mid pump. It's weird, but if anything it makes her more insecure so I can tease her a bit more. "Hey love nice cankles. Pffffft." "Fuck you! Wait what are you on about???!!!" "Kidding Kidding now arch your back just like that."

[philosophical_recovery]

I'm big on eye contact. Regardless of the situation.

Except when the lights are out. I prefer daytime bangs where I'm picking a girl up, lifting her off the ground, airfucking her, then dropping her on the floor where i get to see her in natural sunlight, not lamps.

When the lights are out i like to hear her breathing in my ears while I'm making noises in hers.

I've never, ever had a concern about looking at a girl too much while I'm inside her. If i get weirded out by eye contact with her, then I've already made a mistake...

I have made that mistake. Nothing strikes fear in the heart like waking up after a post bang slumber to find a chick you don't want to keep around staring at you sleeping.

[Jagnum]

I came to realize recently that if a girl is looking at me during sex, it turns me on like crazy. Especially if she's in a submissive position while doing it (on her knees, missionary style against the wall).

As for what you should do, if you were staring at her 100% of the time, it'd be awkward. That's true on an approach, on a date, and during sex.

I'd say look at her far less often than you normally would in those other situations like an approach, where it's important to use your eyes to project you are a confident male.

During sex, let your dick do the talking.

[bradz]

Hell yes I look them in the eye. And I want to see her face as she's feeling it. Huge turn on to see here face as she's being pleasured and she's going to orgasm.

[Schlep]

I agree with the last two posts. Love to see her eyes light up as I sink the beast balls deep.