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11-08-2016, 02:54 PM
IMO her insisting on a spot is a red flag. She's most likely going nowhere. Don't waste your time.
Text her back with some excuse about why you need to meet where you are. If she balks, cancel.
One one girl texted me to meet closer to her subway, right before the date. I cancelled (and got the notch elsewhere that night).
That's not ego, it's logistics.
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11-08-2016, 03:33 PM
Quote: (11-08-2016 01:29 PM)ksbms Wrote:
It's all your fault! You were't charming, engaging, entertaining and funny.
Thanks so much for this sage wisdom, sir.
"Does PUA say that I just need to get to f-close base first here and some weird chemicals will be released in her brain to make her a better person?"
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11-08-2016, 04:43 PM
^ Go back and read the first page before spewing your noob nonsense in my thread. I ain't got time for this shit, we're trying to #MAGA!
"Does PUA say that I just need to get to f-close base first here and some weird chemicals will be released in her brain to make her a better person?"
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11-08-2016, 05:16 PM
Don't understand why girls agree to meet when it is obvious they don't want to.
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11-08-2016, 06:06 PM
I've dated enough girls by now, that when one tries to control the frame of the location of the first date and she won't agree to my terms, it's not happening.
Everytime, and I mean every damn time, I have ever 'bended' to her suggestion on a date after I first gave my own. That is, she didn't like my idea and made a counter offer for venues, etc, it's been a waste of time and money and usually not even a second date. Never a bang.
Fuck that. My moniker is 'my frame or the highway'
I've even texted girls who have tried to change date plans something like, "It's the woman's job to look pretty and show up, it's the man's job to make the plans" I may through in an "lol" to take the edge off. It's worked a few times in resetting the frame.
Life is so much easier and enjoyable when you're dating women who are open or eager to see you, give you their number when you ask and are enthusiastic or at least compliant in accepting your invitation.
- One planet orbiting a star. Billions of stars in the galaxy. Billions of galaxies in the universe. Approach.
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