I'm not very experienced when it comes to my game, I mainly do club/social circle game at night, and even though I very often get some success, getting a girl home is something that has escaped me for a while. I've heard about and seen several of my friends do it, and I'm always amazed about what they tell, they make it look and sound so easy.
Therefore, what happened last weekend, getting a girl home, was a huge step forward for me. However, it has bugged me ever since that we didn't have sex, something I really wanted that night. Fair enough that she didn't want it, but I keep wondering what I could do to arouse her.
I walk into the club at around midnight and within minutes I meet an attractive girl and her friend. I dance with this girl, and within a couple of minutes we're making out. We go on making out on and off the dance floor for about an hour, her hands are all over my body and she clearly enjoys my company.
We then leave the place, walking hand in hand. I of course walk in the direction of my place. The vibe changed once we got out and the music turned off, we had some nice, interesting conversations, but from what I remember we didn't kiss after leaving the club. I thought that I could escalate the vibe as soon as we got to my place.
After walking for a while, I "realise" that her place is not the same direction as me. I suggest that we take the 10 min cab-ride to my place. She agrees, and I get really excited, thinking that this is going to be it. When we get in the cab, she sits down at the opposite side of the backseat from me, leaning towards the door. We chat a little with eachother and the cab driver, I thought that escalating in the cab wouldn't be the best bet.
Cab drops us off at my place, we go in. I ask if she wants some water. She drinks several glasses of water, and then while I'm in the bathroom, she undresses (down to her underwear and bra) and gets in bed. I turn of the light, thinking that I'm now going to try to escalate in the dark. She lies down with her head turned towards the wall, and I lay down behind her in a spooning position. I grab her hand, she grabs mine, and I begin caressing her head, neck and body with my other hand. She doesn't turn around, soon falls asleep and out of fear I'm not more persistent because you often hear about date rapes being committed in situations like these.
The next morning, when we wake up, we talk a little about what happened the night before, I try to seduce her yet again, but with no success. We eat breakfast together, and I play it cool throughout the entire encounter, careful to not show my disappointment, before we hug and she leaves.
She probably wasn't DTF that night, something that I of course fully respect, but I strongly believe that I had a chance to have sex with her that I flunked. I probably didn't escalate enough after leaving the club. Does anyone have any advice when it comes to escalating after leaving the place, and when you get home?
tl;dr: I took a girl home after an intense make out-session, we slept in the same bed, but we didn't have sex. Where did I go wrong? (if I did)
Therefore, what happened last weekend, getting a girl home, was a huge step forward for me. However, it has bugged me ever since that we didn't have sex, something I really wanted that night. Fair enough that she didn't want it, but I keep wondering what I could do to arouse her.
I walk into the club at around midnight and within minutes I meet an attractive girl and her friend. I dance with this girl, and within a couple of minutes we're making out. We go on making out on and off the dance floor for about an hour, her hands are all over my body and she clearly enjoys my company.
We then leave the place, walking hand in hand. I of course walk in the direction of my place. The vibe changed once we got out and the music turned off, we had some nice, interesting conversations, but from what I remember we didn't kiss after leaving the club. I thought that I could escalate the vibe as soon as we got to my place.
After walking for a while, I "realise" that her place is not the same direction as me. I suggest that we take the 10 min cab-ride to my place. She agrees, and I get really excited, thinking that this is going to be it. When we get in the cab, she sits down at the opposite side of the backseat from me, leaning towards the door. We chat a little with eachother and the cab driver, I thought that escalating in the cab wouldn't be the best bet.
Cab drops us off at my place, we go in. I ask if she wants some water. She drinks several glasses of water, and then while I'm in the bathroom, she undresses (down to her underwear and bra) and gets in bed. I turn of the light, thinking that I'm now going to try to escalate in the dark. She lies down with her head turned towards the wall, and I lay down behind her in a spooning position. I grab her hand, she grabs mine, and I begin caressing her head, neck and body with my other hand. She doesn't turn around, soon falls asleep and out of fear I'm not more persistent because you often hear about date rapes being committed in situations like these.
The next morning, when we wake up, we talk a little about what happened the night before, I try to seduce her yet again, but with no success. We eat breakfast together, and I play it cool throughout the entire encounter, careful to not show my disappointment, before we hug and she leaves.
She probably wasn't DTF that night, something that I of course fully respect, but I strongly believe that I had a chance to have sex with her that I flunked. I probably didn't escalate enough after leaving the club. Does anyone have any advice when it comes to escalating after leaving the place, and when you get home?
tl;dr: I took a girl home after an intense make out-session, we slept in the same bed, but we didn't have sex. Where did I go wrong? (if I did)