Quote: (08-10-2011 07:47 AM)K-man Wrote:
Harry, I'm not bad-mouthing Russian women at all - I love them and have dated quite a few.
We are speaking strictly of that MINORITY of Russian women who are willing to give up their country, language, culture, food, and loved ones in exchange for a green card. You have to agree that this subset is quite different from the typical Russian woman, and quite likely to be trouble.
And yes, all those women I wrote about in my first post are real. The one with the abuse charge was in 2004, I don't know if laws have changed since then, but she did file abuse charges because she simply couldn't stand her beta husband. She may have been willing to wait longer for the green card but not live under the same roof with the guy and be free to fuck bad boys in the meantime while she waits.
Of course I don't know their whole stories, this is their private business - I only know what they told me, and what their gossiping girlfriends told me.
Look I have no doubt it happens. Im not joking when I say that I would not be surprised if its predominantly Russian women who form a large chunk of that 20% who divorce.
But it needs to be put into perspective. In Russia, the average bloke is not the best looking, drinks hard and fucks around. So some cute like 7.5/8 hits the jackpot when an easy going beta rocks up and saves the day.
Thing is, Russian women are still women. All bitches are looking for the bigger, better deal no matter where you go in the world. It could be living in a hut in Ethiopia, it could be Angela Merkel, they are all the fucking same. Russian women, true to their nature, are just a little more blunt about the whole thing and they hold you to account. So when that guy who is 25 years older than her, or the chubby beta takes her to a country where she is surrounded by...
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go dutch with some poorly dressed, foul mouthed drunk who wont shut the fuck up about American Idol and the gossip at the office where she works as a senior trainee marketing development assistant manager. The rest of the night can be spent treating her like a child and entertaining her so you can stick your cock in a hole that has seen more sausage than a Bavarian German in October.
...she has no fucking competition does she? She has come from a country where 8's end up unmarried without children and gone to a country where fat heffers are getting half his shit and the kids.
Everyone talks about alpha and beta men, failing to understand that Russian women are alpha females when they are hot. They know it and they are not going to waste their energy on trivial shit most of the time. They need to be really attracted to you for you to stand a chance with them or you need to offer a lot.
As for only the damaged women wanting to leave Russia? Russia is fucked bro. Moscow and St Petersburg are not Russia. They live a very hard life and its one that is not that hard for them to leave. Opportunities are limited and many of the women want families with only unemployed drunks as potential husbands. Yes, there are many who are going to feel homesick I am sure, but there are just as many who wont go back for love or money either.
Its a cultural clash IMO, nothing more, nothing less