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10-06-2016, 11:13 AM
I'm struggling out here a bit, I think my eye contact could be improved as one piece.
If someone could break it down that would be great.
When I'm in conversation I only break eye contact when she does but during approaches during the day (as I walk up) pointers would be appreciated.
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10-06-2016, 11:43 AM
I think the key to eye contact is that are you able to show your intent just by looking at the girls eyes. If you are able to read what a girl is about to do or how she is going to move, I think that can tell a lot to the girl about you.
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10-06-2016, 01:51 PM
I recommend reading chapter about eyes in the book Body Language by Alan and Barbara Pease. It has really good information. That book is also used in colleges here in Croatia.
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10-08-2016, 07:08 AM
One question I ave is when you are passing her, how far before that should you make eye contact. 5 meters or 10 meters..?
I realize that smirking or smiling does not help at all. Opinions?
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10-08-2016, 08:12 AM
Quote: (10-08-2016 07:08 AM)Hazaer Wrote:
One question I ave is when you are passing her, how far before that should you make eye contact. 5 meters or 10 meters..?
I realize that smirking or smiling does not help at all. Opinions?
The real question is :
Do you plan to approach her or not ?
Tell them too much, they wouldn't understand; tell them what they know, they would yawn.
They have to move up by responding to challenges, not too easy not too hard, until they paused at what they always think is the end of the road for all time instead of a momentary break in an endless upward spiral
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10-08-2016, 08:52 PM
Quote: (10-08-2016 08:05 PM)Hazaer Wrote:
Quote: (10-08-2016 08:12 AM)blck Wrote:
Quote: (10-08-2016 07:08 AM)Hazaer Wrote:
One question I ave is when you are passing her, how far before that should you make eye contact. 5 meters or 10 meters..?
I realize that smirking or smiling does not help at all. Opinions?
The real question is :
Do you plan to approach her or not ?
Good question. I do look for positive IOIs before approaching.
So go read
this first and then read
this and finish with
this
Tell them too much, they wouldn't understand; tell them what they know, they would yawn.
They have to move up by responding to challenges, not too easy not too hard, until they paused at what they always think is the end of the road for all time instead of a momentary break in an endless upward spiral
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10-11-2016, 02:54 PM
Quote: (10-08-2016 11:54 PM)Hazaer Wrote:
Good posts. These seem more for night game. The common opinion in this forum seems to be to wait for IOIs when doing daygame and that is really where eye contact is important.
Night or Day, I'm not able to talk about it, I wanted to point the mindset more than the environment
Go read this thread also :
Low Level Game that's Effective
Tell them too much, they wouldn't understand; tell them what they know, they would yawn.
They have to move up by responding to challenges, not too easy not too hard, until they paused at what they always think is the end of the road for all time instead of a momentary break in an endless upward spiral