Do you avoid being seen in public with fat or ugly girls, even if you are not banging them? Does it lower your street cred?
Don't debate me.
Quote: (10-06-2016 01:54 PM)Irenicus Wrote:
It depends really.
If you are merely in a presence of an ugly woman, that does not mean anything. She might be your cousin whom you are showing the new outlet that just opened. She might be a college from Uni who is going to help you with homework.... .
But, assuming that you are a high SMV value male, being in a relationship with a ugly girl (or doing a "fluid exchange" in a public spot) ain't good. That shows that you do not have standards. That shows you that you are too "thirsty". And so on... .
Quote: (10-06-2016 08:09 AM)Dalaran1991 Wrote:
Why are you asking this? Is this a disguised self-confession? You are in South Africa, not the land of the obese.
Quote: (10-05-2016 09:59 PM)Gorgiass Wrote:
Some girls will probably view a guy talking to an uggo as a dlv, others won't care, others will view it as a positive. Hot girls go out with ugly and chubby friends all the time, if they viewed being seen with one as a dlv would they be seen with one themselves?
It's a dlv to guys, and us here in particular, because we view a woman's sex appeal as her primary value determinant generally. Women don't share this view.
And remember - there are few dlvs greater than standing alone nursing a beer. A guy having fun talking to an uggo and making her laugh is going to be more attractive to every girl in the place than the guy posted up by himself trying to look cool.
Quote: (10-07-2016 09:35 AM)Mjölnir Wrote:
Quote: (10-05-2016 09:59 PM)Gorgiass Wrote:
Some girls will probably view a guy talking to an uggo as a dlv, others won't care, others will view it as a positive. Hot girls go out with ugly and chubby friends all the time, if they viewed being seen with one as a dlv would they be seen with one themselves?
It's a dlv to guys, and us here in particular, because we view a woman's sex appeal as her primary value determinant generally. Women don't share this view.
And remember - there are few dlvs greater than standing alone nursing a beer. A guy having fun talking to an uggo and making her laugh is going to be more attractive to every girl in the place than the guy posted up by himself trying to look cool.
Not disagreeing with what you said, but...
Have you seen what girls say about betty when she's not around ?
"OMG, looks like betty put on 10 + lbs, like, if she wasn't heavy enough already"
"IKR !, perhaps if she wasn't drinking that many milkshakes HAHAHAHA"
Quote: (10-07-2016 09:35 AM)Mjölnir Wrote:
Girls hang with ugly girls because it makes them look better
Quote: (10-07-2016 09:35 AM)Mjölnir Wrote:
They don't see each others values based on the same rules that are applied when they look at a man, just like we don't see a man value like we see a chick's.
Quote: (10-07-2016 09:35 AM)Mjölnir Wrote:
And, about the holding the wall with a beer thing. I doubt that daniel craig suited up drinking a martini holding the wall looking for hotties would be a DLV. If he was talking to a fat ugly chick that would probably confuse the other girls and for some may be a DLV, how much worse would he be with those girls i'm not sure, but definitely wouldn't be better off with the uggo.
Quote: (10-07-2016 09:35 AM)Mjölnir Wrote:
But for "normal" guys I believe what you say is true, and if you're at least a 7 in looks + have style, it could be detrimental to your appeal to the prettier girls, they might think there's something wrong with you.